Schizophonia

Me : 💀

Never force anything or almost.

Responding to this kind of thread in an argumentative manner tacitly suggests that the op is lobotomized and can't find the obvious solutions on his own (psychologist, medication, yoga, or whatever). He's making this thread because he can't help but relive his character, even his pp has a depressant vibe; from then on, anything we can say will be in vain. As my mentor rightly says, a good therapist is one who will trigger negative feelings because they will break/humiliate the structure. Even psychedelics aren't effective most of the time; they don't work long enough, and they don't even necessarily push the structure in the desired direction; they're just a few hours of increased neuroplasticity. The only thing that might work with this kind of individual is military service or something like that to break the attachment to infantile narcissism that comes back to self-help. Karma will burn in any case, but you'll never be able to "gently" change a structure; it's futile. In fact, I don't even believe in the principle of a "personal development forum," because the truth is generally blunt and direct, and making it debatable is just a tacit strategy to boost the ego. Someone who really wants to study health will study it, or at least experiment with it; they won't debate it on a forum. That's usually what we do when we're talking nonsense, or at least slowing things down to boost their ego to a lower level. I know you know that.

I’m almost sure I posted something and it has been removed?

Stop pretending you're conscious i'm only one who is

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To be more precise the "outside" is the perfect, proportionnal mirror of the "inside" I talk about topic x in a way y with a frequency z because I have problem x twisted in a way y with a frequency z. You get rid of a problem by putting yourself in the position of no longer seeing that problem.

No i didn't talk about you; i meant the phenomenon you describe is normal because people see and want to talk about what is a subject for them, so what is probably actually unresolved. If you don't have money problems, you probably won't have to talk about money; if you don't have problems with women, you probably won't have to talk about it either, etcetc edit : actually if you see it at the point of doing a topic you're indeed in mirror with them 👺 It takes effort to admit it, and your first instinct will be to deny it, because by definition, what is projected is what is denied. And what is denied is more or less repressed in the unconscious.

Mirror effect

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You've made several allusions like that, who are you referring to? Me? Carl Richard? If you're a man, you say it when you have a criticism to make of someone, you don't hide behind remarks that are actually quite haughty and that you probably wouldn't own up to face to face. I never say anything that I wouldn't actually do in reality. Now, in the meantime, you still haven't provided any proof of what you're saying; the starting point is that most of girls and more particularly the attractive one are sweet, while you and Leo are saying the opposite. Because here you are the one acting like a caricature of a woman "who is not interested in the truth but in her feelings", and who says that you are only simps (below the belt attack) if it turns out that what you say goes in the direction of women but not in mine."

Purest actualize/forum's member.

No the harder you try, the less you get; It's like increasing speed on the treadmill, but it's still the same stupid treadmill. It must come from love. When I'm in love, girls teleport into my Maya instantly, correlated with the intensity of my love. If I create a Tinder account out of curiosity because I don't have any friends but I want to get off my balls (you know what I mean, a frequency that sucks like that), well, reality being a mirror, I'll end up with the reflection of my love which is to say nothing lol or bad quality women, no conversation or at least uninteresting conversations... Even worse if you go to a stupid alternative app where people are there because they "know they're ugly" then it's over. On the other hand, if the intention is better, I will have a lot of matches and pretty girls; once again, in a way that is surprisingly proportional to what I give off internally. I don't want to hear about Tinder, but I've already tried it several times out of curiosity. Why not even transsexual girls like op lol; when you ruminate on actualized about the lack of abundance it is about refusing to take the phallic position which will therefore naturally be projected onto the other; that is to say refusing to feel pain (therefore by extension the self in general) by adopting a feminine position of active cope.(rumination is a kind of tacit cry for help that avoids confrontation with pain, Lacan would say it's about "turning around the bush of representation"). In fact, even being devastated/broken magnetizes girls, not the same kind of girls but still, because it's always a return to masculinity, to the phallus; passive coping, taking on the pain (in this case), taking on the self. The worst thing is really the lack of integrity, usually out of fear of being abandoned (it's a long-term conditioning stemming from the Oedipus complex, trauma, etc.), like you think that if you come back to yourself and stop simpering people, you'll be abandoned and die. But that's a big illusion; it's by abandoning yourself in a very selfish way that abundance will come, and by remaining passive, coping, you'll have nothing and become a sissy.

Accept being "shalow" yourself.

There are an infinity number of forms that suffer infinity more than humans, because of infinity.