Princess Arabia

Men are out here chasing women instead of chasing careers and status to attract the women. Notice how easy it is for men of status to get women. Instead of calling women gold-diggers or money hungry or manipulators, maybe try and see from their point of view. Lots of men don't mind providing and providing protection the best they can for the 'right' woman. The woman that appreciates and respects them for their efforts. Those men get their rewards just from being with the woman herself and not what she brings to the table. Her presence is enough for them which enables her to be in her feminine in their presence. She can maneuver both traits back and forth when needs be but usually is almost in her feminine around him. He feeds off of that. A lot of women become masculine because they are left on their own to fend for themselves. They get chewed up and spit out by men who can't see beyond her on a sexual level or the beauty that emanates from her being. They'll want to use her for their pleasure and also expects her to do all the work like raising children and doing house-work. That can mentally drain a woman and cause her to become bitter towards men and causes her to be in her masculine and close off her feminine side as a protective mechanism.

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This thread is very erotic. It kind of touches that erotic zone. The kind that makes you want to make love. Unlike that other thread where someone wanted to stick something in someone's ass. 🤣🤣See the difference. @integralYou done it again, you instigator you. You made me start thinking about the best sex i ever had. Maybe will never be duplicated and doesn't have to be.

Yeah, I guess it depends on the circumstances. Here in the US when I lived in apartments they always had extra keys that could access the apartment but only for emergency or if locked out and was free of charge. This was years ago and things could have changed now with all the digital stuff going on. So yeah, general advice there. You're right, though, locksmiths are brutal and the business can be a rip off. Just don't break into a locksmith shop, they'll fine you double in court and charge you triple just for showing up. Hehe

It's love because love is the absence of separation and there's none. Love is unity. The individual wants to "stick that dick into that ass" a forum member said that and because it seeks love and unity. I got upset by those terms because I saw a lack of love and unity. We seek what we think we lack. There's actually no seeker, only appears that way. Those words were said but by themselves. The anger towards those words was anger appearing. Energy turned to anger. No one did that. There's no one to do anything. It's all energy appearing including the person that may seem to say there's an avoidance of responsibility for one's actions. I invite for anyone to explain to me in detail or even slightly how they get angry or sad or moody or happy or whatever. Please explain to me the mechanics involved. Not why you got angry or the thing or circumstance that made you angry, but how you made anger appear. How you made sadness appear. How you build a chair and a house can be explained and taught. How the hands moved to build the house cannot be explained. Maybe scientifically but there will always be a gap somewhere as to how the motion was generated. It will always lead back to energy. God is energy it us how the hands moved. It is how the hands appear to not move (maybe a stroke or an accident). Also an appearance. God appearing as a stroke or accident victim. A new car can appear to make someone happy but that someone cannot explain how that happiness was generated. It happened all on it's own. Everything is happening all on it's own including the appearance of a dead body. That body is no more dead or alive than you seem to be. It's an appearance just as a chair is an appearance. There was never anyone in that body. No soul or entity. Just a body. A dead body is not a body that died. There is just an appearance of a dead body. There is no real continuity. That's the dream. When I say this is magic, that's what I meant simply unexplained magic. No one can explain how this is done because it's not being done. It is simply BEING. Being cannot explain being, it just simply fucking is.

God doesn't dream up crappy lives. There is no God that's dreaming. There is no one that's dreaming. THE DREAM IS THE INDIVIDUAL. The dream is the one that thinks God dreams. The dream is the one that thinks it has a life and stands on its own. The dream is not real. There is actually no dream, meaning there is no individual. There is just energy appearing to be an individual. God is energy. There are appearances. Appearances means there's nothing actually happening only appears to be. A rainbow appears when the conditions also appear for it to be a rainbow and those conditions also appears when conditions appear for them to be so and so on. A sneeze appears maybe after being exposed to pollen and a cough after exposed to smoke and a yawn after feelings of tiredness, etcetc. Everything is in relation to another thing simply because they have no true reality on their own. They are appearances. There is actually no relation, only appears that way. All appearances are empty. They have no substance to them. They cannot be grasped or held unto. They are not owned. They don't belong to anyone. That's the dream. This is energy speaking to energy. Responding and relating to energy. There's energy that has taken form to appear as........it's empty. Energy can become anything including the appearance of people seeming to be living crappy lives; including a forum where a poster asks why does God dream up crappy lives; including a reader that reads this and says she's full of shit. That's energy. The thoughts are energy, the ideas, the concepts the chair and the dog. The blood, the heart, the everything. All appearances, all empty and void of meaning and substance. There's a type of energy that thinks it's a separate energy. Somehow it ate from the tree of knowledge that knowledge thinks it knows (metaphor and analogy , didn't really happen, but that's what the story means). Now that energy appears to have a life of it's own, appears to have free will and choice, see other and thinks they're also separate from it and the rest of the shebang. Energy itself isn't dreaming, the body, which is also energy, feels like there's someone in there driving it, it appears to have feelings, emotions, sensations and is thinking and have control over itself. That's an illusion and the dream. It's not happening be cause that energy was never cut off in the first place and is not separate. I'm not teaching anyone anything, this is energy appearing as someone trying to convey a message to other energy forms. It's an illusion. It feels real to the individual and can appear to have consequences. This is not to say life doesn't appear to go on and the felt sense isn't real. It is but tell me one person that ever made it out alive. Not one. Why is it that no one will ever live forever. Ever. Because it's just bodies, an appearance. Do you ever see a rainbow lasting for 100years. Do you see anything that appears, appears forever, maybe suffering but you get the drift. Nothing can appear and last forever. It cannot stand on it's own. It's not appearing out of anything because that thing has had to also appear out of something and so on. IT IS NOTHING BEING. Full on. No middle man.......to be continued. The brain is seeming to shut down and the thoughts appearing and the mind believing...lost it.

