Schizophonia

Again, maybe i clicked in the wrong place but i went to a random place in the video and he just says random stuff. One day I'll be doing politics or something like that and some guys will be digging into my 10,000+ posts to try to convince themselves that I'm bad.

Men are also under increasing pressure; look at all the men who bodybuild and even take steroids. Even I, who am not very social, have encountered several of them both in real life and online.

I have several friends and I frequent French forums where men talk about romantic relationships; and when they are average or worse, uglier than average, many have great difficulty attracting any woman, even ugly, fat, etc.; lookmatch or inferior. I'm not saying that means Black Pill, Pareto, and the like are true; I'm saying that your projection theory is false. The nature of reality is projective, yes, but it involves similar objects; so men onto men and women onto women, but not men onto women, or vice versa; or, at the limit, projection of the anima onto women, as I theorized in one of my topics. Maybe I don't have a clear opinion here; I was criticizing your projection theory. Rumination alternates between a masochistic and sadistic pole. And since masochism is primary (you have to be a masochist to shift your attention to an object you don't value, sadism therefore implies masochism), it is generally masochism that dominates, so If you ask people who ruminate a lot, it's usually self-hatred that wins out. Look at incel forums; there are a lot of hate about other yes but especially self-hatred. Same for LGBT forums and especially transsexuals btw. I'm not talking about myself; I probably won't have much trouble finding someone once my life is more in order, but that's because I'm at an advantage physically financially, etc. I'm not going to lecture men about romantic relationships who are at a much greater disadvantages, that would be hypocritical. All I can do that is truly productive is to propose individual and collective solutions.

No she is wrong. You only believe her because your ego is too afraid of an alternate reality where you don't have the privilege of your advantageous physical and economic status. People are led to think this because they can't get women at all; not because their physical standards are too high. Take an interest in the people concerned.

This is true online because by looking at your random selfies women can easily see that you suck, it's even worse if you go on a Tinder-alternative dating site where people come because they know they're ugly/suck, lol. In any case, it's easier and more enjoyable in real life, in a context where you can offer something. What's paralyzing next is learned helplessness. There isn't much of a solution you have to go through this feeling, but yes it's not natural to be abandoned by your social group; it's normal that it's infuriating/paralyzing.

Lots of introspection, and videos on Freud/Lacan during my insomnias.

Karma is identity, the sense of self as you call it. That's not true, well being isn't priority of humans otherwise there wouldn't be self-destructive behaviors. The absolute priority of human's ego is survival, conservation of the self in general. Well being is a symbol of survival yes but it's not survival in itself, The gap is the reason why people have behaviors that seem irrational from the outside, even from their conscious point of view; because unconsciously their behavior allows them to survive; they are not sure of surviving in any other state even of "happiness" and they are so attached to survival that they will choose the state of not happiness. This is the tragedy of the human ego, which makes people allow themselves to be exploited, belittled in various ways, and to exhibit neurotic behavior in general. Yes. I wanted to say that spirituality is ultimately not so non-normie after all, eheh, and above all that it is an object of choice for our neurotic part; like all scrupulous subjects (religions, nutrition, politics...). I'm not saying that we shouldn't be interested in these subjects "because otherwise it's neurotic"; I'm saying that they are fertile ground. When I watch a sad movie, when I don't have access to my Paris Brest, when I learned about the implementation of a boring age verification system for pornographic sites in France. Negative affects 😾

In obsessive-compulsive neurosis, due to castration anxiety, there is a pleasure in shitting in the wrong place as a response; excrement is used as a substitute for the phallus. That is, you will "hold it in" most of the time and exhibit mixed, non directed, even masochistic behavior; this is due to unconscious processes. And sometimes you "release the excrements" and become aggressive/sadistic, and say, "Oh, what a pain in the ass those cuckolds pencil necks, me, virility, me, me..."). But excrement still isn't a real phallus; the true phallic position doesn't occur when you rebel, but when there's nothing left to rebel against. If you've adopted the phallic position, then there's no longer any competition (unconsciously the father/father substitutes, power holders, since the Oedipus complex or individual scenario of the transition to the phallic stage in general) to rebel against, by definition. So right now, you'd be a stoic doing whatever you want, rather than going on Actualized and making a thread complaining about your gay (non-phallic) mirrors who are afraid to lift heavy weights.

I'd rather have "pencil neck" than end up with a herniated disc, a torn muscle, a torn ligament, etc. The guy who made the video may be angry, but Mister Olympia contestants often have accidents.

These are begin the questions so i'm not going to respond to that, It would take entire topics. You are essentially a product of your culture/tradition. Even if you're an unsociable autistic person hiding in a cellar, all the activities you engage in and your way of thinking—language, as Lacan would say—are essentially a social inheritance. Look, why do you have your psychedelic avatar found on Google? To say, "Look, I'm the guy who takes psychedelics and is spiritual." You're attached to the social body. Everyone here does that, even if one is neurotic and claims to be "above all that." "Being above all that" is still a character, haha, a stupid character to ultimately gain power and place oneself in society. Tradition is a bundle of symbols that the libido can invest in and that facilitate social cohesion. Without this, you end up in an atomized society where people are bored and/or their sexual energy is poorly harnessed. Rather than pretending you don't have a dick, you might as well take care of it.

The "collective unconscious" Jung is proud of you Because of karma. Hre what the ego believes is good too "gain power". For me, the only sign that someone is open is the absence of negative affects. Then, whether a subject is marginal or not doesn't matter. And spirituality isn't unconventional, it's average as hell eheh.

You attract what you are, if you consciously want something but it doesn't happen then it's not you.

You're doing yourself a favor; alcohol is euphoric and stress-relieving. But it's actually better to limit your alcohol intake because otherwise, if you increase your intake, you'll vomit, experience various problems, and increase your risk of death; I don't consume any drugs these days. But the goal is always well-being/survival ;neurosis occurs when you begin to stray from this goal and start to think and function as if you were low-key, subservient to a dictator. Like you say "It's true that a person can have bad habits but can have goodness" lol; it's like you are not interested in whether the other person can make you gain something, if you can create something with it; it's as if there was a sadistic dictator up there somewhere and your priority was to please him. When I say that, I have nothing against you; it's a judgment and a projection I make here and there about people who talk about personal development. The more time passes, the less interested I become in these subjects and I prefer to see myself becoming a father, a politician, a member of a charitable organization, an athlete, etc. And when someone talks to me about personal development, nutrition, spiritual work, maturity, truth, etc it seems narcicistic, gay or something; triggers negative reactions in general.

@theleelajoker @aurum Let's say that having an attractive lifestyle is often concomitant with having a social circle, since we are a social species, but it is not systematic. 🤔 A woman can also introduce you to her social circle if you lack one; women are independent now and have their own social circles. Also, people work; in reality, it's already a significant investment of time to do things with your girlfriend, your entourage in general; so this whole thing is a bit of a fantasy. There are a lot of fantasies in pick up, I think. Rather than focusing on particular objects, which is anxiety-provoking and would distance me from myself, I prefer to create my cocoon which corresponds, is pleasant for me even if it is solitary, and if the cake is pleasant enough then it will be very pleasant for certain women too 😎🍰 🤏🥰🤏

It is a dye and retry; I loved Hotline Miami 2. Me I'm more a NPC I wait for Arma 4 and EU5.