I think you're pretty cute and I'm handing out a dating resume

[gettoefl]

that's the close being used

Namely, walk around town, find the ones you like, speak the close

then hand out a printed out blurb containing your stats, your interests, your needs in an other half, your contact info

will anyone here do this? answer yes i will/no i won't in the poll above

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-11194181/27-year-old-woman-starts-handing-dating-RESUMES-men-finds-attractive.html

[gettoefl]

don't forget to answer the poll question

don't be shy

then in your reply give your reasons / say why or why not

[Danioover9000]

   Yes, while it's cringe at first to do, with all these false accusations and shit we might have to do something like this lol!

[Tyler Robinson]

That's actually cute. I guess people would have invented such methods in a strict culture. 

The real question is - where's the charisma? 

 

[Leo Gura]

The epitome of cringe.

Edited September 11, 2022 by Leo Gura

[thepixelmonk]

9 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

The epitome of cringe.

Wanted to say the same thing lol.

[Hello from Russia]

Cool idea, but you gotta make it so it's not gonna be cringey, indeed. With proper charisma it could be a very fun way to do it

[Ulax]

I wouldn't do it.

But fair play to her for taking initiative, and doing something courageous and proactive.

[Jordan]

This is super cringy. I would much rather talk to someone and see if I like them and that they are single instead of putting the effort of something like writing up a resume for them.

[assx95]

It's a terrible idea. Oh god, it's hard to even imagine that. I don't want to. Bye. 

[ZzzleepingBear]

You're Hired mam!

[Cepzeu]

Bring to mind somebody you respect and ask yourself if they would do this.

[hyruga]

At least print out the resume using a printer  but I guess people in the states won't bother to do that unless they are in a high tech place like silicon valley.

[gettoefl]

here's a dozen pros of this method:

• taking control of your dating destiny, i choose based on energy vibe and their similarity to me
• not letting love and life pass you by
• living for the now
• resisting high pressure techniques to close but letting the prospect decide in their own time
• cultivating sincerity humility integrity
• living from complete desperation: if i die tonight i gave this my best shot (this is a positive attribute)
• my presentation is in my hands alone, both my bio, how i approach and my appearance 
• pure intentions, full honesty will likely beget the same from others
• it's free one of a kind creative wholesome innocent, all qualities one would like in a prospective partner
• you don't get a second chance to make a good first impression
• doing what i fear is the best way to conquer fear
• trusting the universe to send simply the best

 

 

 

[hyruga]

2 hours ago, Medhansh said:

You're basically proposing an offline version of Tinder. People have been doing all this on dating apps. 

But practically this will turn out to be super wierd. 

Yeah it was mentioned in the title and description of the article.

[Danioover9000]

29 minutes ago, gettoefl said:

here's a dozen pros of this method:

• taking control of your dating destiny, i choose based on energy vibe and their similarity to me
• not letting love and life pass you by
• living for the now
• resisting high pressure techniques to close but letting the prospect decide in their own time
• cultivating sincerity humility integrity
• living from complete desperation: if i die tonight i gave this my best shot (this is a positive attribute)
• my presentation is in my hands alone, both my bio, how i approach and my appearance 
• pure intentions, full honesty will likely beget the same from others
• it's free one of a kind creative wholesome innocent, all qualities one would like in a prospective partner
• you don't get a second chance to make a good first impression
• doing what i fear is the best way to conquer fear
• trusting the universe to send simply the best

 

 

 

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[Spiral]

I’m not trying to sell myself. I’m trying to discover if the girl suits me.

[BlessedLion]

That’s so lame 

[gettoefl]

potential script for handing out one's dating bio:

Quote

 

hello i think you are pretty cute

so i want to hand you my dating bio

here look please have a copy

take it with you

and if you want, you can just forward me your information 

and we can set up a date to meet up for coffee or something

does that sound okay then

ok nice meeting you

have a great day

 

 

[Guest Nilsi]

At that point, why not just use Tinder? At least you won't be wasting any paper for this cringefest.