is porn like real sex ?

[Majed]

i've never had sex before, however people say porn isn't like real sex, and i don't get it because porn seem like very real. any advice on this ? 

plus i think a lot of people focus on mainstream porn, but there are feminist/ethical porn which are better quality and more realistic. 

plus how the fuck are you gonna know how 8 billion people have sex on the planet. lmao

Edited June 21, 2023 by Majed

[Tudo]

Nah, at least not from my experience, sex is actually not that good.

[Majed]

@Tudo i mean your experience is subjective, lol in your experience the earth is flat

[Spiral]

No, not really.

[Jacob Morres]

no but in my experience most sex sucks. at least for one night stands

sex with emotional connection that is some good shit lol

Edited June 22, 2023 by Jacob Morres

[Majed]

@Spiral is there a way for me to verify it without having sex, or do i need to have sex to really see the difference ? 

[lizz_luna]

Porn is the most unrealistic shit ever. As a woman, I can tell how majority of the women are faking it so much. Its so obvious to me. Real pleasure is undoubtable. The worst part a big portion of men that watches porn regularly think that is how good sex looks like. Real pleasure is on another level.

[eggopm3]

At the very least ponder how everything is framed for the camera. Your real life perspective is not a camera lens.

[Chives99]

lol they have to stand in awkward positions for long periods of time to get the right camera shots and do retakes its not all fun and games, you kinda have to be  a serious sex addict to want to do it, pornstars often have quite chaotic lives as they are performing an intimate act so friviously and it does kinda mess up how you relate to sex.

[Chives99]

one night stands just leave you feeling empty

[Leo Gura]

It's very different.

You might be surprised to discover that porn can be better than sex. Because sex is not nearly as visual as porn. But sex has other great qualities you cannot get with porn. The tactile feel of a naked girl is hard to beat. You can't get that with no amount of porn.

Edited June 22, 2023 by Leo Gura

[Majed]

@Leo Gura can you outline some more differences ?

 

[OBEler]

@lizz_luna we as man know that it is fake and yes we dont like that fakeness. It's bad acting but if the body is Hot, it's still good porn

[MuadDib]

2 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

But sex has other great qualities you cannot get with porn.

Not to mention intimacy, emotional connection, or perhaps children to carry on your ideologies and epistemic brilliance. You know, small perks.

[universe]

I don't understand your question.

It's like saying a video of people in a club is the same as going to the club.

Or that reading a story of people dancing in a club is the same as actually being there.

[Roy]

Porn vs real sex is like comparing bananas to grapes. I mean yes they are both technically fruits.........

[Majed]

@universe no i meant it in the sense that the sex depicted in porn videos is real sex or is it just fake acting. like for example the difference between how humans drive cars in real life vs how cars are driven in fast and furious 

[Roy]

4 hours ago, Majed said:

no i meant it in the sense that the sex depicted in porn videos is real sex or is it just fake acting

It's real in the sense that the people are (usually) enjoying themselves to some level, but any connection or intimacy you see is faked and acted yes. The sex industry while mostly employing females as the products, is run overwhelmingly by men and designed to cater to an overwhelmingly male audience.

What you see is a very materialistic male oriented version of sex that is quite negligent of female needs and preferences. Maybe you could learn a position or tip here and there, but if you try to run through most of the typical porn routine in real life the woman will probably slap you or get very upset. I would recommend avoiding it and learn to do it on your own first.

Most of the sex you see in run of the mill porn the woman doesn't even orgasm....... it's sad lol. (Yes they are faking it unless you see squirting).

Real sex is far more dynamic, surprising, intimate, and personal.

Edited June 23, 2023 by Roy

[StarStruck]

8 hours ago, universe said:

I don't understand your question.

It's like saying a video of people in a club is the same as going to the club.

Or that reading a story of people dancing in a club is the same as actually being there.

And to use your analogy… there are people who say watching a video from a nightclub is better than being there ?

The best thing about real life experience is that you get to use your 5 senses and emerge. 

Porn is not natural and you have to be very dumb to not understand this. You wire your brain for the wrong things. 

[Beeflamb]

It's quite different, but porn can sometimes be better. It really depends on the person. If you can connect with the right person sex can be completely out of this world amazing experience.