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  2. Posted · Edited by NoSelfSelf

    @AdamR95 Yes as long you dont interview her about her dreams in life and what she does for fun, but instead you stimulate the mind with flirting,sensual talk,making her laugh,blush,react etc. Then its going towards the sex without you even wanting it, but she wanting it but ofc your game must be tight...

    Some women have game so she would like tell you, shes not doing this and that which you could be like not following it and move on it all depends,but if she sees you as "the guy" it could happen fast its complex matter...

    Dont even think about sex think about how you stimulating her and in which way..

    If you afraid of friend zone right from the start create narrative that goes into flirty vibe...

     

  3. Posted · Edited by NoSelfSelf

    @AdamR95 Im saying dont go for whats between her legs because the one more experienced sees all your tricks,you need to hit on emotional level(its too deep to discuss here)you looking for her to hint it by the way you positioning yourself(again too deep to discuss here).

    On the other hand if you hang up on sex then you dont manipulate you tell her whats your intention(nobody does because scared of instant rejection) its more important for me to be truthful and have principles then to get laid.

    If she says i dont do that then you move on.(no patience yes)

    But if you thristy for sex then she is always in power position to dangle it in the air when she can smell thats all you want...

    Its no simple answer it depends on what you are...

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    @Rishabh R You need to learn how to work on your mind on a deeper level, because your mind is set to react to the outside, you havent even started to unlock it ,so you cant build things inside your mind that will offer a woman something that will want to be around you.

    You cant skip levels to this if you want consitent resaults.

    You dont have a king inside your mind that is governing your whole life you have surface level habits which are fine but you need to go deeper if serous about this...

  7. Posted · Edited by NoSelfSelf

    @mr_engineer Its not a crime its inappropriate, its like me farting next to you when you eat or in general it would disgust you.Women experience everything on so much bigger level emotionally show her a bug then you will see.What irrirates you irritates them on a higher level and they dont operate like you and dont have same experience.Some women had an experience with behaviour that you showing with a guy that did something bad to her could be that you never know.You shouldnt care for them you should care for yourself to not be creepy by not staring at women for long time with imagining some scenarios or something its innapropriate...

    It would weird you out if a woman starts acting like a man same way you need to learn how to be a man but thats a phantasy if we caring about this..

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    @mr_engineer You dont know what simp is,simp is you giving so much attention to a woman not @coburn

    Also being creepy is actually you not being direct with a woman,your intent is not maching your behaviour,that's why creep dont actually want to have sex with a woman(because of some psychological problem) but his behaviour is just to lust over them(looks like he wants to but is indirect) that indirectness creates creepiness,when what you do is not congruente with who you are.

    You being scared of women and inexperience will create creepiness.You gonna want her but act like you want to be her friend.

    I wrote this to my own entertainment otherwise im talking to a wall.

  9. Posted · Edited by NoSelfSelf

    @numbersinarow That's not true they precisely go for those with good qualities, but what you think a good quality is is not whats for her,every women desires qualities they like some will like you for having a great body nothing else...some will like chubby guy that's nerdy you cant know but they have something she precisely wants.Other thing those guy could be simping for the woman and she is at that time looking for that, you never know or should care about other guys and other women,that's why you losing and your mind is tricking you from looking at yourself.

    Game dont get you laid game attracts women to want to sleep with you.Pua is manipulating woman to get her in bed big difference...

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    @StarStruck Then you not going to draw in curiosity because self reliant man who lives of his own principles and is not changing them based on the woman wont even want a woman, that makes her want you,so lesson is to desire without desiring, she can smell your want coming of the weak foundation because you dont live by your codes but hers...that's why so called 9s and 10s wont give you time of the day...

  11. Posted · Edited by NoSelfSelf

    You dont know yourself to believe in yourself so what will you have confidence in? "If lion knew his strenght no man could restrain him"is a good quote to show that you need to know you to belive in you.

    Second thing is you dont trust and depend on yourself, so you seek someone to tell you how to built the confidence ,even if you had all the knowledge about confidence wouldnt make a difference because you didnt come to that conclusion yourself.

    Confidence is knowing you can do something, competence is being able to get same resault over and over again confidence is just one part...

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    @Princess Arabia The one who is initiator is the one who is creating the narrative, so he is the one who is in charge of it all,he positioned himself to be used, so in a sense it all falls in his lap, i dont believe men and woman being equal and will take full responsibility because im the one who is the leader and controling the "chess board"so im not blaming noone, she could be also desperate, she could be whatever, but if im in charge and initiator im the one to blame for my actions, since she is the one minding her own business that's how i see it...

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    @meta_male Because game has nothing to do with anything that's not related to you,game comes from deep understanding of yourself that came from you creating the understanding in the first place(you can only understand this if you are a student of the game) so then your mindsets and your world connects with your behaviour.Simple terms you cant lead a woman if you first know how you lead yourself,you cant impact a woman emotionally and communicate with her if you dont communicate with yourself effectively first, thus game has nothing to do with woman but yourself and how you are with yourself and then you stand on everything you are and dont move from it,you communicate clearly how it goes with you so she has to fit into your relationship you have with yourself,but if you make it about a woman and learn to have relationship with a woman, then you will always come short and not being able to give amazing experience since focus is not on you but her...

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    @ivankiss Im not even talking about relationships with man and a woman im first talking about one you have with yourself...

    What it comes down to is you wanting the benefits of someone with game while not having it and you lying to yourself, other than that i have no problem with other stuff its your choice,but since you know the best and never try to understand my pov then that's that,i guess i wont be messaging you ever again have a nice life i truly mean it 🙏

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    @ivankiss I apologize for that,im just saying how i see it,but be real you dont have game,i dont dispute you cant get women but your game is non existent.

    You dont understand that i can see through everything just with your thinking from those 4 vents and queastions i asked you ,since thats my top value in life understanding on a deep level, but how defensive you are im spot on, my style is harsh yes it cuts to the core of the matter since i thought im talking to a man, but okay again dont take it personal im not even caring about you as an individual but for the deep understanding of the matter at hand...

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    @The0Self I dont know either doesnt make sense,only sense it makes is when you put her above yourself being in a mindset i need to put up with her bs so i can keep her,having no self respect,when i said ill cut her if she raised the voice after i told her that that's not how we talk ,he was shocked not realising hes creating the disrespect in the long run,so she will go as far as she needs to go because its all about power struggle but no he will give everything away just to make ti work doesnt work like that...as a man she could be perfect but she disrespect, you must sacrefice her but he cant do that so he created that situation..

    He thinks if you cut her off thats a weakness and not strenght so he will continue to take it..