Being too attractive, becomes unattractive.

[Majed]

Do you ever get rejected for being too attractive? I swear to God, girls think they can't keep you, and so they reject you. Obviously you just met her on the street and had a conversation, obviously you're a womanizer type that do this type of stuff with many women. ‎That's why good game isn't just about being as attractive as possible, truth is most girls, including the hottest ones, are insecure as hell. Therefore you should calibrate your game to your target effectively, without being way over the board charismatic, natural and seductive.

[aurum]

Of course.

But most guys are way underperforming on the attractive metric. So focus on that first. 

[Jannes]

Yeah and its clever of them to act that way. Power leads to corruption, if in the power dynamic he has the upper hand, some kind of toxic behaviour will likely come out of it. If he never had the powers he could never abuse them. 

[Leo Gura]

All my rejections are cause I'm too attractive.

[ivankiss]

4 hours ago, Majed said:

Being too attractive, becomes unattractive

Yeah, like you would know...

 

 

 

 

 

Jk it's kind of true

I'm a pretty boy too

[Spiral]

Woman can also become nervous wrecks if they find you too attractive. This has only happened to me once, for me special conditions are required. 
 

It’s a complete waste of time.

[Pav]

Nope. Becoming more attractive only increased my results substantially.

[Jannes]

6 hours ago, Pav said:

Nope. Becoming more attractive only increased my results substantially.

Ofc, the point is that it takes some of your success away but your success is still in a another league compared to not having game.

[ivankiss]

9 hours ago, Pav said:

Nope. Becoming more attractive only increased my results substantially.

Yeah, if you were born ugly without a sense of humor, no talent, skill or big brainzZz.

[Pav]

2 hours ago, ivankiss said:

Yeah, if you were born ugly without a sense of humor, no talent, skill or big brainzZz.

What do you mean?

[Xonas Pitfall]

Very True. Anyone who rejects you is just jealous, too entranced and magnetized, too overwhelmingly attracted, so much that your presence burns their eyes like an ultraviolet sun. They cannot even conceptualize a long‑term relationship with someone so exquisitely delightful, because you deserve more, in fact, you deserve an entire cultic hive‑mind of adorers, of hyper‑devotees to fulfill all your most utter narcissistic‑egoic desires (which you don’t even want to fulfill, since you are so perfectly humble and divine) and yet you still realize them anyway, because your godly, interdimensional potential cannot be dimmed by anything finite or compressed into such mere pesty human pursuits like a sexual relationship.

They see themselves as blockages, dams, distortions to the Tesla‑Einstein‑Jesus-alien‑love‑infinite‑intelligence that flows through you. “Goodness,” they think, “I must get away from them or I will fracture the holotropic cycle of consciousness expansion if I project my mere animalistic needs onto them; I mustn’t even approach them, let alone look at them. Stop it... Get away from me, I am too attracted to you. Are they even real?”

Edited October 5 by Xonas Pitfall

[ivankiss]

9 hours ago, Pav said:

What do you mean?

If you lack all those epic qualities you must work your ass off to become attractive.

If you are born with them, your path is quite different.

[LordFall]

@Majed Yeah Todd Valentine talks about this concept he calls it levelling, if you seem too different from a girl even if by being too unattractive it can ruin attraction due to lack of relatability.

[meta_male]

On 3.10.2025 at 6:41 PM, Majed said:

Do you ever get rejected for being too attractive? I swear to God, girls think they can't keep you, and so they reject you.

The trick – if you're too attractive – is to be a criminal.

[ivankiss]

@meta_male Holy shit you're totally right!

[ivankiss]

Jk stay safe, don't be stupid

[Lyubov]

I don’t actually agree with this. You can never be too attractive. You can be very attractive AND simultaneously un-relatable to many people, so it has nothing to do with your attractiveness but how you don’t have other qualities to relate to or build a bridge with everyone you meet. 

[something_else]

There are also women who are extremely good looking but in a way that's kind of generic. Almost so perfect that they're boring to look at. That's probably a similar dynamic to what we're talking about here with guys that are 'too attractive.'

As humans, we relate most deeply over our shared flaws. If you have no flaws then you become very hard to relate to and you also risk coming across as a bit boring.

[meta_male]

1 hour ago, ivankiss said:

Jk stay safe, don't be stupid

Don't worry, I only commit crimes against modesty.

 

[Sugarcoat]

I wouldn’t say it becomes unattractive it’s just that if your own self esteem isn’t the best it can feel intimidating if you feel someone is too good for you in some way, too attractive, and/ or you start to doubt yourself when you’re around them, and feel you can’t own your attraction, so it can become more repressed because your self image isn’t good enough to host those feelings you have for them

Edited October 7 by Sugarcoat