Spiral

@something_else Yeah of course. I consider promiscuous sex unethical in general. Whenever you are using people as a means to an end, you’re acting immorally.

@actuallyenlightened If I wanna sleep around and live in a big city. I try being anonymous, you can give false name(or none at all) and restrain from providing contact details. I don’t however.

I’m probably not going about this in the right way. I buy none alcoholic beer(sneaky style). I just don’t wanna have the conversation with my friends.

I completely agree with you here, but I’ve never really understood the appeal. Do you know the reason?

Assume you are always wrong to some degree. The human mind isn’t capable of fully understanding reality.

@shree Happy wife, happy life. That how it works unfortunately. It’s boring and you don’t care. I get it, I also couldn’t care less about those things. However relationships require work to work out.

I don’t have a good time with other people when I’m in a bad mood. Others don’t enjoy my company either. If it’s serious I would cancel and maybe try next weekend instead at least if it’s a first date. First impressions only happens once.

I have gone there with gay friend of mine. While I really had a fun time, I wouldn’t go there without none-straight company.

What’s wrong with pretty women? Or hot women? You seem to use the terms interchangeably.

It’s a matter of preference. It’s usual in business. It can be a wonderful thing, for the shamanic archetype not so much.

I find it sad that lasting relationships is kinda rare and that so many kids have to grow up in single parents households. Like I was.

Only a poor product or service requires marketing.

So a regular relationship?

@meta_male Yeah it worked out fine, I’ll probably hang out with her again. I’m great with conversation in person it’s really just the texting bit that I’m struggling with. We did make out and she wanted to hook up.

@meta_male I don’t really date at all. In this case it was setting up a meetup with strangers. While it isn’t people I look up to(nor down on) it’s so common I must be doing something wrong. Like for instance We ended up chatting on an anonymous forum. The reason was that both of us wanted to have a meetup and she asked me to tell her more about myself. I told her my age, gender and that I was new in town(it’s not clear in that forum). Minimalistic absolutely but we’ll get to talk more on the meetup. That was super boring apparently.