Yali

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  1. Conscious date vs Unconcious date
    Conscious date vs Unconcious date
    @ambrojohn Lol, you're not going to become confident with women without massive experience with women.
    The most direct, efficient, and precise way to get comfortable with dating is by going on tons of dates.
    Your inner game will self-correct as you become proficient at outer game. Each successful date will make you more and more comfortable doing future dates to the point where dating will be as easy as driving your car. You won't even think about it.

  2. Conscious date vs Unconcious date
    Conscious date vs Unconcious date
    Dude, you're just not present because you're inexperienced with girls and they make you anxious and in your head. That's how many guys are.
    That is solved by dating way more girls until you stop being anxious around them.

  3. Conscious relationships, resources required
    Conscious relationships, resources required
    Hello friends, 
    In Leo's last vedio I came across the concept of conscious relationships, and I had a deep realisation which I was pondering about since many years actually, however I will bring this to light and work on this now.
    I have been always wondering why I always have issues with people and don't really get along forever. I have lost many people along the way in a sense like at some point they were so close to me but now are Indifferent.
    I don't have an issue with intimate relationships as I spent a lot of time and energy working on that but the boat got a bit off-balance with friendships 
    I'm talking about friends here.
    I feel that I want to have really deep and rewarding friendships and maintain them.
    Please help me build realtionships and maintaining them by sharing various techniques, I will research and share some techniques too.
    For starting this journey im journaling on my one note journal, I have made a new section of relationships and made a subpage friends and another one as colleagues.
    I will be writing certain notes or key points to each and every person here. Would this be a good idea ? 

  4. Self-Love on DMT
    Self-Love on DMT
    I finally bought a DMT pen after a year break. I was vaping in my room, windows opened, little rain outside. I did a few hits and my mind came up with an interesting idea: to look at the mirror while I'm tripping. I did one big pull and came as close to the mirror as I could. I was staring directly in the eyes. After a few seconds my pupils dilated: I realized I'm God. As I was looking at myself I felt deep God's love for itself. I really Am God. I was also seeing some sort of light that was all over my body. I was shining. I could see every detail on my face, every hair on my face and eyebrows. I realized that I'm perfect. I look perfectly. My face and my body perfectly imagined by God. I took all my clothes (except for the underwear) and I begun to observe my body. As I was looking at it I realized that I'm extremelly hot and sexy as f. I then looked again into my eyes and I fell in love with myself. I was a thousand time more attracted by myself then by every hot women I had seen. 
    I'll do it on 5-MeO-DMT next time. 

  5. Neuralink / AI will wipe my life's work clean? (Maybe yours too?)
    Neuralink / AI will wipe my life's work clean? (Maybe yours too?)
    Lol
    You are worrying about a silly non-issue.
    Neuralink will not be widely available in our lifetime and it will not solve any of people's psychological bullshit.
    Maybe it will help some disabled person push a button on a computer. That's about it.

  6. Why I Can't Approach Girls
    Why I Can't Approach Girls
    Lol
    The state isn't for her, it's for me. I have to be in a mood to flirt.

  7. Why I Can't Approach Girls
    Why I Can't Approach Girls
    You need to find some good wingmen to go out with. Then it can be fun. The problem is that you don't understand how to party.

  8. Is watching Infield videos important?
    Is watching Infield videos important?
    Crucial. Your mind needs concrete examples of what good game looks like.

  9. Why do PUAs tell us things that are absurdly oversimplified or just blatantly false?
    Why do PUAs tell us things that are absurdly oversimplified or just blatantly false?
    Looks matter, but if you get hung up on that you will have way less sex in life than you would otherwise.
    The way your mind thinks highly affects how much sex you will have in life.
    If you are not careful you will think your way into lifelong inceldom. This is what incels refuse to admit.
    Your looks are whatever they are. The only reasonable thing to do is to accept it and go talk to girls all the same. The only other alternative is endless miserable whining.

  10. Advice for best way to smoke 5meo dmt freebase
    Advice for best way to smoke 5meo dmt freebase
    You gotta vaporize it, not burn it.
    Buy a high quality very large butane torch. The kind used for cooking and baking.
    Simple glass pipe works perfectly.
    HCl will burn more than vaporize. Freebase is easy.

  11. Has DMT helped with your depression?
    Has DMT helped with your depression?
    Psychedelics are certainly worth a try in your case. Everyone is unique so you won't know until you try.
    Mushrooms or LSD or ketamine might be a better starting point. DMT is pretty advanced and doesn't last very long.

  12. Elon Musk and 𝕏
    Elon Musk and 𝕏
    FYI, narcissists are not monsters. I had a girlfriend who was a narcissist and she was still a sweet and loving person.

  13. New War In Israel / Gaza
    New War In Israel / Gaza
    If you are asking this question you clearly don't appreicate how seriously Jews take their relgion.
    If Jews were purely rational then we'd be dealing with a very different creature.
    We're dealing with a very Stage Blue culture there.

  14. Racism
    Racism
    Mostly Blue and below, and some Orange.
    Green transcends identification with one's race, realizing that all races have equal merit.