I believe if it's an apartment building with an office and onsite workers, they'll have access to his unit if he's ever locked out, if that's what you're referring to about the locksmith.

It doesn't matter anyway because there's no one to decide to do or not do anything to not get anywhere or to get anywhere. Things are going to happen regardless and they are seemingly happening all on their own. So if someone goes in a cave because they believe they won't get anywhere or if someone keeps doing spiritual practices because they think they'll get somewhere, it's all being done by the Absolute being those circumstances and situations without a person in these bodies. Nothing can be done or not done to avoid, get or not get anywhere. It's life being life. Even your message is the Absolute talking to itself using a computer screen. One cannot apply non-duality. It's not even a real thing anyway. It can't be escaped. It tries to escape itself but it can't. It's stuck, but it doesn't know that or maybe it's just pretending. It's all there is. It's not getting anywhere or going anywhere but it can still appear as it's going somewhere or not. It can appear as anything.

lol. You make me laugh sometimes. Get some rest. I sure am now. Going to bed. Goodnight.

I've decided to have my own discussion on the topic. My personal views in the moment and how I see dating and relationships and the man/woman dynamic. Anything said here will be what's thought about in the moment, feelings can change, opinions can change world views can change, and nothing in this field is set in stone. It's very personal to the perceiver and no two will see it the same. Sometimes I may speak through emotions and sometimes logic; maybe from observation, maybe from instinct and from different states I'm in in the moment. Feel free to come on in and share your own perspective on what's being said. I won't bite unless you bite first and I'll be gentle with the wounds I project. It'll all be projections because of the nature of this topic. It's all a matter of personal opinion and the stories we've created about ourselves and each other. I'll try to not take it on a spiritual level and keep it practical and on the level of everyday life; but because I've had a radical perceived shift in consciousness and lots of views have been apparently recontexualized, it may go there at times. It doesn't matter as it's all the same bullshit and nothing is taken here very seriously except the concept of seriousness itself. I have my own views and they will be different from how others see them at times, so don't take it personally. I will be sharing my own opinions and that's all they will be as there are no facts in life only what we deem so.

When you start to have ideas in your head about what it is you think I'm saying, you'll misread me and recontextualize my words to suit your idea of what you think I'm saying. I never said men ain't shit. I don't even talk like that to myself about men. Why would I say men ain't shit. Sounds like an angry woman just blasting men because they did her wrong. No man has ever did me wrong. No man has ever cheated on me. No man has ever left me for someone else and the list goes on. I simply say some men are whores and they put women down for being whores too. Nothing complicated about that. With me, there are no complications. Just straight and direct. I get paid so why would I be upset with men. It's the stupid women who give their all to men for nothing who are angry with men. Who give up their pussies for free for a man's gratification and who doesn't give a shit about her that's angry at men. It's the ones that "I loovveeeee you" without getting a ring or provisions made for them that are angry at men. I'm not angry at men, i just think some are hippocrites for bashing women while they can go around whoring down the town and get praised for it. I shouldn't get upset though, because that only shows how low value they see themselves in that way and the more the merrier because they hit the prize and the jackpot. Women do not need to praise each other for giving away their prized possession they praise each other for scoring the jackpot of a provider and a protector who cares about them and their well being.

I said this but "men ain't shit" and "men aren't worth shit" are saying two different things. In the context I used it it's obvious I meant their sexuality isn't worth anything and I mean monetarily. Whether that's true or not is besides the point and doesn't mean because I said it makes it so. Not sure why you quoted the other quotes. Neither implies I'm saying men ain't shit.

I'm through with this thread. There are way better and more important things to discuss than where Samibijen wants to stick his dick like the US launching attacks on Iran and what that might mean for the future of the US. If not, I'd rather discuss cat videos.

No need to, just go home and jerk off.

I'm not a feminist. Don't care to be. I just want men to leave women alone when they act like they do and worse. I get told to smile from strange men who think I'm here to walk around and please their fantasies of a smiling woman saying hi to them so I can build up their ego. SMILE youlre on candid camera, while they're looking serious and shit. My resting bitch face ain't no joke.

I never said men ain't shit. That's a bit overboard. I only called their ways whorish and hippicritical, which it is, imo.

No, I wasn't saying for warning points, far from it. I like Samijibien, I don't want him to get warning points for it. Just acknowledge his tone and ask him to tone it down a bit for respect reasons. I was told to tone my down for way less explicit language. I know Leo wasn't warning me or saying anything bad its just I was joking around and told too much information while a male can state how his dick would be nice in a girls ass and gets advice on how to do it next time. I'm not that upset about the whole situation. The main thing I'm kinda ticked about is how women get flack for way worse or when hooker and prostitute or onlyfans threads get started how the women get talked about while the men here can just flaunt their whoring ways, yes I call it that, and how they'd like to stick their dicks somewhere but a female asks about putting naked pictures on only fans (Ms, Nobody started a thread on this) to get paid and she gets advice not to because its demeaning and the rest if the hooker and prostitute comments demonizing the women that does it. Thats where mt problem is. I don't care if he wants to stick his dick in some strangers ass, but it seems that gets welcomed and cheered on but hookers making a living to feed their families are ostracized or even called low conscious behavior. Its hippocritical.

A man jiggling his intention for security for a woman and providing and protecting her can turn a woman on also.

Never did. Please don't read into what you think I'm saying; see my words for exactly what they are. Never called you that. Infact i'm not sure if I even attacked your character and personality. I'd have to review all I've said. If I did, let me apologize early for that. I know the difference between attacking someone's character VS attacking a behavior of the character. Saying someone lied VS calling them a liar are two different things.

. You just don't have a clue. It's not the titties or the ass or the wallet, those are symbols, it's what make men tick vs what makes most women tick, the wallet symbolizes protection and providing, the tits and ass symbolizes how men look at women and how sexually they get turned on. A woman can actually get wet from the sight of money - literally. She can get physically turned on and want to have sex. Biology is also at play here for the wallet analogy. Of course I was just "analogizing" here and it's not about tge money perse but what it symbolizes. Lots of women, hookers or not feels safer with a man that's established and can take care of her. I won't get into that but that can give rise to the same emotions a man can feel when he looks at a beautiful woman.

I'm just showing how the bias is. How we are expected to or not to say certain things but when men carry on with worse language it gets cheered on or given advice on how to do it better next time. I'm showing this so men don't think we have it as easy as they think. We get stepped on, criticized and judged for not being the prized ladies they so want us to display. This is why I say women are the prize because of what's expected from us. If men didn't think we were they wouldn't cheer on their raunchy counterparts and make women the villains for acting slutty. Prizes don't act that way and say those things. Be a lady. We're counting on you to live up to your prized identity. It's all laid out, we're just not seeing it for what it is.

Please, this is not projected at you personally just an example, so please don't ban me or warn me. Lol Regarding this statement you made up top in this quote, how about this, "go fuck yourself" or "could you please just go away and leave me alone", Do you see the difference in tonality. In real life there's no one to ban me if I said go fuck yourself to; but on a forum yes. There's a time and a place for everything and he didn't have to use those languages to express how he felt and could have toned it down a bit and shown some respect to and for others reading. It's even more disgusting how the men on here don't even see anything wrong with how vulgar he was. If that was a female, sheld be looked down upon and told to use better language. Problem is there wouldn't be one talking like that about men she doesn't even know and especially out the boy on a public forum. Have you ever see that language from a female here talking about men she doesn't even know. No, only from men who don't give a damn with how they're coming across infront of other women because they don't respect them. Once I said something about my labia majora in response to something someone said and that was my explicit response and Leo told me to tone it down and was too much information. If I can find it, I'll post it here. I'm telling you, it's offensive to me how we as women get treated while men can just get away with raunchy behavior and even cheered on. Here found it. I was told to tone it down, too much info.

I just love that man's wallet. Hels ugly but all that money makes him look attractive. I'm just fantasizing about how I can get him to spend his money on me and take me shopping. Oohh yeah, give me that fucking money, jiggle it in front of me and take me to the bedroom and shower it all over me then get the fuck out. Ooh yeah baby all I want you for is your money and that wallet and your bank account. That's hard not to think about when I see how fat your juicy wallet is. Come here baby, the enrapturing vision of that wallet with a thousand dollars in it being mine, so overwhelming in the moment. Goddamnn, that wallet. How's that sound. Imagine you didn't make the post you made and I started a post entitled 'WALLET PICK-UP out the blue and said everything you said but exchanging tits, ass and pussy for a man's wallet and described it the same way you did but using language appropriately to fit the wallet example like I did. How do you think that post would be received by a bunch of mainly men on the forum. Probably not too well. Well it's the same thing but in reverse. Think about that.