Is this the evolution of polyamory? Aubrey Marcus podcast)

[aurum]

9 hours ago, RendHeaven said:

hot take but aubrey is not hot (visually), and I personally don't find his ladies attractive either.

they all have low body fat, that's about it. I guess in america that's enough to put you in the top 90th percentile due to everybody being overweight.

aubrey is loved by women because of frame/self-belief + status/clout/connections/access/lifestyle + sweet talking/knowledge of emotional triggers. As you know, women generally don't judge men by looks but go with emotions and consensus. By that standard, I suppose aubrey is "hot." 

But in terms of pure aesthetics, aubrey is bascially a genetically mediocre man who got shredded and tan + tattoos + TRT. Not to sound like a blackpiller but a facial analysis of him would probably spit out a 5 or 6 lol.

not that any of this discredits him or his ladies regarding their impact as influencers. I just find it interesting that not-hot people can still pull off the public image of enviable sexiness based on being slightly above average + emotional narrative, lifestyle, and cult aura.

I find Caitlyn attractive, at least physically.

I don't want to start turning this thread too much into a conversation about their attractiveness though. That's not what is most important here.

[Someone here]

@Leo Gura thank you for making me feel like a piece of toilet paper 😂. I love you man.

[Leo Gura]

18 minutes ago, Someone here said:

@Leo Gura thank you for making me feel like a piece of toilet paper 😂. I love you man.

Better than feeling like an asshole for posting it

We have ladies here. Let's not creep them out by acting like thirsty dogs.

Stay classy.

Edited Saturday at 09:56 PM by Leo Gura

[Someone here]

19 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Better than feeling like an asshole for posting it

We have ladies here. Let's not creep them out by acting like thirsty dogs.

Stay classy.

That's true . I'm sorry 🙏.  The post deleted.. there you go .

[Raze]

Liberal women seem to think there can be millions of incels for them to scoff at but at the same time they all get a high status BF who remains monogamous to them. 
 

 

[RendHeaven]

9 minutes ago, Raze said:

Liberal women

grr... modern wamen!!

[Leo Gura]

The only reason Aubrey is able to pull off this arrangement is because he offers these women a fun, luxurious lifestyle which they could not have with 98% of other men.

Really the mistake these two women are making -- for which they are not getting nearly enough pushback -- is that they are addicted to dating upper-class, elite men -- and calling that spiritual. Yeah, such men will not settle for basic monogamy because they don't have to. The reason Vylana was never able to get monogamy the way she wanted is because she's trying to date elite guys who are out of her league.

These "spiritual" women love the power and luxury that comes with a powerful man. They would not date a broke Jesus who would be monogamous with them.

Dating a powerful and wealthy man allows the woman to not need to do serious grueling work. She can live a playful life, like a spiritual bunny.

So a lot of this whole scenario also speaks to the corruption of upper-class lifestyle. Upper-class people are incapable of serious spirituality because they are too seduced by glamor and their social games.

They love to talk about love, but that love is happening exclusively within a frame of upper-class luxury and leisure. If it wasn't, they wouldn't love it. It's the love of a beautiful life made possible by wealth, status, and power.

The lesson here for men is that if you set up an awesome lifestyle, women will put up with a lot more of your BS.

Edited Sunday at 02:52 AM by Leo Gura

[Natasha Tori Maru]

@Leo Gura I think this is a very astute observation.

27 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

The reason Vylana was never able to get monogamy the way she wanted is because she's trying to date elite guys who are out of her league.

As much as I have compassion for another beings suffering - this is an example of lack of integrity (lying to oneself in this case). Essentially Vylana is deceiving herself this is something she wants (with a spiritual, false narrative) to get the candy - or the cock, the lifestyle, the luxury - in this example. The lies are always to get something. The corruption and lure of luxury and status. Power.

Obviously, this is complicated by the fact that Aubrey went back on his word wrt monogamy. But Vylana is complicit here. She is choosing this. She is causing the internal split between what she wants and her actions. This is causing that fragile state we see where she is triggered to tears and internal unrest so easily. Again, if she was not stuck in this weird performative spirituality, and knew her own, real truth - she would have simply cut things off with Aubrey when the new puss was introduced. When he went back on his commitment. Again, the lure of wealth, status and power. She is breaking her internal state to attain these things....

