Leo, How Many God-Realized Women Have You Met?

[Thought Art]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

Just transcending stupidity. One doesn't end Maya unless you kill yourself.

“Die of natural causes”

[Cubbage]

I dunno if I'm some extreme edge case or if it's where I live but I've met plenty of women who are God-realized. Some have only scratched the surface for sure, but there is one amongst them who I am deeply close to that definitely knows they are God. We have tripped together and it is blatantly evident when we talk that we recognise the God within eachother. She is an exceptionally gifted human being. Meeting a truly God-realized woman is remarkably profound, I couldn't even begin to describe the depth of conversation that is possible between a God-realized man & woman. Our talks are legitimately transcendental. Fascinating stuff, it's surreal.

One of the craziest experiences in life for me is speaking to someone in person that recognises that they are You. My best mate (male) is God-realized, we have had many strange and wonderful telepathic communications over the course of our friendship and they only continue to deepen over time. I am very blessed to know these people within my slither of reality.

[Jodistrict]

There have been plenty of god-realized women throughout history.

Here is a biography of Sister Gyanamata.

https://yoganandaharmony.com/saint-gyanamata

Sister Nivedita

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sister_Nivedita

Sarada Devi, the wife of Ramakrishna.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sarada_Devi

Anandamayi Ma

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anandamayi_Ma

That is just a short list.  There are many others.  There is no difference between men and women in this area.   

 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

You probably have greater chances of meeting a God realized individual (in the flesh) out randomly in the woods than anywhere else.

When you meet them, you know. That presence - and in the eyes. They pay attention. You feel heard. Without judgement.

After all, isn't attention - when feelings, thoughts and actions align - the act of Love?

Collections/congregations of spiritual people? In my experience, you'd have low chances.

Maybe if there was ever an Actualized.org forum meet-up it might be possible.

But this aint' no dating site 

Edited May 12 by Natasha Tori Maru

[Wilhelm44]

@Emerald    Please can you say a bit more about what you mean by "the dissolution of beauty" with regards to the masculine path ?

[Sugarcoat]

I think you need to be god realized in some way to recognize it

[Salvijus]

It's not like men are the only ones who have ever done psychedelics. And the states of conciousness you temporarily experience on these substances is not how you measure someone's spiritual growth anyway. In many ways women are more concious in life I would say. 

Edited May 12 by Salvijus

[Schizophonia]

-Social competition concerns men more on average.
-Spirituality is a roundabout way of gaining power, even if it's repressed.
-So more men are spiritual.
-So more men end up awakened.

Women are actually more interested in spiritual things on average, because there's greater pressure among men to be "pragmatic," blah blah blah.

Spirituality or topics with a close clientele (alternative medicine, for example) often involves a majority of women around male leaders who are more anxious or even psychotic, sometimes more sensitive, than average.

[gettoefl]

God-realised is seeing everyone as God-realised. Nobody ever made a mistake. Least of all god.

[Emerald]

7 hours ago, Wilhelm44 said:

@Emerald    Please can you say a bit more about what you mean by "the dissolution of beauty" with regards to the masculine path ?

The Masculine path is about the transcendence of all illusions of form and limitation... to reveal infinite empty consciousness.

With ego death, there is a total dissolution of the illusion of you and the illusion of the entire reality you exist within.

So, there is no meaning or beauty because there is nothingness... and nothingness cannot be meaningful, beautiful, valuable, etc. as it is specifically the emptiness of all qualities as nothingness is bereft of qualities.

And beauty and meaning,  requires limitation and finiteness to be realized, as limitation is the birthplace of meaning and beauty.

[Wilhelm44]

18 minutes ago, Emerald said:

The Masculine path is about the transcendence of all illusions of form and limitation... to reveal infinite empty consciousness.

With ego death, there is a total dissolution of the illusion of you and the illusion of the entire reality you exist within.

So, there is no meaning or beauty because there is nothingness... and nothingness cannot be meaningful, beautiful, valuable, etc. as it is specifically the emptiness of all qualities as nothingness is bereft of qualities.

And beauty and meaning,  requires limitation and finiteness to be realized, as limitation is the birthplace of meaning and beauty.

So when spiritual teachers talk about Beauty with a capital b, what are they referring to then ?

