Valach

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  1. @something_else Again, that is something I do not agree with. I am at work so can't really write out for long, but I have the same experience with daygame as you do with nightgame. Often girl would ask me if I approach like this a lot and I am honest with them, that indeed I do and I do it to meet new people and gain social skills - almost always gets a laugh or whatnot. I think you can frame going out during daytime the similiar way as during nighttime -> You are just social person out meeting new people, having fun, vibing with other and sharing your energy. Hell, I got my current girlfriend from daygame cold approach, I even told you that she was like 7th girl I approached that day and she thinks ( and I believe her sister too, which she told to) that approaching like this is coolest shit ever. But again, that is because I am thanks to game fundamentally a cool person and so most girls have fun talking to me. Honestly now remembering the day I met my current gf, I think I got good 3 dates from that daygame session ( which was like from 2pm - 5pm on a nice sunday summer evening ), nothing crazy and I could just relax and go for nightgame after that if I wanted to. Btw. I feel like if you percieve daygame approaching as fundamentally needy, others will feel the same about you doing it. And honetsly, if you can get dates from daygame, you are much bigger baller than some "normal" guy getting dates "normal" way - that shit is honestly way easier. Once I learned daygame, meeting, flirting, getting girls on dates through other means became so much easier. However I am not some stubborn pickup guy who is promoting here daygame. I actually believe nightgame overall is more effective. It's just daygame can work too, is dope as shit and is nothing to be judged for.
  2. Why are people getting triggered by people who are so idiotic at definitions and correct labeling?
  3. Sure, but that makes you do game 2 times a week. I am not sure this is enough for beginners. Wasn't enough for me, but maybe I am just a special case. Obviuosly it matters a lot how is your social life outside of game and (often very uderated part) how social is your job. Right I get it, everyone has different standarts, but at this point, money wise, all I have to do is just keep doing my 9-5 job. But like you can squeeze a daygame session or two in your week, if you go for like 2 hours Besides, I think you can work on a lot of things even during night (reading, going to the gym, meditating, life purpose etc.)
  4. For sure some shadows to discover about yourself right here There is nothing gayish about enjyoing the anal play. Funnily the biggest players I know actually enjoy the most often this kind of kinky stuff. That is because they are secure about themselfs and prefer having fun over fullfilling some image of what an alpha male should look like.
  5. I am not sure man. Usually I find myself to agree with your opinions in this subforum but at least from my experience, not this one. I have done plenty of day game (primarly due to me doing pickup during covid times when the clubs were closed). It has it disadvantages, for sure. It is less time efficient and obviously its harder to get laid from it (easier to build connections I'd say). But very rarely have I even gotten blown out or felt like I creeped out the girl. Sure, there were times when the girl was in hurry to get somewhere and didn't have time to chat, but I would just let her? However I feel like for daygame you have to be already somewhat socially calibrated and not a total beginner. Also, not sure if reddit is the best place to ask this. I feel like the rule is that the girls don't like to be approached creepily anywhere, but once the guy knows what he is doing, she will enjoy the approach even if in hurry.
  6. @KH2 Well, you could also sleep during the time of nightgame. I mean, I am not sure what kind of nightgame you do, but when I did it, I was out from 23.00 - 3.00, then the next day I obviously had to wake up later and that directly took away time from my daytime (in the same way daygame did). Nightgame is better for spam approaching and getting laid more for sure. But it is harder to sustain it once you start working. Also: What if you are still young yet you are not broke anymore (Idk what you consider young, but I am 25 and doing alright for myself). I also imagine that pickup is more like a phase which some guys have to go through and then focus on finding a quality stable relationship (which supports your life in other areas).
  7. @Preety_India Yes, but have you question yourself why you want it in this way? Like what is your motivation? I agree that a lot of men don't want commitment, but by demanding exclusivity you kinda are asking for commitment.
  8. @Preety_India Alright. I think you should firstly identify why you want this arrangment. It seems that you want all the benefits of the relationship without any responsibilities. That's very hard to find and I myself as a men don't understand why I would give exclusivity to a girl I have no future with? Why do you want to be exclusive? What do you get out of it if you are not planning future with potential partner?
  9. @Preety_India You must admit however, that it's pretty hard to give a honest advice, if you are labeled as "mean" by you..
  10. I am sorry to chime in if I have not much of value to provide. But I have to agree with @something_else here. I've noticed you are often very defensive when someone is trying to give you advice. And I don't see any condescending tone if what advice you recieved from @something_else
  11. Hello guys, There is one thing I was recently ruminating over and I would like to know your opinion. I am currently in 1 year relationship, that has been great without any major issues. I feel like I am very compatible with my current partner, be it on personal, social or sexual level. However one thing that has been holding our relationship back and that might cause eventual break up is my desire to be single, gain some cool experiences with other girls, improve my social skills, learn proper game etc. However after talking to some friends (female mostly) and reading up opinions online, it seems that usually people sleeping around are doing that because of their low self esteem and their desire to be validated by others. Which obviously doesn't really solve self confidence issues, just makes the person feel shallow. Now I am questioning my real cause of my desires. Maybe if I worked on myself more and built a better relationship with myself I would be able to get over this want and let it go? Though it seems like I've improved my self esteem and the desire went nowhere. Any opinions, experiences on this?
  12. @Knowledge Hoarder Do you think it would be possible for you to start a healing process of getting over this trauma your described along with continuing developing your social skills listening to whatever coach you find the most helpful? If so, what's stopping you?
  13. @Knowledge Hoarderwhat emotional pain are we talking about? For me at least, my pain was pushing me too. Main reason was that i felt pain from the times of my high school where i was not good with girls and had a really strong desire to prove to myself and others that i am capable of doing this. Can you relate?