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Are girls less horny than men?

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14 minutes ago, wordsforliving said:

@electroBeam the energy of sarcasm and insulting means you are a passionate feminist? Confusing.

I'm insulting, and yet you didn't insult me back. You didn't call me names, you stood your ground which most women would not. I think that's beautiful. And no I'm not being sarcastic with this one.

14 minutes ago, wordsforliving said:

 

Here's an example of a respectful and evolved masculine energy - Jon Butcher. 

 

I understand you believe this is how men should act. But try, not saying you can, but try to see that imposing how a man should be is not nice. Just like how society imposes rules on how women should be, imposing rules on how men should be is just as hurtful. We all deserve to be allowed to have the space to unfold in our authentic ways, and for us to be accepted and loved by whatever that way is. Jon Butcher has a very different personality to me and most people, and it would be deeply inauthentic and hurtful to try and replicate it. I've seen what its like to have balanced feminine and masculine energy as a man, and while I'm not that amazing, other women really appreciate it. 

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@Leo Gura Oh, I love this movie, it is one of my favorite :)


"All that we know is limited, something we don't - is infinite"

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1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

Then it isn't coming from your dick either.

The whole point is: the orgasm comes from the mind. And the mind can be manipulated by whatever material means, be it dick or text message.

You can train a woman to come on a hypnotic trigger, like the snap of your finger. The physical form is irrelevant. You can metaphysically, abstractly fuck a woman.

I find this to be very true. A woman's orgasm comes from the mind. Not the rational mind, like the word is often used, but If we take the definition of mind given by many spiritual teachers, which includes the rational mind and the emotional one, yes definitely.

I also agree that the mind can be manipulated by the physical as well as the unphysical.

With hypnosis, you could make a woman come but this would take a build up, and the text message would be an anchored trigger. Plus, its not specific to a woman. You could do this also to a man.

The thing is, hypnosis is sort of a hack. It's kinda a one man show dynamic, both partners aren't dancing.  One is pupetting the other, so to say.

The real intimacy isn't happening in this context but the mind has the illusion. You're gonna wake up from it and be left still at an emotional distance from your great orgasm giver. With real intimate sex, you don't get to fall back to land of emotional solitude. It's the difference between the real thing (love) and the illusion.

36 minutes ago, Keyhole said:

The thing is, I'm not looking for orgasms I'm looking for love

Real love. We want dick and real love!

;)

 

 

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“If you are irritated by every rub, how will you be polished?” - Rumi.

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Oh, look it was uploaded on February 14th. Bahahaha

You know, a lot of girls be
Thinkin' my songs are about them
This is not to get confused
This one's for you

Creepy. 

You know how you told everyone to use the affirmation "I am rascal, I am a rascal, I am a rascal," Leo? Well your karma is to now affirm, "I'm a good girl and I know it, I'm a good girl and I know it, I'm a good girl and I know it."

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3 minutes ago, Etherial Cat said:

I find this to be very true. A woman's orgasm comes from the mind. Not the rational mind, like the word is often used, but If we take the definition of mind given by many spiritual teachers

Of course this is obvious. Hello what is porn?? Its not physical its pure imagination! 

7 minutes ago, Etherial Cat said:

You're gonna wake up from it and be left still at an emotional distance from your great orgasm giver. 

 

 

Lol the dream of most guys! If only it was that simple.

7 minutes ago, Etherial Cat said:

With real intimate sex, you don't get to fall back to land of emotional solitude. It's the difference between the real thing and the illusion.

I would be curious to know more about that too, whether Leo found a 'real' way to have sex via text or not. 

11 minutes ago, Etherial Cat said:

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Real love. We want dick and real love!

;)

 

 

Yeah I agree. Sex without the love and intimacy is like mcdonalds. With the intimacy its like a highly expensive restaurant. But unfortunately I don't know many guys who agree with me. They have their heart chakra totally closed. Which society's appraisal of masculinity playes a huge role with that. Getting your bf to cry and open up and be vulnerable can trigger his desire for emotional intimacy. But you need to go against decades of social conditioning.

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Sex is also a way of showing love. 

 

 

 

 

 

9_9

 

 

Isn't sex in itself a way of showing intimacy... :ph34r:

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10 minutes ago, wordsforliving said:

@electroBeam The aim here in my case now is overcoming and transcending sexuality altogether and staying asexual from this point forward. 

Don't worry, when you see what's actually going on, you'll have someone even more hot than that Jon guy. You'll have the creator. aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhh!

Yeah I had to deny lots of feminine aspects of me too and I'm a guy. These days I'm like fuck it. In work I get called too compassionate, a pussy, don't fire people enough, a push over. And I say fuck it if I want to be compassionate I'll fucken be compassionate go fuck yourself. They even tell me I'm not being assertive enough. Its got nothing to do with assertiveness its got to do with being fair and doing what's right in God's eye. The true assertive one is the one who stands up to people who tell ya you're not assertive enough.

I got bullied for all of the above in high school, then I went through a phase of being a cu**. Now I'm like fuck you this is who i am. And while I've lost my job a couple of times, never been happier. Its great. 

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1 minute ago, electroBeam said:

Of course this is obvious. Hello what is porn?? Its not physical its pure imagination! 

:P It's not pure imagination. Those are images used as a substitute to our imagination. But yeah, they penetrate the mind and stimulate it.

