Harlen Kelly

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  4. Posted · Edited by Harlen Kelly

    12 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

    Easier said than done. Most men think of a woman with a past and label her as a "whore" in their mind.

    Most men who engage in those thought patterns do so because they themselves lack experience with women. 

    Guys who get laid understand that women engage in casual sex, lots of casual sex, and they don't judge it because they are a direct beneficiary of that. 

    2 hours ago, Bando said:

    expect most modern woman in western countries can have at least 15-25 partners

    That's a bit low, keep in mind that when a chick tells you how many guys she has slept with, she most likely will not include the one-night stands she had at the bar with guys she barely knew and the like. 

    Because she intuitively knows that if she shares her actual lay count with you, most guys would devalue her automatically, consequently, she will typically only include the ''serious'' relationships and discard the sexual escapades. 

  5. Posted · Edited by Harlen Kelly

    @Valach The easiest way to get over that judgement is by realizing that the average woman has had 2 to 3x the amount of sexual partners that the average man has had. Understanding that women regularly engage casual sex, particularly in their twenties, will eliminate those negative connotations you have attached to women's sexuality. 

    Realizing that will also help your game tremendously. 

  11. Posted · Edited by Harlen Kelly

    @Giulio Bevilacqua My advice for you is to consult actual professionals (physicians, psychiatrist, psychologist, etc..) and not ''healers'' as you mentioned above, since healers have not been able to help you. 

    7 minutes ago, Giulio Bevilacqua said:

    They would close me into a psychiatric hospital

    I doubt that will happen. Make an appointment with a trained physician and go get treated, take advantage of the advancements that have been made over the last 200 years in the field of psychology and medicine. 

  14. Posted · Edited by Harlen Kelly

    21 minutes ago, Opo said:

    Do the math, it's more than 4x.

    1 hour ago, Harlen Kelly said:

    Not even close. 

    Here is a detailed homicide report from the FBI 2019: https://ucr.fbi.gov/crime-in-the-u.s/2019/crime-in-the-u.s.-2019/tables/expanded-homicide-data-table-6.xls

    2018 homicide report: https://ucr.fbi.gov/crime-in-the-u.s/2018/crime-in-the-u.s.-2018/tables/expanded-homicide-data-table-6.xls

  15. Posted · Edited by Harlen Kelly

    47 minutes ago, Opo said:

    Can't believe you never heard the famous "13/50" line. 

    It's not that it's not factually true it's that it's caused by the environment and not the silly skin tone. 

    13/50 does not equal 4x. They do commit more crime, that's a fact but not at that rate. 

    If there are 100 people living in a piece of land and the majority ( let's say 80% ) pushes the minority for 100s of years to live under poor socio-economic circumstances that lead to criminal behavior (by means of slavery, segregation, jim crow, the war on drugs etc..), you are supposed to fix the underlying structures and systems that created those socio-economic circumstances in the first place instead of blaming the minority that the majority systemically subjugated and oppressed for hundreds of years. 

    This is an incredibly simple concept to grasp but the people that have been punked by right wing propaganda close their minds to such a simple concept because they frankly do not give two FFs about the people suffering injustices, their level of psychological development does not allow them to even consider improving the lives of the disenfranchised, that includes minorities, LGBT people, the poor, etc..

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    2 hours ago, Woke456 said:

    Look at you having to go back how many years, like 200 to make a claim about racism.  This is beyond lazy.  You know everyone used to be slaves, white people in Russia were serfs until the 20th century.  Then, Leo's people put them in the gulags.

    Are you intentionally trying to be a dullard or are you being sarcastic? 

    I used an analogy to better illustrate my position. 

  18. Posted · Edited by Harlen Kelly

    2 hours ago, Woke456 said:

    Exaggerating racisim is racist.

    That's a brain-dead, imbecilic conservative talking point to ignore the real and tangible mistreatments and injustices committed against minorities and other disenfranchised groups. 

    1 hour ago, Woke456 said:

    @Opo

    That doesn't prove anything.  Black people are 4x more likely to commit homicide so getting busted for weed comes with having more disagreeable people in your racial category.  It has literally nothing to do with prejudice.

    That is factually incorrect. 

  20. Posted

    5 minutes ago, Terell Kirby said:

    It’s a common smokescreen tactic used by many bigots. I cannot wait for society to ousts this idiocy and denial of truth. You will be on the losing end. I suggest you awaken to your own bullshit ideology  while you still have time

    These are the same people who would make comments such as ''the slaves were well-fed and treated properly by their masters''. 

    Their ideological positions should be adequately mocked and discarded.  

  24. Posted · Edited by Harlen Kelly

    5 minutes ago, Peter Miklis said:

    , I don't believe he actually plans to kill himself. Heck, I've felt like killing myself a couple of times, but I never did it. Because ofc, the fear of death is always greater than the pain. Simple. He's clearly cappin'. The people that actually kill themselves, don't tend to tell anyone about it. They just do it.

    You are incredibly misinformed. A 10 minute read about the behavioral manifestation of a suicidal person would get rid of those misconceptions you have. That information is readily available from reliable, trustworthy sources.

  25. Posted · Edited by Harlen Kelly

    8 hours ago, RoerAmit said:

    Sometimes I lose hope and I suffer.

    There is no need to suffer. 

    Everybody who at one time sucked with women went through what you are going through currently. I personally know plenty of guys who have been able to go from absolute newbies to pulling and closing every week. 

    Make a habit of going out at least 3 times a week, try to get a wingman who consistently gets results. 

    Getting good in a relatively short amount of time will be almost impossible if you don't have a good wingman. 

    Also meditate, clean up your diet and exercise regularly. That will have a massive impact on your ability to exude confidence and positive emotions.