Is this the evolution of polyamory? Aubrey Marcus podcast)

[Terell Kirby]

@Leo Gura is it too controversial to state that one’s capacity to realize God is primarily genetic? Be it through personality, innate intelligence or strong mental health which is not inherent in all humans? How much of it can be developed vs exclusive to personality traits?

I feel like this topic is danced around on the forum, to deal with the reality that your highest teachings can only be realized through proper genetics doesn’t sit well for us who value equality in spiritual matters- but the truth is truth I guess. Would like to know what your position is here .. as I’m unclear

Edited June 29 by Terell Kirby

[Leo Gura]

3 minutes ago, Terell Kirby said:

How much of it can be developed

We don't have the science on that to know.

[Ash55]

I love this fucking conversation pun intended

On 5/30/2025 at 11:48 PM, Leo Gura said:

Aubrey talks about how he wingmanned Vylana to sleep with other men.

So he's actually walking the talk.

It's not as bad as you guys portray it.

He is doing difficult emotional work, not just maximizing sex.

He could easily have sex with hundreds of girls if that's all he wanted. It takes emotional maturity to do what he's doing.

Having sex with just those two girls is not really that great from a sex POV since he could have way more sex by being single. He could also find hotter girls than those two if that's what motivated him. He clearly values them for much more than sex and he is investing a lot of himself into them.

Don't be too fucking cynical.

The problem I see with polyamory is that its way more complex and time consuming to be with more than 1 person in a relationship
its increases the amount of emotional work and communication you need to put into the relationship

[Leo Gura]

6 minutes ago, Ash55 said:

The problem I see with polyamory is that its way more complex and time consuming to be with more than 1 person in a relationship
its increases the amount of emotional work and communication you need to put into the relationship

That's perfect! Just what the ego needs to stay alive.

[Recursoinominado]

10 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

I don't think there are karma points. The universe doesn't keep score of what you do.

However, you might regret harming yourself. So that's not to be taken lightly.

Leo, what do you think about reincarnation and the "soul's journey"? 

Edited June 29 by Recursoinominado

[Miguel1]

4 hours ago, RendHeaven said:

Yes piccolo we see the fit

I had a hippie phase, where I truly believed most people can become so attractive with health protocols, deep inner & spiritual work, exercising and taking good care of their looks - that we could have a giant orgy and free sex everywhere, with everyone due to natural attraction with each other & free love.

I am not even kidding. It was a wild naive phase in my life.

What drives me is harmony between people, that’s core to my personality type. In my more immature years, my biggest dream and delusion was to raise humanity’s consciousness level (in my lifetime) to the point we could live and love each other in harmony. Oh boy, the shattering of that dream throughout the years has been brutal.

Makes me feel like I was born 500 years too early. Hopefully in the future that’s possible.

It is a beautiful vision.

Edited June 29 by Miguel1

[Oppositionless]

4 hours ago, Ash55 said:

 

The problem I see with polyamory is that its way more complex and time consuming to be with more than 1 person in a relationship
its increases the amount of emotional work and communication you need to put into the relationship

Yes, it's a massive fucking distraction from doing spirituality. 
I kinda have more respect for these red pill rotation builders than people who dress up their polygamy in spiritual mumbo jumbo. At least the red pillers aren't posturing like they're actually highly conscious, lol.

Edited June 29 by Oppositionless

[LordFall]

20 hours ago, gengar said:

Why are you framing it like anyone can just choose to have money sex and fame?

I am basically situated in life that all of the devils fools gold is not available to me anymore

I basically can't talk anymore and have constant inflammation of the face, tongue and jaw all day and it'll never go away

All of survivals goodies are locked away from me

Tbh I'm ready to die, I lost my job a year ago bc of my conditions and am just scraping by off benefits

Creating a career in my passions seems impossible since you need to be able to communicate with others properly

plus why would i even have the motivation to pursue it, even if I had 10 million dollars and success with life purpose, I couldn't even talk to a girl or kiss her, it's literally almost physically impossible and hurts, talking and moving my tongue hurts

How do I give my life to God? I can probably live of benefits my entire life but I hate my human self since i'm pointless and have so much desire that I can't fulfill, like I'm in a wheelchair or in jail

Just do hardcore meditation all day everyday to try and permanently lose the ego self and awaken and thats it? it feels like hell even thinking about it, but maybe that's the point.

