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NoFap - Why you should quit porn & masturbation !

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I had a wet dream ?. I think my guard was a little down. I think it's possible to prevent them, but you have to set your intentions very clear so in your dreams you don't fall for the traps. Anyways I will still count the days.

Day 26.

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2 hours ago, Javier said:

I had a wet dream ?. I think my guard was a little down. I think it's possible to prevent them, but you have to set your intentions very clear so in your dreams you don't fall for the traps. Anyways I will still count the days.

Day 26.

Just don't watch porn and jerk off, you are on the track :D just a reminder for me ...

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Mahatma Gandhi in India became celibate — he was nearabout forty — because he wanted to live up to the age of a hundred and twenty-five to fight the freedom struggle and to bring it to a conclusion. That was the reason to go into celibacy — to prolong life.

There is a possibility that if by some scientific means a man’s sexual energy is absorbed in his own body, the body will go on renewing, rejuvenating itself for a long time. But ordinarily these so-called celibates are not celibate. The energy is released in some way or other. Even at the age of seventy, Mahatma Gandhi was having nocturnal emissions. 

Mahatma Gandhi has said — and he was one of the most honest men — that even at the age of seventy he was having wet dreams. He has said, “I have come away from sex as far as my conscious mind is concerned but the moment I fall asleep I cannot do anything. In dreams, sexual imagery comes in and the semen moves out.” He was honest.

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Boys. Saw an image on the internet. It was deliberately searched for.

I experimented, I forgot how it even looked like, so I searched for porn trough google SafeSearch. After a while, I saw an image. I was aware through the whole process, and I felt the chemicals surge my brain, overflowing! Now I see why people can sit for 8 hours straight. I just felt the addiction just building on itself, how my patterns of browsing so quickly adapted to find an erotic picture, because that gave me a "high". At one point I pinched myself, and could not feel significant pain (apart from what I normally would feel), and I could not look away from the screen. I got an urge to fap to the porn (which was nostalgic). I sat there for 15 minutes before snapping out of it. I yet don't feel the side effects, because of im sleepy (I was sleepy before browsing), so the morning will tell.

I feel like Im relapsing into oblivion, boys. I will officially make a 30-day challenge right here and now.

I will not be deliberately searching for porn on the internet. I will not touch my genitalia unless im washing it. I will let go of any fantasies, and never dream into them. I surrender to all cravings. All of this for 30 days starting from now, 2018-04-29, and ending 2018-05-29 (one month).

If Leo has a strong enough vision to sit and meditate for 30 days straight, then so shall I not relapse for 30 days as well. Because im tormented by this addiction, and my vision is to have freedom from this negative spiral, and my vision is to be a grown-up fucking man, resisting the cries of the ego, and using the absence of porn and fapping to fuel something greater. I want to go out and find my hot witch girlfriend.

My vision is that I can build my life around the fact that im not gonna fap for the next 30 days, and that I will rewire my brain a bit to get acclimated to the environment im setting for myself. I essentially trying to fill my "hole" with something else. Sexual energy can be used for so many other stuff. If im gonna relapse, it's not gonna be in my fucking hand, its gonna be in the 10/10 vagina. 

Im gonna keep track of the days and actions in my notebook. I will write an update halfway in,  and also if I relapse or if I succeed. Wish me luck.

#nonutmay

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Have you guys ever heard of tantra yoga? The principle is to stimulate your jing energy, located in your semen/sexual centers, and so that it can rise and create refined chi and Shen energy (leading to enlightenment). The yellow emperor for example, was said to have so much sex with woman, and cultivated so much Shen energy around his head, that it glowed a golden color. I don't want to encourage any addiction but I feel this perspective is necessary so that we don't demonize masturbation. The key is not to masturbate, but to retain your semen when you have an orgasm through this method:

I totally agree with people to spend at least a month without masturbating, as a way of respecting yourself on a deeper level, to say, "I love myself too much to misuse what is the most precious energy in my body". Also remember, every time you release your semen that is your lifeforce energy, that means you are taking away years of your life that you could have lived, as we need jing energy to be alive and well. But if you ever have an uncontrollable urge to masturbate (and can't feel into your heart), or you want to practice tantra yoga, always always always do this technique, cause you may as well use it to get closer to enlightenment. Honor your precious energy everyone.

Do you want to tell your Grandchildren that you fap in private? What if you get to that age and still are addicted? Better sooner rather than later my friendsxD

Edited by Solace

Feel your hearts embrace of this moment of existence, and your love will awaken in everything you perceive ❤️ 

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I've actually recently really buckled down on this one. decided to post it here. Just started 5 days ago, but I created my vision and strategy yesterday (no I haven't PMO'd), check back up in a month on may 30th. 

Edited by Truth

"You can't handle the truth!" - Jack Nicholson --- Col. Nathan R. Jessep

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I don't believe in such things like "porn addiction". Just my 2 cents.

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8 hours ago, merimo28 said:

I don't believe in such things like "porn addiction". Just my 2 cents.

This is more than just addictions it's about the benefits of not doing PMO


"You can't handle the truth!" - Jack Nicholson --- Col. Nathan R. Jessep

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On ‎30‎.‎4‎.‎2018 at 5:26 PM, merimo28 said:

I don't believe in such things like "porn addiction". Just my 2 cents.

I doesnt matter what you believe. There is enough science nowadays that porn is very similar to coke as far as brain is concerned.

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lol i am day 1  again but i know that  i can do nofap and i will resist better to my urges  in the future :D

 

lol  nope i am at day  0 again ahhahah

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Porn addiction is tough. From meditation my mindfullness is slowly increasing, but my porn addiction isn't getting any better. 10 minutes into my meditation today I felt really sleepy and horny for some reason. Instead of continuing with my meditation, I watched porn! At least I meditated for 45 minutes afterwards.

Every porn addict knows just how severely numbed their pleasure response from masturbation has become. 3-5 years ago when I was 12-14 the pleasure response from masturbation + porn was enormous, but now that's changed. Nofap has been so unsuccessful for me for 2-3 years now (I wasn't 100% serious about nofap during this time though) for me that I've never seen enough progress from abstinence to know that numbed pleasure can even be fixed. I'm worried that I've broken my dick forever in some way. I wonder whether people who don't masturbate but have sex on a weekly basis have a number pleasure response as well. 

Edited by lmfao

Hark ye yet again — the little lower layer. All visible objects, man, are but as pasteboard masks. But in each event — in the living act, the undoubted deed — there, some unknown but still reasoning thing puts forth the mouldings of its features from behind the unreasoning mask. If man will strike, strike through the mask! How can the prisoner reach outside except by thrusting through the wall? To me, the white whale is that wall, shoved near to me. Sometimes I think there's naught beyond. But 'tis enough

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On 5/8/2018 at 4:06 AM, Everyday said:

lol i am day 1  again but i know that  i can do nofap and i will resist better to my urges  in the future :D

 

lol  nope i am at day  0 again ahhahah

How many days it last??

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i am on day 1000+

it's been almost 3 year i think


unborn Truth

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12 hours ago, ajasatya said:

i am on day 1000+

it's been almost 3 year i think

Wooooooooow!!!! HAHAHA! How are you today?

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12 hours ago, ajasatya said:

i am on day 1000+

it's been almost 3 year i think

You must be taking food in less quantity, just enough to survive !

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5 hours ago, John Iverson said:

How are you today?

Life feels wonderful and people are beautiful.

ALL of my relationships are special


unborn Truth

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