Armand

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  1. Simple logic, but I wish someone had told me all those listed things when I was a student at Uni. Then again, I did eventually learn how to reduce my spending considerably by having to quickly pay off $20,000 from student loans, as well as the debt I accumulated from getting married too young. I thought I could somehow manage to pay my rent working a minimum wage job at WAL-MART while going to lecture classes and paying for everything we both felt we needed within the marriage. I had to learn the hard way by experiencing the dark night of the soul, but at least now I'm more aware of my spending. I no longer buy video games right after they are released, eat out every night, buy brand name foods, or pay for designer logos. No part of me misses any of that stuff, and I feel incredibly stupid for ever thinking those things were "necessary." My credit score is extremely high after paying off everything. My vehicles are paid for, I own a lot of land, and I'm able to put money into savings every month along with setting aside money for investments. I've even increased my savings every month by several hundred dollars, because I'm making an effort to make more money when given the opportunity.
  2. I wouldn't limit myself to just "spiritual singles," as you can find spiritual people lurking on any dating app. Why do you think it's so important to find someone that's within the exact same space as you are mentally!? You can grow a lot by experiencing all different types of people and gain more confidence/knowledge by dating around a bit. Online dating is great for introverted people. I see nothing wrong with it. I've even urged my friends to seek out their now partners by going online. Being able to type out what your ideals are to another person, helps in gaining insight to the other person's mind. Finding out their likes and dislikes ahead of time can help a lot with compatibility levels, and intimacy. My online dates have far exceeded those that are set up by any mutual friends irl. It's situational, but the girls in my area that are single are not exactly mentally sound, or I quickly find out they have had relations with someone I'm close with in the past. Not to mention, I find the bars around here to be quite irritating and kind of like walking into a sausage fest. Raves are alright. Conventions are usually decent places to strike up a conversation with new people. Physical looks these days are not as important as you'd think to attractive women. The ladies I hang out with talk about "e-boys," (Attractive boys/men online) in a negative way. In college I always noticed that the funny chubby confident guys had the hottest chicks around them at all times. They eventually married those insanely hot girls. I'm not sure why, but all the hot/intelligent women around here settle for less early on and never leave their partners once they commit to them. Pffft. Be aware that there are a plethora of catfish now pretending to be attractive girls online, but then there are REAL women that can video call to prove their actually real. I wouldn't trust just an image online.
  3. I'm sure Leo's made videos on how to help let go of Ego, as well as to how to actually please a woman if thats your reasoning for needing a bigger/longer phallus. The harm you can cause pulling at it like that will render it utterly useless.. Unless you're into that kind of masochistic torture?? If you're that desperate for a larger slab of meat, perhaps consult a Dr that can perhaps elongate it by cutting away some of the tissues.. or see a therapist for assisting with the self esteem issues. Confidence alone can make someone quiver or feel weak in their knees. Having long conversations as well. Using your fingers, tongue, or toys can help prep. Many are under the impression that penetration alone will magically make a girl orgasm. Pffft, what nonsense.
  4. I concur with Shiva. It's difficult for me to walk up and down a single ⛰, let alone 🏃 for 20 miles every single day. Phew!
  5. Intermittant fasting helps greatly in achieving quick results. Allowing for only a 8-9 hour window for consumption, but during those hours eat what you would typically want to eat in the day. The video below is helpful! Normally I wouldn't suggest this, but B12 shots might also help to improve your energy levels, overall fatigue...thereby assisting in productivity throughout the day.
  6. Why is honesty so hard for women and men in relationships? My lady broke the same promise yet again, only this time I can't allow myself forgive her. Cheating to me is going outside the parameters of the relationship's expectations. The day I found out she was messaging other males to get fap videos, I was contemplating asking her if she wanted to have a child with me. After walking off from her I came back very apologetic for being so heated. I tried to see if I had neglected her too much, and asked what it was we could fix? I decided then perhaps I should stop gaming altogether and she also said she would commit herself to making it up to me for "the rest of our lives." My mind keeps saying that if the tables were turned, she'd of left without hesitation. I quit porn after she told me she seen that as cheating, but I grew tired of that some time ago. It was draining me from putting my creativity into other projects. I was on the cusp of easing back into trusting her again, but she managed to blatantly lie minutes after her promise about a mere picture frame. Something so mundane I still can't wrap my head around it. It was a seasonal gift from an ex. I seen it as a frame to possibly use around Christmas. I thought maybe it was from her family. I've felt irked every time she displays the same shit eating grin, that has always told on her when she will lie. She did admit it after asking three separate times. I had to explain that if she lies about stuff that doesn't matter at all, I'll never know what's real. This relationship has lasted several years and I'm extremely comfortable with her as a partner. However, I think the love has removed itself along with the trust I once had. She challenged me to become a better version of myself, but I fear I'm not making her any better.
  7. @Sparkist I'm simply astounded at the level of talent you possess. I must say, those are remarkable transformations. Spooky, yet brilliant artistry.
  8. Self discipline training. Discipline is your only vehicle toward achieving greatness. You'll feel empowered when you feel accomplished.
  9. I like the natural look in women. Makeup makes almost all women look older than they really are to me.
  10. Having a woman helps me. If you find a really attractive woman then porn doesn't take over your life as much. Key word is attractive. Have standards! I've had other women and they couldn't help me break my porn addiction. I was ruining myself by watching porn every other day for hours. My damn arms were sore as hell. I could not focus on the things I needed to do. I was so addicted that I would message those fake messengers on porn sites that "real" women would respond back to. That was when I was stuck in a relationship that I felt porn was necessary to get all the cum out because she couldn't make me cum. I've always felt that it has to get out or something bad will happen. It gets so much worse with stress. Calming yourself with work out plans and meditation helps. I could only quit due to the person I'm with right now. I hope you find someone, or something to calm you down.
  11. @TBurg82 Ginseng and zinc? I've never had ed but I've heard my buddies talk about it. That's all I remember of that conversation. I agree with the others on working out. It helps the blood flowww.
  12. I was going to say that naked is best. I see the biggest difference when I wear prep clothes. I don't know how else to describe it. I've gotten the most attention when I shave too.
  13. No fap helped me realize the potential in my own relationships. I'd fap to escape reality and pretend I was never in any kind of relationship. I messaged girls on porn sites and would sext back to fake women on the internet begging them to be real. I did some stupid shit as a kid.
  14. Good luck doing that bro. It shows a woman you are too cheap to pay for her meal. I would not let my girl pay when we met. She was stubborn and still got away with paying for her part a few times. Ironically she does pay for most our food now. ha. I cover the bills and she saves up everything for us. Teamwork.
  15. @ArabiaNytes I learned a bit from therapy sessions for struggling with bipolar. I have had this particular therapist for the past year, and it's working better than the last one did. Last year's therapist wasn't invested in helping me as much as she was into shoving pills down my throat. I do often undergo periods where I feel it's pointless talking to another human about my internal problems when it's really something I should figure out from within. Hypnotherapy was really helpful for me, and I am scheduling another session soon. Not related but your user name has me thinking of my childhood.