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NoFap - Why you should quit porn & masturbation !

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6 minutes ago, PsiloPutty said:

Finally had sex.

Now the game of No-Whack-A-Mole is back in effect!

Watchout for the chaser effect.

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@Psyche_92   Yes, I remember someone saying that there might be a resurgence of temptation/emotion after sex. Thanks, brother.

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Contemplation by me, just an example, doesnt mean i actually watch that type of porn

 

What happens when you watch porn 

There is nothing wrong with watching porn. 

The problem arises when you imagine you are the dude having sex with the girl. Multiple things can happen: You can compare yourself to him, you can wish you were him (desire), you judge yourself for not having sex with the girl you like that he is having sex with, you can imagine you are the type of personality the porn scene is about. 

So, what about thinking you are the personality the porn scene is about? 

How do you inherent that? Can you get it from watching a lot of form? For example, cucc porn?  

Yes, you can get those desires from watching a lot of porn if you genuinely like it. Why do you like something? I don’t know. 

But the thing about cucc porn is that, watching your girlfriend getting fucked by another man is not inherently wrong its that considering yourself worse than him, feeling hummiliated to get pleasure is what creates the suffering. 

Also, thinking you will never be able to satisfy your girlfriend, wife like another man does also can lead to suffering. Why? Because you are comparing your hability in the bed to another man, as better or worse. 

If someone factually was better at something than me but wasn’t better than me, would that create suffering? 

If I admitted that lebron james is better at basketball than me, would that create suffering? 

I don’t know, on one hand you are not comparing your worth, so, you don’t suffer from that, you are not saying you are bad. But doesn’t ability comparisons usually lead to that? 

Yes, but if you don’t compare your worth, just your skill does that create suffering? 

Well, I think when you compare your skill, your mind automatacally goes to worth comparasions. 

But if it didn’t compare your worth, would that create suffering? 

Well, isnt ability having more skillful worth than someone else? 

Yes, because you are comparing how good you are at something, how precious your skill is. 

So you are comparing your skillful worth. 

For example, if I said I dance better than you, you are comparing your skill to mine's.  

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Wow, haven't been here in a week. Doing good with the no-fap thing, but yeah, this thread kind of died. Couldn't believe it was on Page 2. When I didn't see it on Page 1, I halfway wondered if it got shut down for some reason. 

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Where is shin? ... btw i relapse after 40 days straight of no fap.. i fap 4 or 3?? Times.. my question is is there growth somehow about 40 days straight of no fap then minus 4 or 3 times i relapse?

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33 minutes ago, John Iverson said:

Where is shin? ... btw i relapse after 40 days straight of no fap.. i fap 4 or 3?? Times.. my question is is there growth somehow about 40 days straight of no fap then minus 4 or 3 times i relapse?

 Of course there is growth  !  It's a ego backlash  !  

Get some psychological air and get back on track 

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Havent masturbated in 3 weeks. I quitted porn and havent had any urges.

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@Ether 16 months without porn. This month I relapsed 4 times. Let them gains begin.


You've slept a hundred nights, And what has it brought you? For your self, for your God, Wake up! Wake up! Sleep no more.
 

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Just now, LiakosN said:

@Ether 16 months without porn. This month I relapsed 4 times. Let them gains begin.

Nope, Im officialy done with porn.

I realized that im replaying the same trauma over and over again if im watching it.

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When was your last time your watched porn ?

Well, I am really happy for your, my friend. I am done with porn as(s) well :P. After the magic mushroom trip my emotional suffering completely melt, so I do not need an escape. 


You've slept a hundred nights, And what has it brought you? For your self, for your God, Wake up! Wake up! Sleep no more.
 

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19 hours ago, Ayilton said:

 Of course there is growth  !  It's a ego backlash  !  

Get some psychological air and get back on track 

Yes! Thank you!! ? I do not masturbate for 40 days + 40 days I'm on a vacation no internet just in the nature, I meditate everyday it is like a retreat for me.. because all day and all night I'm just meditating and feel the nature mindfully.. so yeah, maybe it is an ego backlash after that huhu

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13 hours ago, Ether said:

Havent masturbated in 3 weeks. I quitted porn and havent had any urges.

There is a moment that the dragon will comeback and you need to fight him hahahah! So be ready.. :D now i'm on 40 days and i still get relapse .. but i feel so much growth.. stay on the path my friend.. we can do this all

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On 9-4-2018 at 4:47 PM, Psyche_92 said:

Let's goooo baby, let's fucking goooooo.

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How i miss feeling like this... Fuck flatlines.

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1 minute ago, Psyche_92 said:

How i miss feeling like this... Fuck flatlines.

Why? Did you relapse? Hahahaha

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15 minutes ago, Psyche_92 said:

How i miss feeling like this... Fuck flatlines.

13 minutes ago, John Iverson said:

Why? Did you relapse? Hahahaha

Can you read or nah?

 

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I don't even have urges to masturbate anymore. Great urges to have sex though. The amount of cum after holding it in for over a month...shhiiiet

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