Yup, you got it.
Being in your frame is the core of her femininity.
Then you lead her where you envision the relationship going.

@Hojo I mean not really?
All levels of "consciousness" are valid and none are inherently any better than any others. It would be absurdly ignorant to think everyone should conform to my worldview or share my values just because I've done more spiritual/personal dev work than some of people. That basically defeats the entire point of doing this work to begin with. 
But yeah people are just at different places spiritually, etc. It's obvious than an Evangelical Christian from rural Alabama is almost certainly operating at a lower level of consciousness than Ram Dass. Extreme example but still. 
So my post was more about my frustration with finding women that see the importance of growing and challenging yourself in general regardless of where they are along their own path. The point is that I want to find a woman willing to walk that path with me. 

@Natasha Tori Maru  
Men don't realize that their own broad generalizations about women pre-select for experiences that foster even more resentment and bitterness. It's easier to believe all women are a monolith that you can understand with 100% accuracy than to realize that the good ones just don't like you. Hence the entire redpill/manosphere. Grateful to have escaped that ideological trap in my early 20s. 

Women are going to have a different relationship to these things than you.
Don't look for women who are deeply into spirituality or personal development. Look for women who are wanting to be in your frame.

I’ve also passed my phase of social anxiety in my life and developed enough social skills to be able to socialize and attract partners (but I’m still very much introverted)
I think when you come to this point it’s mostly a matter of just exposing yourself to more people, at the right places, taking opportunity to talk. Maybe you do that enough already so sorry if I’m stating the obvious. But let’s say you’re a guy like yourself and you go to nightclub then maybe chance is very low you’ll find a woman of your wavelength , but if you look at the right places the chances are higher.
Also maybe obvious again, but have you tried to have deeper convos with women or do you more just vibe as usual and kinda wait for them to show signs of depth. Because sometimes people might reveal it when someone else goes to that place first.. idk. Like you might not notice the depth of someone if you don’t initiate that type of convo first 
I hope mods don’t remove this topic thinking it’s offensive or something because it’s genuinely interesting and we need to be able to talk about flaws of humanity, in respectful manner ofc🙂‍↔️🙂‍↔️

Has anyone else had the experience of developing enough charisma, social skills, etc. to get decent amounts of attention from women but being put off by how shockingly low consciousness most of the women you meet are? 
I know it sounds horribly judgmental but nearly every date I've been on and every woman I've slept with in my life except maybe one didn't actually DO anything other than endure wage slavery (without trying to plan an escape), scroll tiktok, and engage in petty drama on social media. That's literally it. 
Most gen z women are utterly incapable of even a basic level of self awareness, even if they are otherwise perfectly sweet and kind people. I've genuinely enjoyed spending time with some of them but It was also incredibly obvious to me that they have an external "locus of control" and outsource all critical thinking to talking heads online. They also tend to have zero interest in personal development, spirituality, or even developing a sense of passion for life in general. Zero.
I also find that the whole "women don't take accountability" trope to be shockingly accurate. especially with younger women. It doesn't seem like a choice to avoid truth but rather that they have no idea how to even understand "accountability" on a conceptual level. 
I find that other Gen z men who actually face difficulty in their lives and think for themselves (no goofy incel ideology, etc.) are much more common and are at a significantly higher level of development than the vast majority of women of the same age. 
The men having the most success are physically attractive but also the most low consciousness. It seems that stage green women often pursue stage red men.
It's difficult to see the types of men that modern women flock to and still feel that it is even remotely worth it to pursue relationships as a young man who is actually interested in developing genuine maturity. 
How can you succeed in dating when modern women overwhelming flock to low-consciousness behavior?
 
 
 
 

I never said it was.
Most things are 50/50.
When in doubt, assume a thing is 50% genetic and 50% environment.

@ricachica Yes, he fakes his demos. But that doesn't mean he doesn't deliver.
The reason he fakes his demos is because when you have a large vision for something new, you don't have anything to show people. But you need their money to build it. This is not so perplexing or shocking. Innovative business requires making bold promises using mockups and flimsy demos.
The more important question is whether he delivers on the promises in the end. He often does.
Musk is a bullshit artist but also good at delivering the goods. Trump is purely a bullshit artist.

Musk is a grandiose egomaniac. What drives him is not money, it is his sense of self-importance. He needs to feel like he is ultra important and in charge of mankind's future. Like without him mankind will perish. That's his fundamental delusion.
He's living out a power fantasy. Same as Trump.