I would do exactly the exact opposite of meditation all day and try to lose the ego. I would triple down on the passion/business, make a lot of money and look into the new advances in medicine/biotech. It's the best decade in human history to have chronic illness. Pretty good chance that in 10 years you're cured in good shape and with your money in order right in time to enjoy the "devil's fools gold".

Also this part isn't directed to you but this whole forum and the men in it, I hope you realize that "being above" becoming a high status and attractive man is the fool's gold. What's harder in life, overcoming all your mental blocks finding focus and offering value to thousands if not millions in the marketplace to become rich or sitting in your room telling yourself that it doesn't matter and you're God you don't need to try? 

The reason attractive women like fit guys with their shit together is it screens out the weak men that can't/won't do it. And this is in good times, wait til the world goes to chaos and then the virtue of being a strong man will become even more needed. 

[Leo Gura]

9 hours ago, Recursoinominado said:

Leo, what do you think about reincarnation and the "soul's journey"? 

I don't speculate about such things. All I know is Infinity.

[Recursoinominado]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

I don't speculate about such things. All I know is Infinity.

[Schizophonia]

On 29/06/2025 at 1:36 PM, RendHeaven said:

Yes piccolo we see the fit

Bulma who cuckolds simp Yamcha with the invader Chad Vegeta.

Blackpilled at 12 by my favourite cartoon.

Edited July 7 by Schizophonia

[Rafael Thundercat]

Well, he is trying to Heal. Internal Family Systems is deep.

 

 

[aurum]

5 hours ago, Rafael Thundercat said:

Well, he is trying to Heal. Internal Family Systems is deep.

 

He's been doing IFS for years now. Nothing new there.

[Leo Gura]

I've been in the trap Aubrey is in. Trying to play to his audience, trying to do the work publicly, trying to play the guru role. It's too performative. The real work is done privately when you go away from YouTube.

For Aubrey to really slay this beast he'd need to quit YT for a year or two and stop all the sex, relationships, socializing, partying, weed, and business. Just sit alone for 6 months and stop all social activity. That is the real work.

But this would kill him. He's addicted to the attention and the whole social game of it all. Real spirituality is not a social activity.

The only way to stop caring what others think about you is to realize that all the rewards of the social domain are fake -- fool's gold.

The whole social domain is fake and false.

He's not serious enough to give it up. He wants to keep playing that role of a spiritual influencer and maintain that whole New Age facade. I don't think he understands any other kind of spirituality but the socializing and the feeling good kind. Real spirituality would bore him to death.

Edited July 12 by Leo Gura

[Terell Kirby]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

For Aubrey to really slay this beast he'd need to quit YT for a year or two and stop all the sex, relationships, socializing, and business.

Identity- Aubrey is these things. To give them up would mean no more Aubrey .. at least as we know him.

[Natasha Tori Maru]

4 minutes ago, Terell Kirby said:

Identity- Aubrey is these things. To give them up would mean no more Aubrey .. at least as we know him.

This. I don't think he recognises anything beyond self.

[Rafael Thundercat]

Well, one thing is true. His move created a wave of reaction videos bigger than his ego

 

 

[Leo Gura]

"Hey girl, there is a wild untamed stallion of Eros inside of me"

Or as us simpletons call it:

"I'm horny"

You know... until I saw Aubrey doing this, it never even occurred to me to poeticize and spiritualize my horniness. That's a level of creative self-deception my mind couldn't conceive of on its own. It took a pioneer like Aubrey to show us the way.

Here I was, like a fool, trying to transcend my horniness, when I should have just called it untamed stallion of Eros and fucked every girl I could.

Edited July 12 by Leo Gura

[Recursoinominado]

I am sure they created this "radical monogamy" term because they were thinking about selling courses and retreats based on this "brand". 

It's all marketing and brand. They couldn't just call it polyamory; they had to "create something new" to be able to sell it later, and this is what many people hated: the fakeness of it all and the gaslighting. 

[Leo Gura]

14 minutes ago, Recursoinominado said:

they had to "create something new" to be able to sell it later,

I think first and foremost Aubrey invented it to sell himself and his girlfriends that what they are doing is highly conscious.

Aubrey's ego needs a way to rationalize its horiness as spiritual, conscious, selfless, and Godly. Otherwise it would have to give up all the fun sex.

Aubrey is avoiding the elephant in the room: giving up his sexcapades. His ego will invent whatever stories to avoid doing the real serious inner work on that issue.

Edited July 13 by Leo Gura