[Schizophonia]

22 hours ago, The Crocodile said:

@Leo Gura Hmmm what about that the more masculine someone is the more unreasonable, tunnel-vision, stubborn/ornery, and dumb they will be. Whereas those with a more feminine nature will be in the know and laugh at them.

Masculinity can be expressed both dryly and impulsively.
The common denominator lies elsewhere.

Edited May 12 by Schizophonia

[Emerald]

3 hours ago, Wilhelm44 said:

So when spiritual teachers talk about Beauty with a capital b, what are they referring to then ?

Consider the story of the Blind Men and the Elephant.

I am a blind man describing the tusks of the elephant. They are the blind men describing the trunk of the elephant.

But the elephant is infinitely faceted. And a human being can only be the blind man and can never take in picture of the full elephant.

So, our descriptions might seem contradictory... as from one angle waking up is realizing the absence of all qualia. And from another angle, you can recongnize it as Love, Beauty, Infinity, etc.

But the Masculine spiritual path (as I've experienced it) is the dissolution of illusion and waking up to the pure empty consciousness with no observer observing it. And this emptiness is absent of all qualia... including beauty.

This was the path I realized that I didn't want to take and that I preferred a more Feminine embodied path.

I have also experienced other facets of the Infinite in my journeys... but still only some of the facets. I will (of course) never touch every facet of the elephant.

And while I could certainly describe my experienced of God and God-realization as beautiful, I have not yet experienced a facet of the elephant that I would say is Beauty with a capital B. 

So, that would only be conjecture from my point of view. But I have glimpsed God as Love, God as Oneness, God as Pure Empty Consciousness, God as Truth, God as Self, and God as other.

[Husseinisdoingfine]

On 5/11/2025 at 1:12 PM, Yimpa said:

 

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[BlessedLion]

20 hours ago, Emerald said:

Sometimes you (as God) just wants to play the sacred virtual reality video game you created without the avatar trying to wake up from the game.

For sure, and i think in general women are better at understanding this naturally. 

But the problem is most people don't know it's a sacred virtual reality video game so they suffer way more than needed. Think Holocaust, War, Victims, for them it wasn't just a fun game, it was a horrible nightmare that I'm sure they would wish wasn't real (or they could transcend or create space from). But then again , in the ultimate sense it's God experiencing exactly what it wants to through itself in an ignorant form, it's not like there is a "person" there and "God" somewhere else, it's just when God is being that person, it feels totally real and relatively it is. 

 

I think if more people knew that an option in the game was to wake up from it, more would play that game. Most people are not consciously playing the game of life. It's almost like a baked in wisdom to understand that enlightenment is even an option.

 

20 hours ago, Emerald said:

And it showed me that the game that it want to play with me is a lover and beloved game... where it weaves all of reality for me and gives me beautiful positive and negative experiences and for me to receive them unconditionally and to find beauty, wisdom, meaning, and joy in them.

That's really beautiful and potent, I can feel the transmission there, love it! 

[BlessedLion]

17 hours ago, Cubbage said:

Meeting a truly God-realized woman is remarkably profound, I couldn't even begin to describe the depth of conversation that is possible between a God-realized man & woman.

Yes, this has been my experience with the few God Realized women I know, it can take intimacy to a whole new level as well, that's is where true Tantra exists.

[BlessedLion]

11 hours ago, Salvijus said:

And the states of conciousness you temporarily experience on these substances is not how you measure someone's spiritual growth anyway

Definitely not, I would say this is almost irrelevant, means very little. 

[UnbornTao]

People make claims all the time; that doesn’t necessarily make them true. They might also be using terms like 'awakening' differently, so take that into account. We generally tend to confuse an unusual state or experience with an enlightenment, so it’s important to stay rigorous with oneself regarding that. That said, circumstances seem to be secondary to the desire to know.

Bear in mind that "How does this benefit me?" is a completely different question from "What is true?"

Edited May 14 by UnbornTao

[Oppositionless]

12 hours ago, Salvijus said:

It's not like men are the only ones who have ever done psychedelics. And the states of conciousness you temporarily experience on these substances is not how you measure someone's spiritual growth anyway. In many ways women are more concious in life I would say. 

