Something Funny

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  6. Posted

    12 hours ago, StarStruck said:

    I find tats very shallow things. It is a sign of low consciousness from my POV. Usually people take shallow tats about deep topics like love and spirituality and I need to accept their level of understanding of it. Hell I need to learn a lot about the topic of love and spirituality. 

    One of the best spiritual teachers I know has tatoos so this point is clearly detached from reality in my opinion.

  12. Posted

    I think "betraying" is a strong word. You are doing something fishy aand your intuition is telling you about it.

    I would be more concerned if you really should spend the rest of your life with a person who is so different from you that you can't find a wedding setting that suits you both. 

    You are basically starting your marriage with negativity and doubt. That's not good. 

    It's not only her moment. It's your moment as well. And if you actually plan to spend the rest of your lifw with her, then it is a pretty signifcant moment. So why not do it properly, the way you want.

    Your mindset remind me of child's mindset, where a parents told him what to wear and what to do, so he does it. You are not a child anymore. You can decide how you want to get married by yourself.

    You can literally create the wedding of your dreams and do whatever you want with it. And ideally, you would have a partner who shares enough values with you so that it's her ideal version of a wedding as well.

    But maybe I am being overly idealistic and you should just settle for what you have. Idk, it's your choice 

  15. Posted

    30 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

    Lots of oatmeal on the market are laced with pesticides and round-up especially Quaker Oats. Bob's Red Mill is a better brand and even then some are still laden with pesticides just have to know which ones to choose. Idk where you're from so its hard to recommend, but I can attest to used to feeling funny myself after eating it and then learnt the truth about how oatmeal is produced and processed.  Then i switched brands. Stay away from Quaker Oats.

     

     

     

    I am from Poland and there is no quacker oats. But it's still an interesting point.

  17. Posted

    7 minutes ago, Roy said:

    Also respect is earned, not given.

    Respect is given - by you. You can respect people unconditionally without them having to earn anything.

    8 minutes ago, Roy said:

    Not supporting ideas where people harm themselves is actually pretty kind and helpful, as opposed to enabling it.

    Once again, stop pretending like you care about her future, you don't.

    What you are doing is not kind or helpful. She clearly didn't become a sex worker on a whim. And she won't stop being a sex worker because some guy on the forum told her to. And you shaming and clowning her is not making things any better, you are just being a dick.

    10 minutes ago, Roy said:

    Let me know how happy and fulfilled she is 5 years from now in a cat filled apartment because no worthy guy she's attracted to in their right fucking mind would commit to someone with a self-inflicted terrible past.

    You would really love for this to be a reality, don't you. It would confirm so many of your beliefs. But unfortunately for you, nobody knows what the future holds.

     

  21. Posted

    1 hour ago, Roy said:

    Wait she is a prostitute??!?!?!!? Jesus Christ, wow that explains a lot.

    Is this new information from this thread or have I been out of the loop? So we've been here on this forum trying to have conversations and insights about the mechanics of sexuality and dating, in order to build better relationships and have more success - yet we have people here with such a literal absence of respect for themselves that they sell their body for money - obfuscating/trolling/and mudding the waters for those trying to make real progress?

    It's like we are in a United Nations diplomatic court, dedicated for negotiating and discussing delicate geopolitics - and there is somehow a literal terrorist in the room who probably set off pipebombs in some marketplace within the last week, trying to shame us for questioning their creditability on the topics at hand.

    I would try and find more amusement in it if I could, as it does appear to be quite a ??? show. But it's honestly more sad than anything. I really had higher hopes for this place but I'm continually let down. I guess that's my fault for repeating the same mistake.

    I can't consciously participate anymore. It's such a fucking joke.

    @Leo Gura I really don't think it should be okay for moderators to speak about other forum members in this way...

  22. Posted

    1 hour ago, Swarnim said:

    There's something inherently fucked up with mass-producing sexual fantasies as if it's some sort of work. It would take a bad toll on the actors even if they weren't being exploited. Sex in its healthy form is when both the recipient have deep respect and emotional connection with each other, which is not present, and can't be, in most porn. A lot of it is perverted and you'll find way too much that's simply twisted.

    I understand if you are very horny teenager who can't control their hormones watching this shit but you must leave this at some point. It's not about you contributing to this industry, it's about why you feel the need to watch this shit at all.

     

    1 hour ago, StarStruck said:

    So because it is not safe to sit in front of my porch I should let randoms pound me? That doesn’t make sense. If I don’t like a McDonald’s job there are many other jobs I can do that doesn’t involve random things going inside of me. To go into sex industry involves special consideration and it is not comparable to a regular job. You are trying to make it sound like it is a regular job. 

    @Princess Arabia just to confirm, I do not agree with the 2 hypocritical r*****s above.

  24. Posted

    1 minute ago, Princess Arabia said:

    I guess the state of mind of men has been fucked since the dawn of time since it's the oldest profession. You're assuming most men that see sex workers are addicts and have a problem. I'm just doing the flip side of pick-up, except I don't have intercourse (very rarely, maybe 3x yr) I charge you horny men for my precious services and neither has to lie about our intentions, and I don't have to approach. Same difference. Only mine seems a little easier and less draining. 

    1) This might come as a suprise for you, but most men have never been to a sex worker of any kind.

    So yeah, most those men who use your services likely have various mental and personal life issues.

    2) 99% of men don't do pickup either.

    3) Approaching girls is actually fun and exciting. And it's totally up to you how you do it. It's your choice to lie or be honest, to look for a one night stand or a soulmate. Cold approach is just a skill.

     

  25. Posted

    1 minute ago, Princess Arabia said:

    How am I preying. I don't go to anyone they come to me, and they are adults capable of making their own choices. I get preyed upon more by men in public so much so that I choose to level-down in my appearance at times just to go food shopping for not wanting to be bothered with the cat calls and whistles. 

    Going out in search for women just to have sex with to satisfy your horny needs and having to pretend you care about her feelings to get laid is more predatory than some guy willing to give exchange services where neither one of us have to be deceitful about the transaction.

    I didn't really mean that you are consciously preying on them. I didn't even mean you personally. I just wanted to describe the relationship dynamic. 

    6 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

    I don't go to anyone they come to me, and they are adults capable of making their own choices

    The same can be said about heroin addicts. Are they really in a good state of mind to make their own choices? Choices that are good for them?

    Once again, I am not shaming you. I don't think that what you are doing is horrible and shameful. It's just that you were comparing it to the mcdonalds work so I wanted to point out how it is not that different as an industry.

    Unfortunately we live in the world where most of our industries are very unconscious, toxic, and unhealthy. And we need to somehow survive here...

    I think that you, personally, are a really nice, kind hearted person.