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I like this guy. You can feel the passion. Maybe he is ego driven, but with his level of wealth he could be in Bahamas with 4 chicks drinking mojitos, and here he is. I like people that go the extra mile. Props to him.

Posted this exact video last week. The thing is, you can sense he is awake. I always feel something fishy about him, but some of his teachings are good. A clear example of a zen devil. Thats the difference between waking up and cleaning up. You can be awake and still be a piece of shit. Osho is another example Sometimes you have to separate the teacher from their teachings.

https://www.instagram.com/basedethos/reel/DW2lLJAE3zV

Damn, didn't watch the whole thing but... What baffles me is that people continue to pedestalize people like this. His is awake and his advanced teachings are solid, but still... wow

I saw an interview of Dan. Seems like a smart guy. Ofc he is not awake. He is just a great author. Lost in concepts. Which is great, but wont lead anywhere. He just writes for the mainstream. You can't observe Consciousness, you are It.

Its basically this: 80%+ content about this topic is just guys living in Miami, LA, Dubai etc.. or guys just parroting it. Also 80%+ content creators are sociopathic / autistic that are chasing the stripper/onlyfans type of chick. They teach you how to handle a lion, when you need to learn how to handle a cat. Similar, but different at the same time.

What? They are hungrier than ever because there are not many quality guys out there. When women are not flirting or they don't seem interested in sex is because they are satisfied. There is at least 1 guy banging her for good. So they go to events/parties to have fun in non-sexual ways. ''What? She is single but doesn't want to hook up?'' Well... guess whats happening behind closed doors...

Sitting cross-legged/lots is bad for your knees? Yes, if you have bad hip mobility, tight psoas and shortened adductors (which is the case for 90% of westerners, specially males) So you can use a chair. Or train hip mobility. Also, if you do meditation on the ground, use a thick zafu, so your hips are higher and you have more space for hip rotation. You wont damage your knees this ways. This video explains it perfectly:

*saturday

hahaha exactly!

Guys you don't get it. Its not about the NiCoTinE or health. My guess is that most of you are americans and this is more an european (mediterranean) thing. Imagine living in Barcelona/Paris/Rome/Athens/Prague. You wake up early on a saturday, meditate, shower, breakfast. You dress stylish. You go for a walk to a beautiful old style café, sit in the terrace, order the best cappuccino in town and light a cigarette and spend your whole morning just looking at people passing by. Basking in the experience of life, the city, and the passing of time. The art of being a flâneur. Top tier spirituality if you ask me.

Yeah, some people see sex as something to 'get', not really to enjoy and to light up someone’s face. If you really are good at pickup and sex, and women love you, its tough to give it up. A good strategy is to have a a few fuck-buddies and meet 1-2 times per week max. You get the best, without all the chasing and time wasting. Now, if you really want to grow, you have to give that up. I did that a couple years ago when I went deep with actualized.org and get great results! But I regressed. I blamed myself for falling back, but I realize that is part of the game. There is no linear growth. If you are attractive and have game (and you feel validation for pulling chicks) is worse. Have you ever noticed? All spiritual gurus are ugly and introverted. The temptation for them is lower. If you cant get girls or if you have to work super hard for them, its easier to go in the spiritual path. Thats why you don’t see chad yoguis. If you are in your 20s/30s and you can open an app and get quick dates and lays… it takes willpower and a big deep vision for yourself. Its not easy. Wage slavery and pussy addiction are the 2 biggest problems in this path. My best guess is: Give it up for 3-6 months and tell yourself that you will come back to game after that period of growth. By that time the desire for women will melt, not all, but a bit. In that intermittent way you can let it go. Little by little.

How?

https://www.actualized.org/forum/