Xonas Pitfall

Makes you all warm and fuzzy inside...

Gifted or not, it's allowed to have a brain...

One way to think of God is as an infinite “playground” in which finite forms can appear and exist, like children playing within it. In this view, humans and all other finite things are expressions within that field of existence. Truth, love, and consciousness can then be understood as the “ground” or “medium” of that playground. They are not separate objects inside the system, but the underlying conditions that make experience itself possible. They function like the background container that allows separate beings to arise, relate, and persist as distinct yet connected forms within the whole. If that “playground” (universe or God) were not truth, then there would be a fundamental bias in which forms could exist and which could not exist, making it an inaccurate medium for the expression of ALL infinity. If that “playground” (universe or God) were not pure, unfiltered consciousness, then there would be a fundamental bias in which forms could be perceived and which could not be perceived, like a human eye that cannot see the full range of the electromagnetic spectrum of color, making it an incomplete medium for the expression of ALL infinity. If that “playground” (universe or God) were not love, then there would be a fundamental bias in which forms are preferred and which are not preferred to exist, more or less loved, creating separation and hierarchy, making it an inconsistent medium for the expression of ALL infinity.

In order for God to be God, it has to create finite forms. This has been said many times before. It has to “forget,” metaphorically, that It is One, the same, all of Itself. So to do that, it creates other forms, finite forms of Itself, that forget they are It. The process by which you remember and “reunite” with yourself, with God, is called Love. When you recognize and remember yourself as God, you experience beauty, love, awakening, bliss, and ecstasy. When you fall in love, you recognize the other as yourself, or you recognize God, the beauty within the other. Then you want to unite completely: through your thoughts, your eyes, your lips, your bodies, your genitals, your sounds, your moans, your whispers. That whole process is Love. Love is one of the aspects of God. It is a mechanism through which God “others” Itself and then reunites with Itself once again. You cannot have unity between finite beings without Love. You cannot have finitude without observation. You cannot have finitude without Consciousness.

As mentioned above, definitely be very careful about what you assume is true. What you are describing sounds like this is more of a human thing (adult vs. child) than necessarily a man vs. woman issue. Most humans don’t initially enjoy being responsible, and many, if given the choice, will prefer fun, leisure, and a lack of responsibility, an “easy life” focused on pleasure. You could say “a lot” instead of “most” since I don’t have statistics on this, but the point is that this is more about the transition from being a child to becoming an adult, rather than a gendered difference. A lot of men in today's society get a simple, steady job and then spend their time on things like weed, bars, clubbing, video games, doomscrolling, and social media. Just as many women do the same, maybe with different or the same jobs, games, or types of social media content, but this is a very much human pattern, not a gendered one. Both men and women have to deal with the job market; they have to deal with health issues, breakups, financial stress, family responsibilities, loneliness, mental health struggles, workplace pressure, uncertainty about the future, housing costs, debt, and the general ups and downs of life. We are all kind of conditioned, unless you had a very difficult childhood, to have a breezy, fun early childhood life. So, going from being a child to an adult, unless you truly lacked safety or freedom, will almost always, by design, feel painful or "worse off". Most women need to work, be responsible, and deal with the hardships of life, just like most men. And most women don’t want to be gold diggers or overly dependent on someone they cannot trust to survive. A lot of this is more propaganda than reality. Look around you, how are your grandmothers, mothers, and friends living? That’s normal human life. The flashy, easy life you see for women is a fantasy for most people. The same goes for content on YouTube and social media; you need to be very careful about what information you believe and what fantasies you let influence you. People portray a picture-perfect life on social media, but in reality, it isn’t true. That being said, it’s completely normal not to feel like what society says you should be. So I definitely empathize, and you should look into this more yourself. I just wanted to add my two cents: be careful not to accidentally convince yourself that you’re in the wrong body. From what you’re describing, this sounds more like personality or responsibility struggles than actually feeling like you’re in the wrong body or feeling uncomfortable or disgusted by it. But obviously, reflect on it further. Support to you! I wouldn’t say there’s anything wrong with you based on your post!

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@Majed I just wish people would define, at least to some extent, what they mean when they say things. If you say, “He is intelligent because he can make a lot of money, but he is wise because he understands how to make money and that there is more to life than that, so he focuses on spirituality,” then you’re basically defining wisdom as a more advanced form of intelligence. It reads context better, has more input, and uses intuition to make better decisions. Intelligence, in that case, is just working effectively within a given framework without really questioning it. So yeah, wisdom is superior. But you could also argue it’s superior because it’s a broader form of intelligence, since it includes understanding the limits of the framework. And if you define intelligence as pattern recognition, seeing through bias, and understanding truth, then wisdom already depends on intelligence. I am not sure it is even worth discussing at that point. It seems more like a semantics issue than an actual misunderstanding, but I could be wrong.

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@Raze I'd say it’s basically equivalent to psychology and philosophy. If you ask what the practical use of philosophy and psychology is in your life, it gives you a framework or a systemic overview of how to actually understand what things are, where you and others are heading, and how to evaluate and filter information for truth. It’s tweaking the foundation of how you make decisions. It’s extremely practical, but abstract in that it doesn’t give the kind of immediate, concrete payoff people are used to, like “here’s how to make a high-protein meal.”

One thing I wanted to ask: how will the psychedelics be done? The group might be a bit uncertain for me. Will there be times and places where you contemplate alone, then meet with the group? Are those details known? Thank you very much!

How exciting!

God is a Happy Birthday! 🎁 (Self / God) Is-ness A (Singular / One) Happy (Love / Goodness / Allignment / Whole) Birthday (1st Primordial Beginning and End All Creation / Origin / Creator) 🎁 (All packaged into a Grand Union!) 🎁୭

Yes! Happy birthday! 🎉🎈🎈🎈🎈🎉🎉🎉🥳🎊🎊🎊🎊👯‍♀️👯‍♂️👯‍♂️👯‍♂️👯‍♂️🎊🎊🎊

Someone insert the GTA meme for Leo's New Course?