Biggest downside is simply the waste of time.
All the time people use to socialize could be used to launch a business.

Prison should be his wake-up call.
But he's in so deep, I doubt even that will change him.
He doesn't know how to produce meaningful, quality content. That's too much work for him. So he specializes in scum content.

If a man does not meet her needs, yes, she will replace him.
But it is silly to expect otherwise. It is your job to know her needs and satisfy them within reason.

https://www.actualized.org/insights/jack-black

So, I love everything you said in this blogpost. Spot on. My game nowadays is very much like Jack Black as in being fully free in expressiveness and authenticity that aligns with my core personality and to who I am as a person. I have the looks but I rarely depend on it / use it. Oftentimes I look like a homeless man just because I'm too lazy to put my A-game looks on or really to do anything about it.

But the thing is, I contribute a lot of my Jack Black style to Owen & Julien. That's where I mostly learned this natural, Jack Black style from.

You've got a bunch of ''negative'' stuff to say about Owen tho, including:

- ''He is not really the best in game. He is a much better at teaching game than at game itself.'' Of course he isn't literally the #1 best in game, but the way you come across makes him sound like he doesn't have an elite-level game.

- ''He dresses too try-hard''

- ''He doesn't get laid that much (relative to how much he approaches)''

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So I'm just trying to connect the dots. What am I missing? From my understanding, Owen teaches everything you said in the blogpost. That's his whole foundation. His whole schtick.

Are you saying that Jack Black doesn't get laid much? Or he wouldn't if he didn't have the status?

The cool thing here is that Owen and Jack Black are quite alike both in looks but also in game. And it seems like you tend to overall give Owen more shit compared to how much you are praising Jack Black here.

Curious to know why.

Thanks for taking your time to answer.

Of course they can.
However, if there are things outside of your consciousness, then you are not fully God.
A key to what I am telling you is that you need to become so conscious that nothing lies outside of your consciousness. As long as stuff lies outside your consciousness there is more Awakening to do.
When you are fully Awake there will be nothing outside you. That is the claim. You ain't that Awake yet so it still seems to you that other exists. From your limited consciousness other does exist, because you keep imagining it.
Notice that you are speaking of God as other to you.
It limits God if anything is outside its consciousness. As long as you imagine there is a God outside of you, that limits you because you are not fully realizing you are God.
If you fully realized you are God, nothing would be outside of your consciousness.
Notice that you keep speaking of God as something other than you. As long as you keep framing God in that way you are correct in that you are not fully God.
You are the one who keeps framing yourself as merely a small part of God.
What I am telling you is, drop that frame and become ALL of God. Become identical to God.
At the level of consciousness I am talking about there is no such distinction.
Okay. And what if you stop imagining that difference?
You are imagining those "missing" possibilities.
You are not infinitely totally conscious. I am telling you to become so. When you do, you will be Alone.
Awakening is when you realize you are dreaming. It is lucidity within the dream. And there are many degrees of lucidity, which ends in Infinity.
Yes, but you keep making these distinctions of bubble, microcosm, inside. If you insist on making such distinctions then, yes, you are not fully God, you have made yourself a part. I am saying to stop doing that.
Become TOTALITY.
Do it. Then you will understand why I say what I say.
Yes, well, then other is imaginary. As I said.
I am not telling you to discard yourself. You will still have a human POV after Awakening.
However, if you Awaken deeply enough you will die. I am not telling to do that. I am just describing what happens at very high consciousness.
Well, that is what I realized. It did not require Awakening forever, just high enough. It is not theoretical for me.
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This whole issue boils down to stop imagining others. If you don't want to stop then others will keep seeming real. The key is to realize that YOU are the one doing it. As long as you keep acting like you aren't God, then you aren't God, because you are God.
What would it be like to take 100% responsibility for creating everything that exists? To stop passing the buck to some imaginary other, including God.
That's hella challenging to do. But it can be done.
If you did that, that would be serious God-Realization.

Having fun wingmen is the #1 tip for going out.
Yes, going solo is brutally hard so you won't be motivated to do it. You need good wingmen who make you wanna go out for the fun.

This is just not how most women behave. Women are loyal to a fault. You have to do something seriously off for a woman to replace you once she has fallen for you.
Your view of woman nature is highly biased and not representative. If you want to have healthy relations with women you need to deconstruct this warped, biased view of them. Or it will really fuck you up.
I have never had a problem with girlfriends being disloyal.

Hair transplant. Expensive. 
Being bald does not look good. It impacts self esteem. 
 

If you have a hair transplant in a serious clinique, (not Turkish bullshit) the doctor will prescribe you finasteride that have very dangerous side effects and you will have to stay commited to this meds the entire life to keep the remaining hair alive. Also if you have the bad luck of developing post-finasteride syndrome youll have depression and sexual disfunction forever.
Think about the risks and the rewards.
I know lot of people with hair transplants, and it doesnt last forever. If you want to have hair 7-10 years more is your choice.

@thierry just dont get too New agy with Karma. 
It's just one hair moved to another place. Thats not a big Operation

I don't really have any hobbies.

I am never going to belong.
My personality will never be happy in a group. This is nothing new. I have been this way since a kid. I get not satisfaction from being in a group.
I have the personality of an ascetic. I am highly rebellious, non-conformist, and disagreeable. I am not a team player. This is not something I can just change about myself. This is core to my personality.

Yeah, well. The reason I got where I got is because I am blunt. I don't beat around the bush. I know it turns some people off, but I can't change my whole personality style to suit soft people. This work demands a certain seriousness and ruthlessness in attitude. Otherwise you will be mired in human bias.

