Yali

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  1. Can't take rejections anymore
    Can't take rejections anymore
    That is a phenomenal result.
    You are complaining over nothing. Your attitude is all wrong and negative. And if girls are rejecting you so much then you gotta really work on your game. You need to analyze how you are doing the approaches wrong.
    If 14 girls slept with you from online then obviously you're an above average looking, fairly attractive guy. Your game just sucks. Learn proper game. Study the theory, identify your sticking points, maybe take a bootcamp.
    And most importantly, stop being so negative. You got laid more in 2 years than most guys will in their entire life.

  2. How Do You Become Brave?
    How Do You Become Brave?
    Don't frame it as bravery. Frame it as: Doing what you know is right.

  3. Are women on dating apps broken? Or am I doing something wrong?
    Are women on dating apps broken? Or am I doing something wrong?
    You don't need to keep a girl consistently swept off her feet to get her to be your exclusive girlfriend. You can even be abusive to girls and most of them will still stick around for a long time. When a girl is seriously attracted to you she will put up with a lot of shit before she leaves.
    For me, keeping a girl around and loyal to me is effortless. I don't "work" at it. It just happens. The biggest thing I have to do is to make sure I'm too not brutually honest or critical of her, because girls cannot take it and take everything personally.

  4. Intelligence over moral character
    Intelligence over moral character
    Well, the problem is that people have a very wrong idea of what intelligence is, since people are not intelligent.
    If you were truly intelligent you would value integrity and character very highly.
    Being able to solve some narrow technical problem is not a good measure of intelligence.

  5. lol I think I am socially retarded
    lol I think I am socially retarded
    That's one way. Ideally you find the busiest nightlife spots in your town. Usually bars and clubs.
    You could also socialize through meet-up groups, networking events, parties, spiritual groups, dance classes, improv classes, acting classes, wine tastings, etc.
    This is an absurd excuse. I have never smoked weed when I socialized. Nor have a drank. Ever!

  6. Important! - Nobody On This Forum Is AWAKE
    Important! - Nobody On This Forum Is AWAKE
    @Zion No, it doesn't need to be better. It just needs to capture the depth of matter. The key thing I look for is depth of understanding.
    When I hear someone telling me that they have meditated their way to GOD, to me this is laughably shallow. Nobody will ever meditate or self-inquire his way to the things I've become conscious of. I have lots of experience dealing with such people, and I find flaws in all them. GOD is too profound for such things.

  7. lol I think I am socially retarded
    lol I think I am socially retarded
    You're not retarded, you're just inexperienced.
    The solution is to invest 1000+ hours socializing.
    It's that simple.
    It's like you want to do everything except the one thing that actually matters.

  8. What % Of People Do Personal Development?
    What % Of People Do Personal Development?
    So far this stuff seems like having super powers to me!
    Leo says that not too many people do PD work, and even fewer do it properly and get something out of it.
    What's your best guess for how many people outside this Acutalized forum genuinely understand and use Leo's concepts?

  9. Leo, what’s the process behind your videos?
    Leo, what’s the process behind your videos?
    I work on over 100 topics at once. I make outlines for each. When one outline is complete I shoot a video.

  10. Are women on dating apps broken? Or am I doing something wrong?
    Are women on dating apps broken? Or am I doing something wrong?
    I rank it as irrelevant. Looks are important to gain her approval to sleep with you, but once she has decided to sleep with you, from then on looks don't matter. Looks are not determining whether she sees you as boyfriend material because if she has already decided to sleep with you, she already finds your looks acceptable. And that's enough. Women are not looking to maximize a guy's looks. They just need him to clear a basic bar. Looks is more like a pass/fail test.
    Girls are not saying to themselves: "Well, his looks were good enough for me to sleep with him, but not good enough to make him my boyfriend."

  11. Are women on dating apps broken? Or am I doing something wrong?
    Are women on dating apps broken? Or am I doing something wrong?
    @Yali A cool, developed guy with a great sense of humor, who makes her feel strong emotions, who has a cool lifestyle, and has his life put together. Has a good career, is comfortable financially, is passionate about life, is very experienced, confident, and comfortable with himself. Who is emotionally stable and treats a girl well.
    That is the perfect boyfriend.

  12. A Bit Jealous Of Girls
    A Bit Jealous Of Girls
    I would say they are as rotten as the average person. But then money, power, sex, and fame corrupt them even further.
    I have experienced a small bit of fame. It's extremely toxic and corrupting.
    This is the exception. And this tends to be older celebrities who have matured after a rather degenerate past.
    Look at Russell Brand. He used to be heroin addict, now he has found God. Or look at Mike Tyson.
    No, your view is badly skewed. First off all, most girls are not cute. Cute is rare. Cute is top 20% at least.
    Girls have it easier to get laid, but that doesn't mean they find good guys who don't just use them and move on.
    You are biased because all you can think of is getting laid, but if you were a girl getting laid would not mean much to you, your need would be to find a stable guy who sticks around and doesn't just pump and dumb you, or makes you his side bitch.
    Even as a hot girl many guys would just pump and dumb you.
    Most women struggle to find quality guys. And as a girl, you would too. Even if you were hot. I promise you. You would get lots of sex but you would not be fulfilled and you certainly wouldn't be loved. And then all your beauty would fade and you would hate yourself.
    You have a cartoon idea of what it's like to a woman. You couldn't even walk down a street at night without worrying about being raped.
    You are envying a cartoon fantasy. Like, why wasn't I born Batman?

