How To Get Laid - Part 1 - The Foundations Of Success with Women

[Tech36363]

@Sempiternity bruh what are you even talking about . This is part of life . He is talking about life . You somehow think sex is bad or something leo shouldnt talk about is your problem . Learning about dating teaches a lot about life i dont see a problem . Why do you consider dating as an inferior topic ? Ask yourself this 

[roopepa]

So weird how different people are, socially and sexually speaking.

I'm shocked how much energy and time some of you boys here put into this. I mean... Sex is great, but holy shit are you taking this seriously. Sex isn't that good. So much work for such a little reward.

Or maybe I'm just a low testosterone beta male. 

Edited November 9, 2021 by roopepa

[Girzo]

11 minutes ago, roopepa said:

Sex isn't that good.

Yes.

I think at some point it gets more about he chase than sex.

[Shin]

16 minutes ago, roopepa said:

So weird how different people are, socially and sexually speaking.

I'm shocked how much energy and time some of you boys here put into this. I mean... Sex is great, but holy shit are you taking this seriously. Sex isn't that good. So much work for such a little reward.

Or maybe I'm just a low testosterone beta male. 

I think it's mostly psychological.

As in, when you're deprived of sex for a long time, and society emphazise its importance to the extreme nowadays, no wonder why this is bigger of an issue that it needs to be.

But maybe I'm also a weak beta male who don't need that much sex, I can't understand guys who needs to fuck several time a week and chase girls like cocaine, it's ridiculous to me

[Emotionalmosquito]

On 11/8/2021 at 8:16 AM, Carl-Richard said:

I first interpreted that as Rupert Spira's "the mind silences in the sight of beauty", but then I realized you meant the ego death of rejection 

Or the fact that it cripples your cognitive functions which gets you close to the state of no mind 

[Space]

1 hour ago, roopepa said:

So weird how different people are, socially and sexually speaking.

I'm shocked how much energy and time some of you boys here put into this. I mean... Sex is great, but holy shit are you taking this seriously. Sex isn't that good. So much work for such a little reward.

Or maybe I'm just a low testosterone beta male. 

It's not just about sex. Actually very little. It's more about the significant personal transformation that occurs when a man does a lot of serious cold approach and socialising. A part of that man dies and a newer, stronger more masculine individual is created. It's almost like a right of passage into manhood if taken seriously. The sex is a small by-product of the process. Most guys are just happy to get a bit of attention and validation from a female.

[Emotionalmosquito]

17 hours ago, The Rainmaker said:

 

You're "higher than him?" What does that mean? That you're superior to people who aren't as good at social interaction as you?

I don’t think she means superior as in a better a human being, just higher than him in terms of understanding how socialization works.

[something_else]

1 hour ago, roopepa said:

So weird how different people are, socially and sexually speaking.

I'm shocked how much energy and time some of you boys here put into this. I mean... