Are You A Narcissist? - Take The Test

[Petals]

@integral like you I scored a 1. I would agree with you that you need at least sth like 8,9,10 for good functioning in the world. I scored a little on superiority. I think my sense of superiority comes from being interested in stuff that nobody else seems to be interested in. My MBTI-type is INFP.

[Swarnim]

This test can't capture my genius! I should've scored a 0! That's how humble I am!

[Phil777]

9 hours ago, vishnusavestheday said:

I scored a 17 and I really don't know if people are just answering like pushovers to play selfless koi mind games but I don't appreciate it

 

Are artists just inherent narcissists because style is interesting to them? The survey just appeared anti-creative, especially with some fashion based questions.

 

I also do not think that the goal of personal development is to have the lowest possible narcissism score..? I hope I'm falsely disbelieving the intentions of the other scorers on this topic...

I am an artist and scored an 8.

[Phil777]

9 hours ago, Inliytened1 said:

20.  Get on mine 😀

be humble

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[Emrie]

I scored 11, with vanity maxed out, then self-sufficiency at around half, and then decreasingly exhibitionism, superiority, entitlement, authority (each slightly lower than the last), with exploitativeness at 0.

To be honest, I didn't like a lot of these questions. Like the second question on modesty, my answer was bad because I don't have a clear picture of myself regarding modesty. I really can't say if I can truthfully consider myself modest or not, it's too hard for me to self-assess on that. Or one of the last questions, asking if I want someone to write a biography vs I don't like people prying for any reason. Those are two wild extremes and my answer should be "neither of these". I'd say I'm an open book and happy to answer questions, people are very much allowed to pry with good reason, but I don't want someone writing a biography of me, that's crazy.

[WonderSeeker]

12 / 40

I was expecting a 17. Over the past year spiritual practice has made me realize how freakishly devilish I am. Maybe I do a good job at filtering it, lol

I'm curious about the link between narcissism and self-esteem. I go through periods of high/low self-esteem, and in my last swing of high self-esteem, I was Narcissistic (capital intended). To me, big Narcissism is where you are not only self-absorbed, but Self-absorbed, as in you want the best for all beings in your awareness. Action-wise I was able to be more giving, compassionate, and dynamic with people. Would be interesting if NPI changes with self-esteem.

[Danioover9000]

   I scored 12 out of 40. Not an American.

[Terell Kirby]

9

[Andrey]

My score is 18. Maxed on vanity and superiority. I am not famous nor financially wealthy. Greetings from Bulgaria. My gf by the way scored 17. We love it. 😁

[Nilsi]

27 

This is definitely not due to genetics. I used to be very much the opposite of a narcissist, but once you get a hang of how power works, it's very hard to resist the temptation - especially under the convenient guise of "burning through karma." 

If you want to be competitive, you have to adopt a mindset that will make you as competitive as possible - which is pretty much the dark triad of personality.

This is the only thing you ever need to know about power. You can say this is immoral, but it's true nonetheless.

 

[supremeyingyang]

15 - no surprise. I would kindly question the design of the questions as someone who learned to make questionnaires at university, but... it seems to be widely used since 40 years. So it seems to be a very useful tool in reallife application. Thanks for posting!

"The NPI is used in many organizations as a part of the hiring process. It is primarily used in areas where high self-serving tendencies, positively correlated to narcissism, may be a very negative aspect in the job.[5] The NPI can not be used solely as a means of rejection, but it can be used to expect certain behaviors on the job. Some organizations pursue narcissism in the individual as a good trait, especially for leadership positions or in a group where creativity is considered a good measure.[5]

The NPI is also considered to be a good test of the dark triad traits, the other two traits being machiavellianism and psychopathy." https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissistic_Personality_Inventory

Edited January 28 by supremeyingyang

[Moksha]

I scored 8, which according to the graph just means I'm old 

[Ulax]

On 27/01/2023 at 8:28 PM, Leo Gura said:

I doubt a narcissist has self-hate. Look at people like Trump, Tate, Kanye. They are in love with their own bullshit.

@Leo Gura I disagree actually. I base my views on narcissism off psychotherapists like Dr Frank Yeomans and Dr Otto Kerrnberg. 

I think that narcissism, in the true NPD sense, is a compensatory mechanism developed by a psyche as a means of protecting against deep feelings of emptiness and shame.

Here is a video by Yeomans if you're interested:

Kernberg actually believes that NPD is a secondary defence mechanism, such that if that defence mechanism were to be surrendered the client would then be left to experience their primary defence mechanism of BPD. BPD being characterised by pervasive self-hatred.

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[Leo Gura]

Lol.

What that psychologist is describing is the entire human existential condition. Yeah, of course at the core of every self is gonna be emptiness which is being avoided and compensated for. This does not invalidate that a grandiose narcissist is in love with his own bullshit-self. He's full of shit and empty inside, but he loves that. His ego lives off showing off how great it is. It's the thrill of strutting around and feeling superior to everyone else.

EVERY self uses defense mechanisms to protect its finite and false identity.

If I took that psychologist, sat him down, and told him that his entire life is just a fantasy that he concocted and that the world doesn't exist, he would start spouting a laundry list of defense mechanisms to protect himself. That does not say anything about grandiose narcissism. That psychologist derives his meaning and fulfillment from thinking of himself as a decent, helpful psychologist, whereas the grandiose narcissist drives his meaning and fulfillment from signs that he is superior to everyone else.

It boils down to the thrill of superiority. Of course that superiority is not based in truth, it's based on bullshit stories one tells oneself and getting others to repeat those bullshit stories back to you and to themselves.

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[woohoo123]

I got 13/40 - I AM SPECIAL

[Ulax]

9 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Lol.

What that psychologist is describing is the entire human existential condition. Yeah, of course at the core of every self is gonna be emptiness which is being avoided and compensated for. This does not invalidate that a grandiose narcissist is in love with his own bullshit-self. He's full of shit and empty inside, but he loves that.

EVERY self uses defense mechanisms to protect its finite and false identity.

If I took that psychologist, sat him down, and told him that his entire life is just a fantasy that he concocted and that the world doesn't exist, he would start spouting a laundry list of defense mechanisms to protect himself. That does not say anything about grandiose narcissism.

@Leo Gura Hmm fair enough. I get your point.

Kernberg's perspective still fits the self hate view though.

 

[Leo Gura]

3 minutes ago, Ulax said:

@Leo Gura Hmm fair enough. I get your point.

Kernberg's perspective still fits the self hate view though.

I just don't buy that Trump, Tate, or Kayne hate themselves. I think they are so unconscious that when they actually look at themselves they think they are so amazing and superior, but if we look at them objectively, they are cringe, embarrassing, and ugly.

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[Joel3102]

2 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

I just don't buy that Trump, Tate, or Kayne hate themselves. I think they are so unconscious that when they actually look at themselves they thing they are amazing, when in reality if we look at them objectively, they are cringe.

If you’re truly secure in yourself why would you feel the need to lie about winning golf games etc like Trump

[Leo Gura]

3 minutes ago, Joel3102 said:

If you’re truly secure in yourself why would you feel the need to lie about winning golf games etc like Trump

I didn't say he was secure. Trump is very thin-skinned and insecure. But he projects such a strong facade of bullshit that allows him to escape his insecurities most of time. Trump lies about everything to make himself feel the thrill of superiority.

It would be like if I called myself a trillionaire just so that I could feel richer than every man on the planet and bask in the glory of that. If I could actually fool myself and all of you guys about that, then I would genuinely feel really good about myself. At least for a while. And then I would be forced to play games to maintain that illusion. And if I ever broke the illusion I would feel really bad because then I would have to face the fact that I'm not as superior as I thought.

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[Ulax]

@Leo Gura I get how it would seem somewhat unreasonable to conclude that they hate themselves.

But on the Kernberg view, the entire point of the grandiose constructed self would be to prevent conscious experiencing of the unconscious self hatred attached to the BPD psychic structure. So, the narcissist would never consciously experience the self hatred but would always be reacting against it. Hence the expression of the narcissist is always grandiose but unconsciously is always motivated by a desire to avoid consciously experiencing deep self hatred.

How else would you explain the phenomena of the narcissistic collapse?

https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/understanding-narcissism/202202/what-is-narcissistic-collapse

Edited January 28 by Ulax