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I'd say it depends on how hard you push. If you handle logistics elegantly, it actually doesn't feel like force. It just feels effortless. Like when a husband perfectly plans out a vacation and handles all the details so the wife can just relax. If you broadcast fuck boy vibes and push for sex too soon, then yeah that might turn off mature women looking for something long-term. Even mature women will appreciate some convenience and leading. They may just not need as much.

That sounds somewhat exaggerated. Phytic acid barely even binds to heme-iron as far as I know. It's mostly about plant-sources. You might be right overall though, it could be superior to just eat the white rice if you feel like meat already gives you everything you need.

Actually this is pretty similar to what it's like in a fraternity. One of the best things for getting laid if you're in a fraternity is to live in the house, ideally with a single room.

You do want to be careful about "buyer's remorse". Sometimes it's better to slow things down.

I don't follow that part. Phytic acid is an anti-nutrient, but I would think you're still likely going to end up with more minerals overall compared to eating white rice.

Apparently "fibermaxxing" is a trend:

You can take that approach, but you will get laid less. If you don't care, that's your choice. You are not doing deep bonding during a ONS. This is nonsense. Serious bonding comes afterwards, if at all. Maybe if you're a woman. Most of the time you do not explicitly talk about it at all. It's all implicit. Because it's too much bonding. The whole point of a ONS is that you don't get attached. You have a superficial, fun experience and then release each other. If you get too attached, it will either ruin the ONS, escalate to a long-term relationship or end up with someone getting their feelings crushed. The idea that you're going to form some super-deep bond, then have a ONS and happily release each other is nonsense. That's not how it happens.

It's not a joke at all. One night stands pretty much always hang by a thread and are mostly about conveinence. You're riding a good wave of energy. Too many logistical problems tend to ruin things. 20 or 30 minutes is certainly still possible, but it does make it more complicated. Try it your way if you disagree. If you've known the girl for a while, that does change the dynamic. Then it's less about convenience because you're already bonded. The problem with a ONS is there is still very little bond or investment between you. No, because you're driving. You can talk and that's about it. Connecting too much at that point is awkward because you're not a couple. You need to keep some distance.

@ImagineEverything solid work! Sounds like you got it.

@RendHeaven more carbs than I thought, especially since you're obvious not going for micronutrients. What's the rationale?

Guys like Bezos usually have a wife. They're not the biggest playboys because they're too serious for that. Being a playboy means you need to party a lot. Partying is how you get laid, not serious business meetings.

Some women will interpret lack of jealousy as lack of containment. Are you really taking ownership of the relationship if you're so flippant over who she sleeps with? Not saying it has to be that way, just pointing out a potential trap.

I’ve never had a problem with “stability” in meditation. I don’t think that’s a serious concern for most people. I’ve done 1000+ hours of meditation just sitting crossed legged. I usually just use one or two pillows, maybe a cushion. If I’m feeling lazy, I might also lean against a wall. That’s plenty of stability. I’ve not tried sitting in a chair, so I can’t verify its effectiveness. But I imagine that if you have an ergonomically designed chair, that could be beneficial. I may try that in the future. All the time you’re going to spend stretching to be able to sit in full lotus comfortably, you could have spent just meditating. And for what? Basically just to ruin your hips and knees in the end. You don’t need a special pose for meditation. This is a distraction. Just be physically comfortable. You could even meditate lying down, although that does increase liability for falling asleep.

The point I'm trying to make is that 2 cannot exist. There never was 2 of anything or a relative plane.

The contradiction is if you're thinking it can occur between two beings. Or that it even requires two beings at all. You don't need two supremely conscious beings, just one. Which is you.