I think there is a big pool of internet reaction that isn't holding her accountable for the choice she is making here. Obviously some people are innocent and ignorant and get swindled into these situations through total lack of awareness. But when we add in all Aubrey is offering (money, status, luxury, power) this is a huge factor. Do we think she would have stayed with him, if he was low status/homeless, as an example? Would she have compromised her own truth then?

This whole situation is so ... ANTI-TRUTH.

Very glad you based the most recent video on it. 

[RendHeaven]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

Yeah, such men will not settle for basic monogamy because they don't have to.

There's a threatening implication here that most men only agree to monogamy out of necessity

if true, that wrecks a lot of fantasies about genuine sincere sexual loyalty being incentivized solely by a woman's unique specialness or a man's goodness or maturity

[Leo Gura]

48 minutes ago, RendHeaven said:

There's a threatening implication here that most men only agree to monogamy out of necessity

Of course that's not true.

Jeff Bezos just got married.

But women love to chase playboys. Aubrey is a charming playboy and these girls love to chase him like a cat does a wiggly cat-toy.

These women need to learn their spiritual lesson to stop chasing the cat-toy. Chasing the cat-toy is unconscious survival.

Edited Sunday at 05:44 AM by Leo Gura

[Natasha Tori Maru]

17 minutes ago, RendHeaven said:

There's a threatening implication here that most men only agree to monogamy out of necessity

Do you personally feel this is true? Pure curiosity.

I've been in several romantic relationships with men that were staunchly anti-monogamy, only to have them 180 their stance. Maybe it just takes the right women. A concept, perhaps, one doesn't want to entertain hope for. I've always felt the craving for sexual novelty leads men to want things open. I have to think in reality here though - it would take a lot of energy to juggle multiple women. As you age that energy seriously dwindles.

Most woman are going to experience some... extreme consternation... at the implication above 

[Leo Gura]

24 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

I've been in several romantic relationships with men that were staunchly anti-monogamy, only to have them 180 their stance. Maybe it just takes the right women.

Maybe they know you will stomp their balls with your stilettos

Edited Sunday at 05:45 AM by Leo Gura

[RendHeaven]

44 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Jeff Bezos just got married.

he's not exactly loved by women lol. It's not like he has a hoard of hotties genuinely begging and crying for his love and attention, and he benevolently turned them away because his wife is more important (I don't mean escorts, I mean real lovers)

26 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Do you personally feel this is true? Pure curiosity.

I'm agnostic, but my default is to be mega skeptical of people who who glorify monogamy as a virtuous or natural - especially men.

It's easy to give up what you never even had.

[Leo Gura]

14 minutes ago, RendHeaven said:

he's not exactly loved by women lol. It's not like he has a hoard of hotties genuinely begging and crying for his love and attention, and he benevolently turned them away because his wife is more important (I don't mean escorts, I mean real lovers)

I don't see why he would have a problem finding a threesome of women if he wanted that.

Most men probably don't want to be poly even if they could. It's just exhausting and juvenile.

Edited Sunday at 06:09 AM by Leo Gura

[Miguel1]

34 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Most men probably don't want to be poly even if they could. It's just exhausting and juvenile.

In my early to mid twenties, and my peak hippie stage, I loved the idea.

Right now as I have much more important stuff to do, and to invest energy and time into - meeting ton of women, having a roster of girls and spinning them does feel like a huge waste of time and energy.

And yes, juvenile is a very good word to describe the feeling.

Having a loving relationship with a mature woman you are relatively compatible with, is better almost in every possible way you can think of.

[RendHeaven]

@Miguel1 See I would actually trust your word because you're a stud that's been through the wringer

I see too many monogamous normies with their fat wives acting self righteous at the sight of someone like aubrey marcus, as if they themselves would authentically turn down a hot new side piece. On paper they say they would, but they can only maintain that position because in practice they will never even encounter the temptation.

[Raze]

One reason I believe cults tend to have more female members which is never acknowledged is that the cult leader masters speaking with certainty and taking a lead.

Aubury as a podcast host know exactly how to do that in conversation.

 

[Leo Gura]

20 minutes ago, Raze said:

One reason I believe cults tend to have more female members

Males naturally lead more.

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

36 minutes ago, Raze said:

One reason I believe cults tend to have more female members

I call BS on that, the biggest and the most influential cults on the planet have all been founded, mantained, enforced and mostly consisted of a bunch of retarded men. Such as all of religions, dictatorships and kingdoms, etc. etc.