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NoFap - Why you should quit porn & masturbation !

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Day 30

 

 

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Spirituality is not the renunciation of life

It is the art of living fully

 

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@bejapuskas @youngshinzensorry@youngshinzensorry I didn't intend to quote you.

@bejapuskas thx man

@Shroomdoctor yes I do. I feel more free in the sense that I don't have urges to watch porn, sometimes I think about porn, but it is a fuzzy memory since abstaining from it. I also feel the lack of libido with my girlfriend, but that might be, because of relationship problems. I'm not an energetic person, but I feel more stable then before in my energy levels. 

I also experience some downsides. When I don't orgasm for 3+ days I will get blue balls if I'm very horny. This happens rather quickly which results in painfull orgasms and/or pain in my sex organs for hours or days in the worst case. 

 

Right now I'm back at my record 90 SOLID DAYS! The previous time I celebrated with masturbation, not so smart ofcours :p. Today I'm going to celebrate by baking pancakes!


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@Marinus I'm on day 10 now, having next to no cravings, I literally have to go deep into the fantasy world to feel anything, there are only positive effects, my meditation is way more effective. :) But when do these problems come? I mean, blue balls and pain is kind of scary, how do you deal with it, is it ok?

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7 minutes ago, bejapuskas said:

@Marinus I'm on day 10 now, having next to no cravings, I literally have to go deep into the fantasy world to feel anything, there are only positive effects, my meditation is way more effective. :) But when do these problems come? I mean, blue balls and pain is kind of scary, how do you deal with it, is it ok?

Never happened to me, and I rarely saw anyone talk about that anywhere in the NoFap community.

Must only be a minority that is affected.


Spirituality is not the renunciation of life

It is the art of living fully

 

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1 hour ago, bejapuskas said:

@Shin Love you man 

Can you prove it ? ?


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It is the art of living fully

 

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On 24.12.2018 at 3:37 PM, Gladius said:

According to Tao, a man in his 20s should ejaculate only once in 4 days. A man in his 30s once in 8 days, and so on.

seem resonable to me, can I ask where you get that from ?

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What about super saiyen ? ?


Spirituality is not the renunciation of life

It is the art of living fully

 

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@bejapuskas It is painful. I think I'm one of the unlucky guys, you might not have this blue balls problem at all. The low libido problem happend quite early on, this might be because I have been under a lot of stress so again maybe you won't have the same downsides as I have.

When I had blue balls my girlfriend and I would have sex or she would help me, but today we broke up so until I touch a girl again I won't have any blue balls. I never had blue balls before I had a girlfriend.

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@Marinus  Oh I see, thanks man. :D (should I feel sorry? I kinda don't feel any emotion coming from you + your situation is kind of two faced xD)

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Even a wet dream that wet all your pants still doesn't drain that much.

I only slept 3 hours this night and had a wet dream saturday night.

On a normal fap day I would be dead tired.


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It is the art of living fully

 

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Day 15 ? Feeling amazing. Also, when with a woman but not having sex, I can confirm the pain/blue balls thingy. Almost made me masturbate, but stayed strong and the next day it was gone. Happened to me several times already. I feel like it's boosting the energy level another notch so it has an upside.

Guys, I do have kind of my own opinions on this, but I would love to hear what you think. Of course I see the benefits of being completely unattached to lust, but is it really necessary to abstain from sex altogether? I don't (want to) think that removing yourself from your natural drives is the healthiest way to be unattached from them. Tao, Tantra and other spiritual traditions make sex even a way of spiritual growth and this seems much more mature and natural to me. 

I bet there are like two sides who will tell me the opposite. I personally want to live in the world, including sex, even if I have to learn by that that it actually did hold me back. Yeah, maybe not willing enough to sacrifice all, might be true. 

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