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    @Artsu

    It ain't impossible of course, but there is a difference between more masculine compassion and feminine compassion. males are generally more receptive to masculine compassion. females are generally more receptive to feminine compassion. I need to work on expressing feminine compassion. 

    I wasn't tryna give her advice on career options, I was just trying to broaden her perspective so she didn't feel like she was the only person going through it... Of course looking back, she just wanted to feel heard. 

  5. Posted · Edited by louhad

    @Espaim lol, I didn't add context to the convo, but before she was talking about how she thought that all her friends had everything figured out and felt bad that she was the only one who didn't... I tried to get her to see that nobody has their shit figured out as much as they want others to think they do at her age. I was tryna normalize her feelings of uncertainty, without invalidating them. that usually helps me, but I do realize looking back that that is def a male bias. 

    @Artsu Damn, I wish I was an intj sometimes... so badass lol... it is just that I use a shit ton of Ne and Fi. I judge things based on how I feel about them... and I am a hardcore type b, prospecting kinda dude. although I can come across as opinionated and stubborn over the web(Fi), irl I am generally pretty warm. again, I didn't add too much context into the convo, I just wanted to give a taste of how my first response was--- to try to fix the problem(which I felt was a problem of her contracted . perspective)--- I wasn't tryna fix the problem just to fix the problem in an intj type of way though, I was tryna fix the problem because I was thinking in terms of her emotional state and what would make me feel better in that position-- but again, I have a male bias

     

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    Hey y'all, 

    So I actually consider myself to be a pretty empathetic person. It is just that at times, I struggle with expressing it in emotionally connective ways. For example, if one of my friends comes up to me and is bummed out, I tend to automatically try to give advice to help them solve their problem... rather than immediately trying to say something to put them at ease. 

    So for example:

    One of my friends is having some problems planning her future. She just graduated college, has no idea what to do with her life. So naturally my first instinct was "I don't mean to invalidate your perspective, but just realize that you are not alone. nobody has everything figured out at 22."... even though there was truth to that, it felt like too much of a male brained approach and tone. She even was real with me and said that while she k new I was right, it didn't make her feel better. How do I get better at tapping into that warm feminine style of empathy? 

  10. Posted · Edited by louhad

    1 hour ago, moth said:

    @wwhy https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Let_them_eat_cake

    It's so easy for "woke" people to critique working class people for not being progressive enough when they live a cushy lifestyle supported by daddies money, let them eat cake.

    This is so deeply misguided... you clearly don't understand progressives or green at all. please consider watching this and explain to me how this is against working class americans. This is actually how a majority of progressives think. This is what they are fighting for. the woke sjw trope is an overblown distraction. SJWs exist and green of course can get triggered(like all tier 1 and actually ironically, they generally don't get as triggered as like blue), but the movement is deeper than that. 

     

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    5 minutes ago, moth said:

    How do woke people do these mental gymnastics with subtle hate boners for the people of political ideologies they're against when they say they aren't but then come out with this?

    Literally just try looking at things from the shoes of blue collar people and you'll see why it's practical for them to see things the way they do

    yes, you gotta see things from both perspectives, there are limitations and hypocrisy in stage green, but green in general is less problematic than stage blue/orange... 

    Leo sent that video in response to another user claiming that:

    16 hours ago, Robi Steel said:

    I dont see this shit on any Trump forums, I dont see violent sociopaths on there.

    He wasn't tryna insinuate that all rightwingers are like that... 

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    6 minutes ago, Akemrelax said:

    ... who can’t take a joke, self-righteous, always trying to guilt you, always getting offended, don’t work hard, toxic ideas of equality...

    I guess you could say they are more developed than right wingers and what not. But man are these fucking feminists annoying. I met some who get offended if by the phrases “good girl” and “karma is a bitch”.

    true, green has a tendency to be hyper sensitive can be expressed in toxic ways, but I don't think it is fair to frame green as a caricature of all of the toxic traits and marginalizing the healthy. I would say that only a minority of green have the real sjw energy and I go to an extremely green university. 

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    1 minute ago, Robi Steel said:

    It cant be compared to Bernie Sanders, it can be compared to his radical left-wing college communist followers. They proclaimed that "American cities would burn if Bernie wasn't elected", and now they do. 

    Trump is just as unlikely to become fascist as Bernie is. You guys clearly see him through a left-wing lens. 

    Youre right, technically it was communism although that doesnt differ much from fascism in its pure state.

    lol, radical left wing college kids who want free health care, free high quality education, criminal justice reform, an end to corporate influence in politics, an end to american militarism.... What do you mean by "they", you have never actually met any "radical left wing college communist" from america in your life, have you? 

  21. Posted · Edited by louhad

    1 hour ago, abrakamowse said:

     

    Not so sure about that...

    https://www.forbes.com/sites/jacobmorgan/2015/07/13/the-5-types-of-organizational-structures-part-3-flat-organizations/#71278ec86caa

     

    It works for some smaller, homogeneous organizations. Logistically, it would be hard to accomplish something like this on a massive scale or within a highly diverse organization (in terms of operations)-- at least given our current technology. Roles and bureaucracy can be very useful and efficient in accomplishing a company's vision. Of course, the optimal organization would integrate healthy green into its vision to ensure that workers are treated humanely and have somewhat of a say in the direction of the company, how resources are allocated, wages etc. 

  23. Posted · Edited by louhad

    57 minutes ago, Artsu said:

    @louhad INTJ

    Hmm, interesting assessment. 

    I am definitely dominantly introverted, have a lot of Ne, and use Si. For a while, I was debating between infp and intp, but the more I researched, the more I realized that I am def Fi dominant.

     

    You may have confused me with intj though because I have been developing my Te a lot and have gotten pretty good at tapping into that function as needed. 

    I could be wrong though, I am by no means an mbti expert. I am curious to know what other things could have let to that conclusion