Women are even more relying on the mind, because our genitals are used both as a pleasure giver and as a mean to expell that 3kg baby.

The vagina remains neutral, unless the mind tells it its time for pleasure. The intensity of the pleasure depends on how deeply the mind is stimulated. And of course, the more intimacy, the easier it is to stimulate it.

12 minutes ago, electroBeam said:

Yeah I agree. Sex without the love and intimacy is like mcdonalds. With the intimacy its like a highly expensive restaurant. But unfortunately I don't know many guys who agree with me. They have their heart chakra totally closed. Which society's appraisal of masculinity playes a huge role with that. Getting your bf to cry and open up and be vulnerable can trigger his desire for emotional intimacy. But you need to go against decades of social conditioning.

100%.

We are just not evolved enough yet. It's sad for both genders.

Men are craving for feminine energy, just like women are craving for masculine energy. We're all just not getting what we want, because we fail to select and find what is our real need, and look for it in the wrong place. 


“If you are irritated by every rub, how will you be polished?” - Rumi.

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3 minutes ago, Etherial Cat said:

And of course, the more intimacy, the easier it is to stimulate it.

There's a careful balance between intimacy and mystery. Not even a balance, cause the secret is that intimacy and mystery are the same. 


My Youtube Channel- Light on Earth “Run from what's comfortable. Forget safety. Live where you fear to live. Destroy your reputation. Be notorious. I have tried prudent planning long enough. From now on I'll be mad.~ Rumi

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@Preety_India

Everything is Love. But you resonate best with its form when it fits your own level of consciousness.


“If you are irritated by every rub, how will you be polished?” - Rumi.

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@Keyhole

But how would I know if he is doing it to show me love and intimacy or if he is doing it just to satisfy his drive? 

 


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4 minutes ago, Keyhole said:

It can be, but more often for men they are trying to satiate a drive, like eating or sleeping.  They view it differently than women do.  They might initially show love in this manner but once they "have you" and don't have to do much, the magic wears off.

Just use your hot, sexy shaman tricks to hypnotise him into thinking you're a wild, sexy tiger. Then see if it 'still wears off'.

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33 minutes ago, Keyhole said:

I think the solution is for both genders to abstain from one another - society will then collapse - and from that necessity can rebuild as something stronger and more efficient, as it has been doing since the dawn of civilization.
It may be more low energy, but it would be honest energy - which is a start, as opposed to the sort of falsities that both genders bring to the table.  There wouldn't be any mask.

I'm certain that with today's level of consciousness, you can find a man that fits your needs, Keyhole.

I've met several very decent men throughout my life, even if its true that the huge majority of them are too unconscious.

I agree with the honest energy thing, though. It's always that honest energy that drives evolution in the right way (an energy of truth, love, and consciousness).

Right now, it starts with us healing ourselves first, and then helping a man with potential to do the same. Some even do it, all alone, and you can enjoy them directly ! ;) 

That's were our Divine Feminine is leading us and pushes us to do. We need to take the lead there and show the way to whoever is willing to listen.

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36 minutes ago, mandyjw said:

There's a careful balance between intimacy and mystery. Not even a balance, cause the secret is that intimacy and mystery are the same. 

 :) Very true.

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8 minutes ago, Keyhole said:

Mine, too.
The show is on Netflix it's called Community - the writing is pretty good and the comedy is great, but the show loses its edge at season 5.

ohhh sorry that's a show? Thought it was my child hood!

 

My God there are too many good men out there! They are everywhere! All over my instagram, these show off dudes that are ripped, loving, feed wildlife and rescue turtles in their free time(when they get time off work of being a doctor caring for poor sick children in pediatrics), donating to moon bears. I'm sick of it! They are everywhere! All these ripped, successful, alturistic dudes all over the place! I'm sick of it! They are taking all the women away!

And here I am having to listen to how there's no great guys out there! 

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@electroBeam

Just because someone does acts of kindness on social media, it means nothing about their true nature. 

I have seen guys acting wonderful and charitable on Facebook and social media and yet in real life they are cult leaders and enable abuse of vulnerable people. 

A man's real self is always behind closed doors. 

 

Social media is a fake shit show to show off. Don't base your opinions on people on their social media profiles. 

 


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26 minutes ago, electroBeam said:

My God there are too many good men out there! They are everywhere!

 

 

See how friendly this guy looks. He would show off his family pics. Great family guy right!! He murdered his wife and kids

Christopher Coleman

. Guy also went to church and was known to be a great guy. 

It's all a facade. 

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Women are really much deeper need for sexuality & it seems to provide a deeper & more long-lasting kind of satisfaction than for men.

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@Annonymous It's a good question, it's quite close I would say, but women just don't seem to have that constant craving that men do, I can only speak from my experiences, even when I am not thinking of something erotic, it's still there, lurking in the back, it's a driving force in us men it seems. Women enjoy it for sure, but do they have that constant sense of lust that we seem to? Some of them do I am sure :) It's all down the person. I have an average sex drive, not too strong but still strong, I would say the average women is probably a little less than that.

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54 minutes ago, Sambodhi said:

Women are really much deeper need for sexuality & it seems to provide a deeper & more long-lasting kind of satisfaction than for men.

YES! This is exactly what I realized. 

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