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NoFap - Why you should quit porn & masturbation !

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@Shin mmmm where is the contradiction? 


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14 minutes ago, LiakosN said:

@Shin mmmm where is the contradiction? 

You say in the last sentence to look at nudes to fap instead of using imagination.


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@Shin yup! To be clear.. Just watch the images and fap without imagination.. Just watch don't fantasize...

Masturbating using imagination is like watching a porn movie.. 


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10 minutes ago, LiakosN said:

@Shin yup! To be clear.. Just watch the images and fap without imagination.. Just watch don't fantasize...

Masturbating using imagination is like watching a porn movie.. 

And watching a porn picture is better ?

That is still you fapping to an imaginary woman ?


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@Shin Yup its better in my opinion because, although it is still imaginary, it isn't a "movie". 

The whole point of getting rid of pornography is getting rid of that movie.. 

So stop using the "movie" in your mind while fapping

 


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7 minutes ago, LiakosN said:

@Shin Yup its better in my opinion because, although it is still imaginary, it isn't a "movie". 

The whole point of getting rid of pornography is getting rid of that movie.. 

So stop using the "movie" in your mind while fapping

 

Can you really fap to an porn pic without being tempted to imagine anything ?

Wouldn't it be simpler to just not fap at all ?

May sound impossible and you may think you will always think about it or about sex,
In my experience it is not true at all, I rarely think of sex at all, and I'm still highly sexually attracted to beautiful woman I see during the day.
The difference is that it is not based on lust anymore, so there is nothing imaginary that happens.

And no I'm not a special snowflake, you can all do it.


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55 minutes ago, Shin said:

Can you really fap to an porn pic without being tempted to imagine anything ?

Wouldn't it be simpler to just not fap at all ?

May sound impossible and you may think you will always think about it or about sex,
In my experience it is not true at all, I rarely think of sex at all, and I'm still highly sexually attracted to beautiful woman I see during the day.
The difference is that it is not based on lust anymore, so there is nothing imaginary that happens.

And no I'm not a special snowflake, you can all do it.

Good point there.. Maybe not all the time during your "fapping session".. It's preferable than using your pure imagination for fapping.

Yup! Not fapping at all is ideal

I am interacting with the opposite sex daily due to my work and I do not feel lust either, I just enjoy their feminine presence ...


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When your mind tries to make you relapse by giving you a bdsm group sex

But you don't even like threesome

 

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It is the art of living fully

 

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And if I don't want to ? ?


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shin are you really in "actuality" doing this work ?

can you provide a modulation without the esoteric side, what did you get from your own journey ?

In term of sex health, sex attractiveness, whatever.

Still falling for porn sometimes ?
I would presume your view as a real value from my perspective, because you're aware of all the dogma side of things. Very curious to listen your story

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5 minutes ago, Aeris said:

 

can you provide a modulation without the esoteric side
 

What does that mean ?


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8 minutes ago, Shin said:

What does that mean ?

means imagine I m your teacher at university and you need to modulate for a low consciousness what does it means for you to start no fap and what are the benefit it provided for you :D ( but only if you want to take the class tho, I won't force you to give me your insight if you don't want so :( )

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