Women have wildly different interests than men

[OBEler]

Disclaimer: just my observation. I love women. To men reading this thread: You don't need to protect women here, let's just discuss which observation is correct. This thread is about showing the true face of women.To women reading this thread: I know you are a special snowflake but we talk about the general women out there.

 

People can say through history womens voices and interests were suppressed but for first time in history through the Internet women can do whatever they want and show their true face.

So while men love to engage in topics just for the sake of it like politics, history, tech, ki, UFOs, games women are rarely interested in these. 

This is what a typical woman podcast looks like:

https://youtu.be/OBhchAb3x0s?si=TK--M6Nte_xBG8xx

This is how women talk about tech stuff:

https://womeninrobotics.org/news/

They are celebrating themselves. They are not really interested in robotics, more like what can robotics do for themselves (getting a job, connect etc). Have a look for yourself.

Forums are an invention of men. Women don't like these because it's about looking for truth and they don't care about these idealistic things. Women are mostly pragmatic and their thoughts are about personal stuff and feelings rather than about abstract things.

I know for many people what I say here is common sense but for me it is still always shocking to see how different men and women behave. 

Edited yesterday at 12:57 PM by OBEler

[Schizophonia]

39 minutes ago, OBEler said:

I love women. 

lol

[OBEler]

@Schizophonia I love you too.

[Schizophonia]

Obviously I come across op because I am mirrored with him, even if I choose to project.

I would say that it brings me back to my fear, my prohibition of thinking with my dick; that is to say choosing a girl because she is easy to have, because she is pretty, sexy etcetc rather than a girl who is good for "superego" reasons (Intelligent, spiritual...)

And what's behind that is not wanting to fill my emotional/sensual/feminine sphere; I don't know Jung too well but maybe @Emerald would talk about anima.

And what there is in fact in the end is the fear of being masculine, that is to say of assuming the phallic function; that is to say, playing at making oneself responsible for things.

It's something I've contemplated in my sexual fantasies; the smaller I feel, the more life crushes me, the more I fantasize about feminine girls.
The emptier I am, the more "masculine" they will be.

 

[Schizophonia]

5 minutes ago, OBEler said:

@Schizophonia I love you too.

Heterosexual kiss

[Natasha Tori Maru]

You poor thing 

 

[OBEler]

27 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

You poor thing 

 

You are maybe the only active girl on this forum now amongst hundreds of men. All these topics besides off topic and relationship are pure manly. 99% of these threads you see on this forum are opened by men. An exception was the journal area, there women opened threads on their own so they can speak about themselves - one of the few things that matter to them.

How do you feel here, do I represent general women correctly?

Edited yesterday at 10:24 AM by OBEler

[theleelajoker]

@OBElerTwo things I wonder:

First: Why does it matter so much what general "women" do or don't do? If you want to have a positive impact, then why not talk to the women in your direct sphere of influence instead posting here? Or establish an organization to help women develop their potential, or whatever...don't know where you are going with this.  Re some random women in the links above, your post won't change anything, will it?

Second: I see enough men in my city, in my circle of people sitting around smoking, getting drunk, talking tits and ass, and other BS. You can ALWAYS pick examples where human do some stuff you don't think it "good" "right" "productive" etc. 

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Women don't like these because it's about looking for truth and they don't care about these idealistic things. Women are mostly pragmatic and their thoughts are about personal stuff and feelings rather than about abstract things

As far as I can see it as of now: You experience - at least to a large degree -  what you project on others via believes, thoughts, actions, your energetic structure. Don't know how exactly it works. But I have a lot of discussions with a lot of women about a lot of abstract stuff, truth etc. The more I dive into these topics, the more I talk about it , the more it happens. 

Yesterday afternoon I met a woman I now from school, we spent most of the time talking about abstract things. Last night I was out in a club, met a girl on the dance floor, we later talked. She talked about a hike she will be doing, on her own, one week. Because she wants to experiences solitude and silence. Since she was interested in silence, I mentioned Vipassana, she was very interested and asked me very abstract, very pointed questions about absolute silence, reflections across humans, the point of absolute stillness she wonders about etc. There was another one, same club, same night, I talked to while waiting in line, we talked about existence and the choices you might have or nor have in existing. Discussions like that happens a lot to me, not long ago another girl explained to me her perspective of the dimension of time, how she thinks we humans experience time, how she can dive into time/space dimensions during certain experiences etc. Thursday I'll meet with another woman, she's has been doing a lot of Vipassana and want to dig deeper, we first meet at mediation event and then catch up later. I could go on, just giving examples that it happens regularly for me and that there are - in my field of awareness - plenty of women talking about truth, idealistic things, etc etc.  And before you say "it's your area it's not happening where I live" - naaaah, happens everywhere for me.

