Spiral

There is certainly intersexual competition. Not just for men but for status among women. Like girls advice girls to cut there hair shorter if the other girl is prettier and vice versa. As well as very pretty girls will struggle more socially among women. Unless she’s very considerate and kind. Is this good or bad? idk. Everything has a cost

This stuff is easy. Don’t ask, don’t tell.

@SageMind Empathy is not rational, if you become resentful you’ll experience what that’s like and gain more understanding Although “suffer” isn’t good advice because it not something people generally seek out

Suffer

@NewKidOnTheBlock I’m the same

Everything has a cost, even spiritual development. I’m not sure I’d consider it worth it for me I would blame Leo if wasn’t so developed

Forummaxxing When you just hang out on the forum without really engaging in the pursuit of self-actualization. Videosplaining When you post a thread with a video without any explanation or giving a motivation for people to watch it

I’m skeptical of dog and cat ownership in general

As a Swede I think this is silly and unnecessary. However I don’t think this is particularly interesting or newsworthy

Feminism is fantastic for capitalism, rich people were central in getting in started after all. You can pay men less and get double the workforce essentially for free

@Natasha Tori Maru Perhaps locking this thread is for the best?

Personally I’d like a girlfriend, mostly because I’m lonely. However most of the girls I meet aren’t people I’d like to hang out with again. It’s not that they are mean or rude or whatever. Although that not unusual. It’s more that they are not interested. Like sure they might desire me on occasion. That’s great but they very rarely ask questions. They just talk about whatever they got on their mind. TLDR: Women don’t make me feel seen, so I’m not excited about hanging out with them.

Investing time and mental energy in the “gender war” is foolish. It’s a path towards resentment and fear

It’s like a muscle, you can study how to workout and that certainly helps. But getting good at it requires at lot of practice. Be really social, spend hours a day socializing and in the end you’ll be good at it. However you lose it if you don’t keep it up

Do you guys still have ice protests? Or no king ones. Protesting those things gives my green vibes