Okay but the experience can rewire your brain to experience a permanent shift in consciousness.  
Look at all the NDE experiencers who permanently lose fear of death. It wasn't the content of the experience it was that the experience literally changed their brain.

[Emerald]

1 hour ago, BlessedLion said:

For sure, and i think in general women are better at understanding this naturally. 

But the problem is most people don't know it's a sacred virtual reality video game so they suffer way more than needed. Think Holocaust, War, Victims, for them it wasn't just a fun game, it was a horrible nightmare that I'm sure they would wish wasn't real (or they could transcend or create space from). But then again , in the ultimate sense it's God experiencing exactly what it wants to through itself in an ignorant form, it's not like there is a "person" there and "God" somewhere else, it's just when God is being that person, it feels totally real and relatively it is. 

 

I think if more people knew that an option in the game was to wake up from it, more would play that game. Most people are not consciously playing the game of life. It's almost like a baked in wisdom to understand that enlightenment is even an option.

 

That's really beautiful and potent, I can feel the transmission there, love it! 

Yes, definitely.

One of the reasons why it seems to show me these things in my journeys is because it revealed to me in an earlier journey that the life's purpose is mercy... as it's showed me that the reason why God's consciousness created the illusion of Emerald in the first place is mercy.

When the point of consciousness that typically sits behind my eyes was exposed to the everythingness element of the infinite, the experience of the infinite was producing a lot of suffering for the point of consciousness that typically sits behind my eyes as there was resistance to that fact of infinite suffering always existing from the perspective of the infinite.

And no matter what, infinite suffering would always re-arise. 

And the way I would describe it is that, this point of consciousness was one with the rest of God's infinite consciousness and simply was God's consciousness. But the point of consciousness that sits behind my eyes went into resistance towards infinite suffering that can never be solved (as that is an element of the infinite). 

And out of mercy towards itself, it split "my" point of consciousness away from itself... in order to allow that point of consciousness mercy through allowing it to go into a state of unconsciousness to the infinite and imposing blinders on this consciousness while in its incarnation into the illusion of Emerald.

And that way, through the vehicle of the illusion of Emerald's life, this fragmented off point of God's consciousness can experience the illusion of finiteness and the mercy that comes from limitation... and not having to be responsible for the infinite and to always allow all things.

And out of mercy and love towards itself in these kinds of situations, it allows itself the illusion of being a tiny drop, when it is actually the ocean.

So, there can be this imperfect illusory Emerald character with a beginning and an end... who only dies once... and can only experience but so much suffering... and who prefers the good to the bad. And it's that, in contrast to knowing and loving all and grieving infinite griefs, which is what God consciousness experiences... and is fully capable of doing so because (out of love) it can cut away the parts of itself that cannot allow the experience of infinite griefs.

It was like, it allowed me (aka God) to surrender my (aka God's) responsibilities to be present with infinite suffering to give itself mercy and a vacation from the infinite.

But it also showed me it has many "release valves" through which to mitigate the suffering aspects of itself would otherwise experience if those release valves didn't exist. And one such release valve is simply incarnation into the illusion of finiteness.

Another such release valve is incarnation into the illusion of finiteness and waking up to the pure empty consciousness. And it showed me the image of monks when it communicated this to me.

And yes, those who have been particularly burned by the physical world may prefer the latter... which is likely why there are so many world religions that have to do with transcending all that's Earthly and material.

When you are in a finite Hell... then all you can want is to be released from it into an infinite Heaven. And there are experiences of God's consciousness that are like that.

But when you experience infinite Hell (and knowing and loving all things in infinity and grieving all griefs for an eternity at the deepest level of grieving possible), then the finite is a much more fitting release valve.

From the perspective of God's consciousness that has no resistance to suffering and can love all things without resistance, however, it has shown me the game it plays that involves the experience of both mercy and suffering which blend seamlessly together where there is no sense of where one ends and the other begins... and move like a thrilling roller coaster through infinite consciousness. 

This point of consciousness was too resistant to holding space for that duality of mercy and suffering to transcend that particular dualism... and this is where my consciousness split from the rest of God's consciousness. And the Emerald story was spun up.

And it made my life's purpose all about mercy... which has been a constant pulse throughout my entire human experience but was only made clear in that journey.