Stay Away From Idiots

[Alexop]

On the one hand, the masculine "just step it up bro" adivce you got here can motivate you go out from the victim mindset and do something to fix your life. But on the other hand I have to empathize with you in regards to people. Yes 99% of today's people in the West are just selfish children that you have to treat accordingly. You don't have to cut ties with everyone and move in the woods, that would be stupid. You need to understand people's limits, meet them where they're at and don't expect more than what they can offer. Take away challenge and clear purpose from people and you get what you have right now: a bunch of lost children mindlessly roaming around in this dream.

I did not have the survival challenges you have right now, but I struggled a lot with having healthy interractions with people. I had this ideology that I have to be 100% myself and honest with people, because this is what all tell you to do right? Just be yourself. that is the one of the most retarded advice you can follow. People tell you to be yourself until you are yourself and they resent you, avoid you etc. and give me a break with that "it depends how you say it". I know how to sound reasonable and still, same shit. Nowadays I have a much better approach to dealing with people and works great. I meet them where they're at and do not try to create connection through honesty and philosophy. I create connection through jokes and fun. The stuff we do here is for adults and most people are not adults.

Edited yesterday at 11:55 AM by Alexop

[Basman]

I've never seen someone who can lift nearly 200kg have so little grit. 

[Sincerity]

3 hours ago, SQAAD said:

Shut up everybody. I am alpha male. You are not 

Seems like you suddenly felt insecure with the feedback you received, and needed to compensate by posting these videos.

Your situation is your own making. You'll stay in your helpless victim position until you decide to change. Up to you.

Asking for attention with these threads is quite low, since it's not your intention to learn anything anyway.

[SQAAD]

@Leo Gura What about people like Einstein who was a tobacco addict?

Mooji was a food and cigarette addict.

Nisargadata was a heavy smoker.

After some time, the suffering becomes so unbearable that it has to be relieved somehow...

It's a mechanical problem. Not merely a spiritual one ( I am not talking about hardcore addicts).

 

Edited yesterday at 02:29 PM by SQAAD

[Lyubov]

The more bro posts the more apparent it becomes that he's homeless far more because of his mindset, choices and mental situation than because of an addiction or serious derangement. I've seen homeless people that have essentially reverted back to a primitive animal like state, where they have maybe 5 years left before they die, they turned into zombies, covered in blood, wounds, deranged, probably beyond help and are just waiting to pass, looking in their eyes is terrifying. You are not that bro. It's been a year dude. You've been given some decent advice here. Go to a shelter or NGO and ask for help, The first months out of the hole will be a grind but they soon will pass and you will look back and be glad you climbed out. I assume you are begging for cash or doing some ridiculous hustle on the street. I would not give a single euro to you if I saw you on the street. You are able to work. You need to get a job at a restaurant, construction sight or hauling junk. You clearly have the body for it and any stress on it will heal and won't have long term damage if it's just for a year while you get yourself out of this situation. 

Edited yesterday at 02:28 PM by Lyubov

[Carl-Richard]

You don't have to be a saint even though your parents expected you to be. It's OK.

[SQAAD]

Many people here assume that they are far more developed, more well-educated or something.

I don't need advice (from most people). Your advice doesn't do it. The good-hearted advice is appreciated though.

On any given topic, i probably know more than the person next to me

I need money. And a good mentor.

You are not better. You are not worse. You are caused.

Edited yesterday at 05:30 PM by SQAAD

[integration journey]

Just curious but how old are you?

[SQAAD]

32 years.

 

[Sandhu]

@SQAAD I was extremely poor 1.5 years ago and I also had a family to take care of. I was just 20y old and the situation was terrible. I started working in a factory. The workplace environment was terrible, people were terrible, I was sexually assaulted but I survived for 6 months there. Now I have a decent job and improving my situation day by day. Though my life isn't great but it's better because I decided to bite the bullet and do any shitty job I could find. And I live in one of the worst parts of world. I hope my story gives you some motivation and direction.

What really works is when you wisely decide that It's not worth living like a meek rat.

[Rafael Thundercat]

Voluntary PLATAFORM workway is away out of this shithole you say you a living.  Go online, registrer and go to live in a place where people plant,garden,and work together, you can at least live rent free and have some organic food to restore your health. And them after this experience tell us if the problem are the others or your self. Workway platform may work for you. Of course, if you work.

[integration journey]

Or Sign up for a Vipassana course near you so you can eat and sleep for free while you mediate and figure out your next move.

[Rigel]

Wait until you find out everyone is an idiot including yourself. Good luck staying away from that😅

[Natasha Tori Maru]

@SQAAD so. 

You're a troll. 

Good luck.

You should have more respect and grace for the users who tried so assist you. You don't want the truth. Money is the last thing you need.

 

[Hojo]

Why don't you go pan handle. If you pan handle someone will offer you a job 100 percent if you are that big.

Sadhguru said in a story that you can even pan handle in your room at night and it will work.

Edited 18 hours ago by Hojo

[TheEnigma]

On 1/8/2026 at 9:10 AM, Leo Gura said:

Of course. Addicts cannot be trusted because they cannot even trust themselves. They have self-control problems, which means they are inherently unreliable. Reliable people don't become addicts in the first place.

Sorry to hear of your family problems.

Okay then at what point can someone be trusted? Because aren't psychedelics also related to drugs? So why is say crystal meth or cocaine demonized and 5MEO DMT not? Couldn't they all fry someone's brain and couldn't they all be dangerous? So what's the difference that would make someone that takes psychedelics more likely to be trustworthy?

[Questioning Mark]

Why wouldn't you teach English/Greek online? 

That's what's been feeding me for the last few years. After learning sales and marketing, I now earn around $2500 per month working 3 hours per day on average, and only procrastination has kept me from progressing further. 

I know plenty of people who tutor on platforms like Preply and Wyzant. It's absolutely possible to make a living that way. Even though, you will have to put in hours of work. 

Whatever doubts you may have about it, ignore them. It just works. Period. 

I used to sling weed on the streets of Prague before while staying there completely illegally, with no visa. I got deported back to Russia some time after. So I feel you and know what struggle is. My heart goes out to you. You got it man. 

[Kalki Avatar]

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Edited 6 hours ago by Kalki Avatar

[Carl-Richard]

21 hours ago, SQAAD said:

Brother, is this you?
 

https://www.youtube.com/@RuslanMalyshev

Edited 13 hours ago by Carl-Richard

[SQAAD]

@Carl-Richard

1 hour ago, Carl-Richard said:

Brother, is this you?
 

https://www.youtube.com/@RuslanMalyshev

Seems like it.