Why do I want sex so much?

[jacknine119]

I feel like I'm brainwashed. I want sex and girlfriend like hell. How  can I change that desire????

[Rigel]

Just get a girlfriend what’s the problem?

[jacknine119]

Not enough skills to get a girlfriend)

[LordFall]

Fix your online dating profile and you should be able to go on a date a week and get a girlfriend in 3 months pretty reliably. 

[Raze]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fIsy_HSHkKo

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yPTIQpfoxUs

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BVqANXVTLN4

 

Edited 18 hours ago by Raze

[integration journey]

54 minutes ago, LordFall said:

Fix your online dating profile and you should be able to go on a date a week and get a girlfriend in 3 months pretty reliably. 

Damn, what app are you using bro

[Husseinisdoingfine]

Because you are a living organism who is biologically programmed to seek sex so that you may pass on your genes in order to ensure the survival of your species. 

[Hojo]

Why do you avoid pain. Survival is avoiding pain and having sex.

[Nemo28]

We all want to be connected and not alone. Sex is one form of this (maybee).

[Rigel]

13 hours ago, jacknine119 said:

Not enough skills to get a girlfriend)

And you think getting rid of your desire without even knowing what you are renouncing is going to solve anything?

[Shermaningeorgia]

A sex drive is normal. If you don’t want sex then meditation can help 

[Schizophonia]

You're lying; if you had that much desire, you'd already be with someone.

And what's behind the urge to act like a gorilla on a forum is the believe that I have to protect myself because "people" (the big other, as Lacan would say) are against me and want to destroy/humiliate me, and what's behind that is the believe that I'm worthless.

 

Which also explains the eagerness to get rich without doing anything, or the kind of nonsense you say in your various threads.

I have to become something very quickly because otherwise it means I'm worthless, and nobody wants to love worthless; that's the subconscious believe.

And paradoxically, resistance to a phenomenon, its symbolization, makes it real and nails you in; that's the problem of the ego at the heart of non-duality, or simply the low-key ethics of the most popular religions.

Edited 3 hours ago by Schizophonia

[Shermaningeorgia]

16 hours ago, jacknine119 said:

I feel like I'm brainwashed. I want sex and girlfriend like hell. How  can I change that desire????

16 hours ago, jacknine119 said:

Not enough skills to get a girlfriend)

where does the brainwashing come in?