Because when you're attractive, girls just let you get away with it. It fuels the ego, the ego is drunk on its own power and abuses it. 
An ego that big feels entitled to anything it wants any time it wants. And it doesn't take no for an answer.
You might as well ask, why are rich people greedy when they don't need to be?
Russell was a serious addict, which means he was living like an out of control drunk sailor on leave in Thailand.

It's simple:
Feminine = surrender

Lol
Well, as long as you got the results you want, what else matters, eh? You got one slippery ego-mind
You have no idea the depth of my female-male relationships. If you assume they are shallow, that's your mistake.

The truth is that your romantic love is utterly self-biased and designed to serve your ego's survival needs.
Please stop with the BS. You playing games.

No
One of the things pickup teaches you is to stop caring what women say about you. It simply does not matter. But you can only learn this lesson the hard way, by going out and getting rejected 1000s of times.

That's questionable in a relationship context.
The problem is the ego loves to co-opt spirituality and consciousness for survival. It's a very deceptive and murky process.
Is there something like a genuine connection with another human? Yes. But it is wrapped in layers of survival stuff which will always linger.
But hey, I'm sick of preaching this stuff. Go contemplate how your dating and relationships truly work for yourselves. If you dare.
Consider this: the only reason you guys follow me is because it gives you survival value. As soon as my ability to give you value disappears, you will leave me or hate me. Yet in your minds you don't think of it that way. In your minds you think you really appreciate me for who I am. Of course this is pure fantasy. You don't really care who I am. If I was Hitler, you would want me killed. Such is life. Accept it and move on.

All you have to do to see that your romance is completely self-biased and survival based is to contemplate why you don't get romantic with a gorilla. There is absolutely no reason why you should relate with humans more than gorillas other than survival.
Absolutely everything involving sex is pure self-bias. Why do you not hump a light-post? Sex is COMPLETELY arbitrary and relative. And the only reason you do it is because it has survival value for the species.
But don't get me wrong. This doesn't mean you can't have deep intimate relationships. You can! Just stop fooling yourself about what it is you're doing. You are using those relationships to enhance your survival. You are doing that without admitting you are doing it. Self-deception 101.
Except that's your projection, not anything I said.
Relationships are survival. But saying so does not devalue the relationship in any way. It's just being honest about what you're doing. People get the very wrong idea here that I am anti deep relationships. Not at all. You can do deep intimate relationships with consciousness and spiritual aspects. But it's still a survival game.
People love the illusion of it not being a game. It makes the ego feel justified in its raw survival. The ego needs to paint a pretty story about how all of its purely arbitrary survival needs and manipulations are in fact legit, pure, good, honest, truthful, and selfless. Women especially fall into this illusion and they really upset when it is pointed out them.
Both men and women are selfish as devils when it comes to sex. The selfishness is asymmetrical, with each side denying their own particular brand of selfishness while being outraged by the selfishness of the opposite side. And all of this is, of course, just more selfishness! And all of this is, of course, denied with great passion and fury.
It would be much simpler if you just came out and said: "I am a selfish devil and I want sex under conditions X, Y, Z because that's what serves me best." But of course you cannot do that because it harms your survival. Your community will judge you for it and you can't stomach admitting to yourself just how selfish you are. So you must keep all your true motivations and conditions secret, even from yourself.

I'm 19 years old, never had a girlfriend. It usually never bugs me unless I'm exposed to a lot of new women, big cities etc... (like right now). And I always questioned, what will happen when I get one. What activities can couples do that aren't cringey? Am I supposed to live with her? as much as I want one, I don't want this girl to take up all or even most of my time. how much should I optimally see her on lets say... weekly basis? And lastly, How much sex should we have?
I'm asking this because, well I kinda lied. I had one in high school, but it was so strange I barely consider it a proper relationship! It was mostly messages, emojis and occasionally going out. I remember that this girl absolutely demanded that I message her everyday! and she would get insanely depressed and angry If I "left her one read", apparently this is a thing people look at. I was shocked. O and she didn't want to have sex at all, she said that we we're too young for that. We we're both 16. But I guess she couldn't make that excuse today
It's like this girl wanted 100% of my time just to talk to her on the phone...

Well, you can do whatever you want.
Personally I would not date a girl who doesn't have sex by the end of 2nd date.
Ain't no such thing as celibate girls unless maybe they're nuns. And even then I wouldn't take this celibacy seriously. This is an act. Not real celibacy.
Again, you can do whatever you want. These are just my personal standards.

Your mind remembers things easily when they are related to your life purpose. Remembering requires meaning and significance. The information must be significant to your higher goals. Not just random scientific or historical facts.
That's why you forgot 99% from school. None of it was meaningful to your life goals.

I figured out that the reason they were pushing this idea of "Radical Monogamy" is because Aubrey and Vylana have sold a course in the past about how to do divine union and monogamy. So they need to rationalize that they are still doing monogamy, otherwise that course and all the people who bought it will feel like a fraud.
Aubrey put himself into a corner when he publicly told everyone that he rejected polyamory for monogamy when he married Vylana. And now he needs to reverse course but he needs it seems like his craving for sex didn't really cause him to reverse course. Hence "Radical Monogamy" and hence Marc Gafni there to coach him through the mental gymnastics of that reversal.
This is a beaitful example of the insane craftiness of self-deception.

Sounds like pure BS.
Disappointed in Ken not being more aware of this BS. This dude is clearly a sex pest and more.