Recently, we had a discussion in another thread, about how awaken you are due to psychedelics, and how you see how reality is created..can't you see how you have an impact in creating the kind of people you are meeting in daily life? They are not fully external and independent from you, so if you only see women that are not interested in these things, and I see a lot of them...how come? It is really that "women" are like that? Give it a thought, that's all I can say

 

Edited yesterday at 12:02 PM by theleelajoker

[OBEler]

@theleelajoker I am not here for helping women, I am not here to change anything. I am just observing nature and share it with you and see if it fits. It is very simple and direct. No hidden agenda. Why I choose women is because women are a big part of our reality we live in.

I mean something different than you I am not new age. You mix here completely everything around.

It's like starting a discussion about how crypto could have a comeback in the future and you come to me with "can't you see how you create the kind of impact on cryptos going up or down? Bitcoin is now over 100k , can't you see that you created that?" To be honest, It's annoying.

Edited yesterday at 12:18 PM by OBEler

[theleelajoker]

13 minutes ago, OBEler said:

@theleelajoker I am not here for helping women, I am not here to change anything. I am just observing nature and share it with you and see if it fits. It is very simple and direct. No hidden agenda. Why I choose women is because women are a big part of our reality we live in.

 

Ok.

1) Not having the same observation you are having. 

2) Among an infinity of topics to report your observations, you choose THIS ONE. What's the real reason? Many things are big part of our life. 

Edited yesterday at 12:21 PM by theleelajoker

[OBEler]

@theleelajoker

I have started many other topics. You behave as if it is somehow forbidden to talk about a topic about a large group of humans. Or can you tell me why you are reacting so protective? Do you want to keep the image of a certain woman? Then this thread is not for you maybe. Again read my disclaimer.

Edited yesterday at 12:35 PM by OBEler

[theleelajoker]

2 hours ago, Schizophonia said:

Obviously I come across op because I am mirrored with him, even if I choose to project.

I would say that it brings me back to my fear, my prohibition of thinking with my dick; that is to say choosing a girl because she is easy to have, because she is pretty, sexy etcetc rather than a girl who is good for "superego" reasons (Intelligent, spiritual...)

And what's behind that is not wanting to fill my emotional/sensual/feminine sphere; I don't know Jung too well but maybe @Emerald would talk about anima.

And what there is in fact in the end is the fear of being masculine, that is to say of assuming the phallic function; that is to say, playing at making oneself responsible for things.

It's something I've contemplated in my sexual fantasies; the smaller I feel, the more life crushes me, the more I fantasize about feminine girls.
The emptier I am, the more "masculine" they will be.

 

@SchizophoniaInteresting take btw. I get you right, you're saying it's about taking responsibility for your experience vs. seeing yourself as victim?

 

Edited yesterday at 12:41 PM by theleelajoker

[Puer Aeternus]

When will you get tired of this obsession.

You keep coming back to this topic. You talk only of ideas that feed your own narrative and it's obvious to anyone who isn't you.

It has irritated me in the past to see you hurt yourself like this and I'm sorry for that. But I am not irritated, I just wonder when this will all stop? If it will? 

What is it really about? It isn't about the truth. And I'm not going to argue with you on that, because it will go nowhere. 

This men care about truth, women don't. You can make disclaimers that I question if you even mean all you want.

What is this really about? Eh? Good luck.

 

[OBEler]

@Puer Aeternus 

"You talk only of ideas that feed your own narrative"

Yes so I share it here for discussion, everyone can agree or disagree. So what's wrong with that exactly?

It's very important to understand the feminine part in human. If you dismiss that or if you are triggered by that ask yourself whats really going on with you, if you have some issues or something.

[Hojo]

They act so fake. I can see it literally everywhere. Their voices go higher they all try to act as if they are the nicest person in existence. I cannot take them seriously because you know its an act no one talks like that. Do people like unauthenticity that much? Like wow I love this woman she is so inauthentic? Do they not understand they don't even know the person who they are watching is like a robot. 

If someone talked to me like that my head would be yelling danger danger danger. I have autism and automatically match/mirror the other person in conversations but it would not be possible for me to mirror that.

That and talking about feelings more than logic trigger me.

Edited 23 hours ago by Hojo

[OBEler]

@Hojo actually there was a marketing research where customers reacted more positively even they know the friendlyness of the company was just an total act. 

Something in our brain will still be manipulated even if we see through the act women play. But yeah some women with their baby voice are doing it too much. 

[Hojo]

@OBEler I think i see the manipulation and my brain goes, you are lying to me I don't know how to respond so one word answers. Customer service it works cause you are using them as essentially chat gpt to get what you want.

Edited 23 hours ago by Hojo

[OBEler]

@Hojo I mean manipulation tactics like greeting cards or birthdays wishes etc.

[Puer Aeternus]

30 minutes ago, OBEler said:

Yes so I share it here for discussion, everyone can agree or disagree. So what's wrong with that exactly?

I do believe you think it's a discussion.

But to me, in a discussion both parties are open to changing their mind. From what I've observed here in the past on this topic, don't think that's going to be happening. 

[OBEler]

@Puer Aeternus well this topic is clearly triggering you.