What do women find attractive in men?

[Vivaldo]

I want to know what exactly women find attractive in men...... 

Is it the physique, face, height or more non superficial things like how well they are groomed, their hygiene, verbal skills, confidence?

Or the size of the man part?

Which are the few aspects women would compromise on?

Edited November 21, 2021 by Vivaldo

[funcool]

everything matters you just gotta stack everything in your favor.

[Preety_India]

 

What I find attractive in a man? 

• His confidence 
• His level of understanding and maturity 
• Affectionate behavior 
• His intelligence 
• His patience 
• His level of responsibility and dependability /reliability 

 

[Shin]

 

Almost none of what you said really matter except confidence, so you need to watch this and read The Superior Man from David Deida.

Everything you think you know about attraction is wrong, pop culture and medias are dead wrong about this, you have to rewire your brain lol

[Vivaldo]

How to be appealing to maximum women? What are those qualities which are almost attractive for every woman.

[PurpleTree]

be like johnny depp

[flyingwhalee]

1 hour ago, Loba said:

Someone who has a siddhi is a plus.  

That's all I got.

What

[Random witch]

I think most healthy, mature women are attracted to quiet charisma in men, empathy, humor, responsibility and maturity.

I would add that I'm attracted to creativity in men and open-mindedness, I can't stand be around not-creative, conformists, closed minded men, especially those who have sheep mentality and do everything in order to impress their immature friends.

The age doesn't matter as long as the man is mature enough and (subjectively) physically attractive, immature men are bad for women's libido no matter what their look is.

I see young men who are much more mature than old men, so old age doesn't necessarily a prove of maturity and all those theories of "All young men are immature" or "Women are always attracted to older men just because they're older" aren't accurate. Women are attracted to maturity because you can trust on a mature person. You can count on him.

About look- Men don't have to be pretty in order to be considered attractive, of course tall and handsome men are attractive but they can easily be unattractive if they are stupid, immature, sexist, conformist, insecure and awful people in general. Those kind of men usually full of themselves and are attracted shallow, unhealthy and immature women.

There are men who are not considered handsome by the society but they are so wise, open minded, authentic and brave that this light just shines from them inside out and makes them look so beautiful and attractive. I see the same affect in women.

 

 

 

 

 

 

[ValiantSalvatore]

From what I've read through going through dating material

• Confidence
• Humour
• Grooming
• Style 
• Personality
• Adventeruous
• Virtue
• Bad boy characteristics (good boy turning bad - bad boy turning good)
• Playfulness
• Having and beign fully on purpose (divine purpose)
• Leadership 
• Ambition
• Knowing what you want and getting it
• Decisiveness
• Caretaker qualities having a job, beign financially stable
• Character overall
• Cooky and funny humour
• Beign edgy
• Intelligent/Witty

I am not done learning and applying yet this is a small list there is more.

Edited November 21, 2021 by ValiantSalvatore

[Nos7algiK]

34 minutes ago, Loba said:

@flyingwhalee siddhis.  I like them and find them interesting.  Like, spiritual abilities that could be shamanic, stuff like that.

That's usually pretty difficult to find since those who genuinely have them aren't flaunting them around.

[Nos7algiK]

1 minute ago, Loba said:

Probably could in spiritual circles they are much more common there.  It's a small preference not something I need or anything.

I suppose so, they are pretty neat though. 

[Leo Gura]

Female attraction basically boils down to status and power within the tribe.

All the other signals are proxies for tribal position.

If you have zero social standing, you get laid the least.

[flyingwhalee]

@Loba You'd be lucky just to find a really high value guy that has his life, psychology and spirituality together already.

[Lyubov]

Strength

Protection

Rationality

Leadership

Positive ownership

Containment

Masculinity

Charisma / Charm / Humor

Physical Safety

Emotional Safety - Attunement to timing, situation and setting

Closeness

Attunement

Sensitive response

Emotional availability and stimulation

Kind

Fun

Good sex

Edited November 22, 2021 by Lyubov

[Vivaldo]

17 hours ago, Loba said:

Good te, creative, tall, not super overweight but a bit is fine, decent hygiene although I kinda like sweat and musk. 

 

How tall would you consider attractive? 

[Random witch]

1 hour ago, Vivaldo said:

@Random witch

I understand 

If a woman is really beautiful but she is dumb and immature, she is gonna lose her attractiveness. 

However such a woman can still be seen by males as a sex object. I want to ask if the same is the case with a man that he is really hot and attractive but is dumb, will females see him as a sex object? 

And be willing to sleep with him?

Women do objectifying men to some degree but it's a bit different from men objectifying women.

I think that most healthy, mature women won't сhase hot guy knowing he is dumb and immature. Maybe they might sleep with him for fun if he is not neglecting himself, they feel safe enough around him, are horny, and the man is flattering their ego and insisting, but in general he would be a blind zone. 

But some women might chase this type and be paralyzed by his physical appearance if they are too young, insecure, dumb, not experienced with men, immature, came from unhealthy family and have poor understanding in people.

 

Edited November 22, 2021 by Random witch

[Raptorsin7]

1 minute ago, Random witch said:

Maybe they might sleep with him for fun if he is not neglecting himself, they feel safe enough around him, are horny, and the man is flattering their ego and insisting, but in general he would be a blind zone. 

Do you think mature, healthy woman are okay with getting approached and gamed by men that push those buttons?

[Preety_India]

1 hour ago, Vivaldo said:

I want to ask if the same is the case with a man that he is really hot and attractive but is dumb, will females see him as a sex object? 

And be willing to sleep with him?

Yes why not. Attraction cannot be decided. It can happen on both sides-male and female. Nobody needs to be immature here unless you're opting for a really bad partner just for a relationship. In that case I would say it's a rather dumb idea. Otherwise most people actually get sexually or physically attracted to the person they fall in love with. Physical attraction, whether male or female has a lot to do with it. So if a man is hot and sexy, females will fall for him, even though he is dumb. Just like men fall for attractive females without looking for much else. 

 

[Random witch]

13 minutes ago, Raptorsin7 said:

Do you think mature, healthy woman are okay with getting approached and gamed by men that push those buttons?

I don't know, it depends on woman's stage in life and what she's looking for, on the man who's approaching her, how he is approaching her and how his approach makes her feel.

[Raptorsin7]

5 minutes ago, Random witch said:

I don't know, it depends on woman's stage in life and what she's looking for, on the man who's approaching her, how he is approaching her and how his approach makes her feel.

How about for you