  13. Are women on dating apps broken? Or am I doing something wrong?
    Are women on dating apps broken? Or am I doing something wrong?
    Sounds to me like you're not offering enough value. Like you're not a high value guy. The girl is not that impressed by you and feels she has more value than you.
    It sounds like you're fairly physical attractive, but then once the girl sleeps with you she sobers up and realizes that this guy isn't offering me very much. The other possibility is that you're physically attractive but you don't have much charm, humor, or charisma. You're not stimulating her emotionally enough to fall in love with you. This basically means your game is weak.
    To really hook a girl you gotta sweep her off her feet by making her feel strong emotions and a deep rapport with you.
    Of course online dating is not gonna be as great as approaching.
    I've basically never had a girl end a relationship with me. Because she knows she found a rare gem. So the ultimate solution is to make yourself into a rare gem.

  14. The beginnings of pickup
    The beginnings of pickup
    Yes, your first 500 approaches will be pretty cringe. Just get them out of the way as smoothly as you're able.
    Your vibe is like 90% of your results. So the reason you're getting these bad reactions is because your vibe is off, your subcommunication is off, you're tense, you're afraid, you're insecure, you're not smiling, you don't feel good in your body, your verbals are awkward, you're not smooth, and you don't know how to lead the conversation well.
    All of that improves with practice. Don't beat yourself up.
    One of the best ways to improve is watch as much in-field hidden video as possible. Or get a wingman who can demo it for you. You need to see what a smooth approach looks like and sounds like.

  15. The beginnings of pickup
    The beginnings of pickup
    I have literally paid my wingmen to record their approaches and give me the audio files. So I can study them.

  16. Girlfriend doesn't know how to police her shit
    Girlfriend doesn't know how to police her shit
    Most girls who cheat do not want to cheat, it happens by accident because they are just being girls and not thinking ahead.
    So it does help to set rules for her. She needs leadership. Without proper rules a girl like that will cheat. In the end a girl like that will end up with a guy who has the balls to lead her properly. She will keep floating around like a butterfly until a serious man catches her. That's how highly feminine women are. In a sense it's a test of how much you want her and how much of a man you. If you want a highly feminine girl, you must claim her as yourself. You literally have to tell her, "Your pussy belongs to me." This will drive her nuts with excitement. That's what she wants. The more feminine she is the more she wants it.

  17. Why marriage is superior to banging lots of girls
    Why marriage is superior to banging lots of girls
    Lol
    If you get married you will stop having sex altogether.
    The best reason to get married is if you want children and you found the perfect partner. Other than that marriage doesn't make much sense.
    You can have unlimited sex with a girlfriend. And even that will get boring after a while.

  18. Why marriage is superior to banging lots of girls
    Why marriage is superior to banging lots of girls
    Divorce rate is about 45%.

  19. A Bit Jealous Of Girls
    A Bit Jealous Of Girls
    You don't appreciate that most women are NOT loved for who they are. Only the hottest girls. That leaves the other 90% unloved.
    What you are saying is you wish you were a hot girl in the top 10%. Yeah, well, I wish I was born in the top 10% too.
    These are silly things to wish for. The lives of most hot girls are actually miserable, because they are not forced to develop any character. It is foolish to wish for an easy life. Being loved for your beauty is not a good thing, it is actually a curse.

  20. Casual Date & Getting Laid & Talking Points
    Casual Date & Getting Laid & Talking Points
    I like to do dates in large outdoor shopping centers, where there is endless little shops and the whole date is basically a stroll. I don't like to sit at a restuarant. You want to bounce around without having to drive.

  21. Femininity - Sage/Loner archetype and Casual Sex.
    Femininity - Sage/Loner archetype and Casual Sex.
    Be careful with your sampling bias. Plenty of girls don't have many partners, you just don't care about that because it doesn't fit your narrative.

  22. Femininity - Sage/Loner archetype and Casual Sex.
    Femininity - Sage/Loner archetype and Casual Sex.
    Are you kidding?? Of course you do!
    Of course women are impulsive with sex, they only have sex when the mood is right. The feminine is spontaneous, it goes with the flow, or wherever it is lead. Every woman is open to sex given the guy creates the right mood for it.
    But even so, many women aren't your typical party girl club slut.

  23. HUGE doses of psilocybin— 30 to 40g
    HUGE doses of psilocybin— 30 to 40g
    I was chatting with one of my DMT friends & he shared this video on HUGE psilocybin trips:
    LARGE doses of 30-40g psilocybin ? this guy says induces a more intense trip into infinity & beyond. It’s more of a “psilocybin is where it’s at” kinda video.
    Shrooms are the easiest (and cheapest) for me to get, more so than any other psychedelic SO, I’m intrigued. He said that LARGE doses of mushies won’t kill you unlike other substances but “you”/ your identity will most certainly die.
    Eating 3g or more of shrooms always makes me pretty sick the next day so I can’t imagine what would happen with this amount.
    I thought it was pretty interesting overall so wanted to share. If anyone has done a huge dose, PLEASE share!

  24. Importance of Nightgaming
    Importance of Nightgaming
    Nightgame is where boys are made lions.

  25. How to get an elightenment experience ASAP (without drugs)
    How to get an elightenment experience ASAP (without drugs)
    You could probably get far on a 3 day dry fast with 16+ hours of meditation every day.