  15. How do you make sure that you are always appropriate?
    How do you make sure that you are always appropriate?
    Do it and see what you can get away with.
    Google for "Kino escalation ladder" and follow that.
    Touching hands, arms, and shoulders is very safe. Touch in a non-sexual way.

  16. Guys! Stop Seeing It As A "Rejection".
    Guys! Stop Seeing It As A "Rejection".
    The problem isn't in the rejection per se, the problem is that the guy is investing energy and the girl doesn't get attracted and chooses another guy instead. Which obviously doesn't feel good.
    The bottom line is that the girl is filtering out the lower quality guys. So it's not merely apples vs oranges. The lack of attraction IS based on objective factors. The more a guy fall into the low quality zone the worse it feels precisely because it feels like he is getting rejected for objective qualities which he inherently lacks.
    Of course the solution is to not care, but this becomes hard if no one wants to sleep with you.

  17. RSD free tour LA December 8-10th Owen and Julien
    RSD free tour LA December 8-10th Owen and Julien
    The best thing about it is meeting local wings. That's really the only reason to go. The theory is all available on YT.

  18. If looks for guys are not that important why pretty girls tend to date attractive guy
    If looks for guys are not that important why pretty girls tend to date attractive guy
    Look, the reality is that there is a sexual marketplace. Every actor in this marketplace is trying to maximize value. This being the case, of course the highest value actors will tend to hook up with other high value actors.
    If you got no game and low social value, then yeah, your looks matter more because you got little else of value to offer.
    For looks not to matter so much you gotta develop either game or social value. Ideally both.
    The real question here is: How much value are you bringing to the negotiating table as a man? This value can take many different forms, from status to friends to leadership skills to spiritual connection to looks.
    When people hook up through dating apps they are basically sorting themselves by looks.

  19. What is the ultimate fear?
    What is the ultimate fear?
    Ultimate fear is realizing you are all. There is nobody else to share your being with. Everybody, every time and every thing is something you are imagining right in this timeless eternal moment. Ultimate fear is realizing that the hopes you had of seeing your son grow up is a sham, because your son is someone you imagined! Ouch! Ultimate fear is realizing true ramification of Oneness.

  20. How can young people be optimistic about the future?
    How can young people be optimistic about the future?
    You tell them: Every other generation had it worse.
    This is life, not some fairytale.

  21. Why do PUAs tell us things that are absurdly oversimplified or just blatantly false?
    Why do PUAs tell us things that are absurdly oversimplified or just blatantly false?
    WTF??
    You obviously lack basic social awareness. 
    Rule #1 when talking to girls: Don't talk about creepy shit.
    When the content of what you say is creepy and weird, that creates a creepy, repugnant, anti-social vibe.
    Whenever you talk to a stranger you need to talk about things they would be interested in. You don't open a conversation with a stranger by passionately talking about how much you like to stick your fingers in your ass. You have to be attuned to what normal people are interested in, and what women tend to be interested in.

  22. I just can't move on
    I just can't move on
    Well, there is def a reason why this lack of results is happening. So now it's just a question of whether you want to troubleshoot the issue seriously enough to find the reason.
    I can guess that your top problems are: 1) wrong city, wrong location, 2) not approaching enough, 3) poor understanding of how to socialize, flirt, and vibe, 4) lack of intent to close, 5) you are not isolation training core aspects of your outer game, 6) your inner game is really bad such that you cannot relax and vibe.
    All these issues can be addressed, but you have to be serious and deliberate about it.

  23. Why do PUAs tell us things that are absurdly oversimplified or just blatantly false?
    Why do PUAs tell us things that are absurdly oversimplified or just blatantly false?
    @Hardkill It's creepy, pathetic, and needy. Stop trying to talk about sex.
    Vibe with a girl the way you would play with a child.

  24. What's wrong with being happy but unconscious?
    What's wrong with being happy but unconscious?
    This is a total lie.
    That person in actually unhappy 95% of the time.
    Be ware of how you are so miserable in life you are too unconscious and scared to even admit your own misery.
    It is impossible to be unconscious and happy. Period.
    Ironically, it takes consciousness just to realize you are unhappy. As but one example, notice how you constantly live in fear. Every day of your life you have a constant cloud of fear and insecurity hanging over you. Fundamentally you feel incomplete and incapable of facing life. Fundamentally you feel broken, not good enough, and unlovable. This is not something that happens occassionally. This is the theme of your entire life!
    Just take a look, if you dare
    Do not fool yourself into thinking that any external material acheivement will ever change the above sitution. No matter how much money or sex you get, you will still be afraid, broken, and miserable. And eventually you will want to kill yourself because nothing you try will fix it. That is, unless you know about spirituality.
    The devil lies to himself that he is happy being a devil. Therein lies his tragedy. If only he would admit he is a devil, there would be hope. But he is too blind and arrogant to see it. So he continues living in his own self-created hell, calling it heaven.

  25. Being A Visionary
    Being A Visionary
    No, these are distinct. However, there tends to be overlap of these in highly successful people.
    When you are looking at extremely successful people you automatically introduce a selection bias. These people are highly abnormal in there psychology and temperament.