Karmadhi

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  3. Posted · Edited by Karmadhi

    @Leo Gura I am sure he put more effort than most people do so you cannot say he is leeching off anything. What is leeching is the people that post some duck shit selfies and get bombarded with 100 thirsty people.

    What Tinder should do (they will never do it) is to forcefully increase the amount of likes a women should give and to reduce the amount of likes a man should give. What happens in real life is that a man due to being naturally a "hunter" goes and talks to let's say 10 girls and he gets 1 of them. Meanwhile a girl gets approached by 10 guys and picks 1 of them. She can be somewhat picky here. In online dating because it is so easy what happens is that now a guy does not "talk to" 10 girls but to  1000 girls instead. Here "talking" is replaced by "liking" their profiles. Meanwhile a girl gets liked by  1000 guys. So if in real life she had 10 guys to pick from, here she has 1000. 100 times more options, of course her pickiness here will be other world because she can get away with it. Guys would to if they could but they can't. Therefore i think online dating needs some regulations just like markets need it. If markets are not regulated a few firms will create crazy monopolies and starve everyone else. Just like here in online dating, the top  1 percent of guy profiles will monopolize all women and starve all the other guys. In economics people say government regulation is needed to avoid this, well it is needed here too i think. And before you say "just get a better profile" and problem solved, well good luck competing with the top 1 percent of guys, with that logic governments should not regulate markets since those small businesses should compete against the mega monopolies. It creates bad results.

    What would be good is if guys came to their senses and actually developed some standards but they will never do that because they are too thirsty and lonely. A starving man will be willing to eat spoiled bread and be happy with it

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    @jerrypua Of course he is better than me. But there are a lot of dating advice channels out there and you are acting like they do not exist and only this guy is worth taking notes from.

    Coray Wayne, PlayingwithFire, The Natural Lifestyles, John Anthony Lifestyle, Trip Advice, Dan Bacon, School of Attraction to name a few. Why should i care to watch Tyler talk videos when i have seen material from all of these? Sure he might say something new or unique to his style but the main principles have already been covered after watching these people i wrote above.

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    1. Reading some basic books about being more social

    2. Visualizion every day like 10 minutes of you being social outgoing etc

    3. Meditation which helps you be in the present moment.

    4. ACTUALLY BEING SOCIAL and meeting people.

    5. Be social in a conscious way so you can improve fast.

    6. Do Leo's funny filtering thing (Watch his video: How to be funny) and practice it while out.

    Honestly just being social is like 85 percent of the whole thing but the other 5 points will maximize your results fast. However doing all the other 5 points BUT not being social will not do shit for you, so BE SOCIAL.

    By social i mean meeting new people as often as you can, learning to enjoy small talk, trying to be funny and a goofball (at least for practice), become geniounly interested in other people. If you really want to supercharge it try to become social with members of opposite sex, that will grow you a lot. Also try to find a healthy balance between being honest and unfiltered and being a mean dick. 

    Practice, practice, practice. I used to be super shy and not social and in time it gets fixed but you need to do it a lot. See any interaction as practice and a chance to improve, do not focus a lot whether this person liked you or not. Just see it as a chance to grow.

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    Stop ideolizing that guy. You are making him to be like he is the best at this and all the other coaches suck. There are plenty of great coaches that i have seen dozens of videos of and therefore i have enough theory to last me a long time. I want some infield stuff to see how the theory is applied before applying it myself. You can understand game without watching Owen theory talks since the main principles of game are well known among most good coaches are there.

  9. Posted · Edited by Karmadhi

    I checked it. It is mostly talk stuff. I wanted more in field stuff not tyler talking and telling us things we have heard from every dating coach out there. If you guys have a 30 minute recorded interaction in field would be super appreciated.

    @Leo Gura You can see how similar his style of videos is to your first videos. You were influenced by them right?

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    @Etherial Cat  How do you feel when you see a tasty pizza and instead you have to eat a salad because it is better for your health even though you enjoy the pizza 100 times more and will crave it 100 times more than the salad after you take 1 bite of it. That is how you girls feel when you pick the good guy versus the asshole.

    You can read all the books you want and suffer from obesity for 30 years and then start eating healthy, however you will always find that pizza more plain enjoyable than the salad even if you know LOGICALLY the salad is 100 times better for you. The pizza will not get less tasty because it caused you to become fat and to suffer from obesity. It will not get less tasty after you read about what it does to your body. It will always be tasty, however if you are wise you will prefer healthy stuff over pure dopamine hedonistic stuff.

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    @Hulia

    27 minutes ago, Hulia said:

    It depends on other personality traits. But intuitively I would expect a shy nerd to be more sensitive and intelligent

     

    36 minutes ago, Gesundheit said:

    You don't have to force yourself to fit into the "alpha" archetype in order to become attractive. You can be introverted and attractive. A lot of girls vibe with that kind of guys. But you have to have a good career and good education etc... because otherwise what do you have? Even you would not want to date yourself if you're just an introverted loser. So having your survival figured out is key. Once your survival is figured out, you won't have much trouble with getting laid

    Leo had a successful business, a college degree, doing well financially, not fat, very intelligent, was more self actualized than like 90 percent of guys out there and yet he had no results with girls like at all until he started doing pick up. Being shy, and logical will hurt you in a way that females cannot really comprehend. Girls tend to be judged less for being shy in attraction terms so of course you cannot relate as much.

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    @Hulia Do not use very good looking, famous rich guys as examples. Use the shy nerd at school that is a nobody as an example. I am curious to know whether you would be attracted to the shy nerd or to the strong charismatic guy. Saying introverts are attractive and showing the top 1 percent fame, social status and looks wise is not a good example.

    Also as anime fan all the "introverted" characters tend to be bad asses that are very powerful, feared and get shit done. They display strength. Sasuke, Capitain Levi are two examples which come to the top of my head.

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    @Etherial Cat

    1 hour ago, Etherial Cat said:

    Because it is simply not true.

    This whole narrative that women are into psychopath is a toxic belief.

    This wears off with individual and societal development.  

    You have no idea how much easier my life would have been if I would have decided that all I wanted was an asshole.

    2 hours ago, StarStruck said:

    Not psychopaths but just assholes. What you say logically is irrelevant. What matters is how you feel. What makes you feel more willing to sleep with someone? That is what actually matters. Logical talk from girls will not get guys laid or give them a girlfriend.

  25. Posted · Edited by Karmadhi

    @Leo Gura Thing is that people want to get fast quick and not go through a lot of failure that is why they over analyze everything in these threads. They want to become good with as little effort as possible so they want to avoid all the traps and mistakes people can make. Approaching seems so scary to them (me too) that we would rather learn all this shit beforehand than have to do even 10 more approaches to learn it through experience.  It is not that they are being generally lazy per say, but they are being lazy regarding approaches. You have people that procrastinate approaching by going to the gym and thinking they need to be buffed first or rich first. Basically even the most difficult things like gym, work, diet, lots of reading, meditation etc can be used as distraction just not to approach. That is how scary it is. 

    Ps: not defending anyone, just explaining their logic behind all these questions maybe you already know this stuff and experienced it but oh well :P