Ananta

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    14 hours ago, Khron said:

    @Anna1  I figured Letting Go would be the answer. But isn't that the same as forget about it? I didn't even know it existed a day ago. I'm not sure what the difference is.

    Oh, sorry... well, perhaps work through it would be better to suggest, then letting it go, because yes, letting it go is about the same as forget about it and doubt you're ready for that. 

    14 hours ago, Khron said:

    I probably do need therapy , which pisses me off even more. Suck it up , right.

     

    Aww:(, well, it can really be a good thing if you find a good therapist. 

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    3 hours ago, Khron said:

    I said I loved him because he was determined to survive earlier but I'm pretty sure I hate him. I hate him for his weakness. His weakness took decades of my life away from me.

    Love him/hate him doesn't really matter since its in the past. You need to let it go, to really be able to move forward with your life. However you were, there was a reason for it, maybe the reason no longer exists for you? If that's the case, then perhaps you can  drop it.

    3 hours ago, Khron said:

    I live in a state of constant self judgement because that little shit was too scared of fucking everything to speak up for himself.

    That won't serve you, it won't help you to judge how you were, so that you can beat yourself up some more.

    You might need some therapy, to move on, dunno?

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    So, like the title says, I quit my job. Well, in Jan. of this year I had enough and without having anything but a savings I just gave notice and quit. It felt right. Everyone sorta thought I was losing it. Maybe I was...

    A little background, I'm a nurse. I was working as a home care coordinator at a hospital. Those jobs are rare, but I couldn't take my shitty boss any longer. I was trying to find something comparable and it just didn't work out. I was unemployed 4 mos, then had to just go back to patient care in the field as a home care nurse. I was a bit bummed, but made the best of it.

    The first company I started at was just horrible, quit that place after 6 wks and got hired where I'm now at. I've worked there 4 mos (worked there 8 yrs ago) and I was asked to take a promotion to a clinical manager job that became open this month. Finally, a job that not only gives kudos for a job well done, but a raise, extra vacation time and I will be a boss.

    Only bummer is I have to wait until they hire someone to replace me in the field, before I move into my new position, but hey, I'll take it.

    So, sometimes you have to just do what you gotta do and pray it works out!

    If you got through my long post, then thanks for reading. 

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    3 hours ago, see_on_see said:

    There's no need to be stupid. Saying funny things is good, but girls are not stupid

    Glad you said it, apparently ppl here think women are total dumbass. What a shame. 

    I remember in college I was on my way to my Chemistry class and there was a very pretty blonde woman walking the same direction in high heels. Some guys tried to hit on her with some rude, dumb remarks and she just ignored them. 

    She walked into the same Chem room I was going to and went up to the front of the class. She was the teacher and had a Doctorate degree in Chemistry.

    So much for women being stupid:P

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    @Armand Thank you, it's funny because I was thinking maybe of trying this before you posted.

    I haven't gained back any weight, but did increase cals in past 2 weeks wondering if I was too low. Havent lost a dang pound since I did. So, I was right, I have to be lower then average or I don't lose.

    So, I'll be reducing cals again and maybe try intermittent fasting with it, ty.

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    4 hours ago, Chakra Lion said:

    Notice their yelling, look over at them happily, make a hand gesture while mouthing, "One Second bro".

    ^^^^^ This

    And the teacher thing, having whoever wait if they can see you are already talking to someone. If they cant wait, then talk with them later and dont worry about it. 

    As a nurse I have patient's families interrupting me and the pts all the time. I've started to handle this differently lately, by saying, "you'll have to wait until we are done with what we are talking about, then I'll get to your question". It doesnt always work, but I try.

    Good luck. It's a good problem to have.