This is a bad scarcity mindset.
Wealth isn't bad, it's good. Just earn it through legitimate creative work rather than scams.
You should have way more wealth than to pay your expenses. You should be so productive and creative that you earn millions. This means you've made yourself useful to the world.

Your whole life has been a candle in a rainstorm. Appreciate it while it lasts.

Just because someone has a different survival agenda than you does not make them a psychopath.
You guys are starting to disappoint me with your flagrant self-bias.
This reminds me of a rube who goes to China and calls them psychopaths for eating dogs.

X2 for San Diego and Denver
New England in a smaller city
San Francisco
Austin
Asheville 
Colorado Springs

In practice you're gonna have to settle for some compromise. You're never going to find the perfect package. Try to make a list of everything you want in a girl, then rank it from most to least important, and then be prepared to only get 60-80% of that list (if you're lucky).
There will always be hotter girls. Attracting and maintaining 9s and 10s is very difficult in practice. The chances of attracting a 9 with a great and suitable personality is very low. And of course looks will fade too.
Perfectionism here will be disastrous.
But also, you gonna determine if she meets your basic quality standards. Otherwise you will never be satisfied with her and she will sense that off you, and it's not fair to her.
So ask yourself this question very honestly: "Is she good enough for me to settle down with? Or would I regret it in the back of my mind?"
In general you need to get very clear with yourself about what is and isn't good enough for you. You need to be clear so that you can better screen girls in the future. So you don't end up settling for something that isn't right for you. This problem is not with her, but with your lack of knowing what you want. So get more clear about that. What are the things with a girl that you're not willing to negotiate on? Make a list.
For example, I have a few basic rules that are deal-breakers: like if she smokes, drinks, likes to get tattoos, or is overweight. I just know that I will never be satisfied with that. So it's best to not even continue down that road. Physical attractiveness is more tricky because there are so many degrees of it. Sometimes a girl is right on the edge where it's not clear. Ideally you want her to be at least 30% over the edge. Any lower and you'll probably be too luke-warm about her.
I've actually invested quite a bit of time simply training my eye for physical attractiveness. You can go to the local mall and just walk around looking at random girls and asking yourself, "Would I fuck her? Yes or no?" And force yourself to quickly make that determination within a few seconds. Do this a thousand times. As you practice this more you'll get better and better at quickly determining if a girl is right for you on the level of physical attractiveness. Obviously there are many other factors beyond that. But since looks is the first screen, it's important to get clear about that screen. Self-clarity is the key.
As you become more conscious, looks will matter to you less and less and your ability to love will increase exponentially.
Determine which features of physical attractiveness matter to you and which ones don't: tits, face, ass, height, hair, legs, weight, skin color, teeth, eyes, nose, race, etc. Get clear about what your deal-breakers are. It's a lot easier when you can screen for this stuff up front. It's very painful to do it once you know her. This screening needs to be done as early as possible.

I don't know how much clearer a pedophile case can get. Read Epstein's birthday book. Dude was as clear a pedo as it gets, and everyone in his inner circle knew it.

But people claim that fasting works for that.

I fasted for 12 days and it had zero effect on ego or consciousness other than making me very weak, cold, and light-headed.

No. Just God.

I dispute that eating a bucket of refined sugar is bad for health.
Pure glucose is the energy of life.
One of those examples of group-think.
How do you know sugar is unhealthy?

I dispute the idea that sugar is unhealthy.

This is a very nebulous term.
For the purposes of this discussion a child is someone before puberty. The legal age is not the right measure. Everyone is attracted to a puberty body naturally because it is an adult body and it is designed to reproduce regardless of what laws say.

No, it doesn't mean that.
Pedophiles are attracted to much younger girls and they tend to be exclusively attracted to them, and the key difference is that they act on it.
Being attracted to a 16 year old's body is one thing, that is natural, but acting on it is different.
I would be attracted to an 18 year old but I'm not going to date one even if it's legal because it's inappropriate.

That's interesting. But vaped THC isolate is already immediate and insanely potent. So I don't see the point of drinking a nano THC concoction and waiting 5-10 mins for it to kick in.

Still young, hardest part of life the transition to self-dependence, very scary time.

That's part of it.
I'm better at making videos than life coaching. My passion is not in coaching. You can't be the best at something you're not passionate about.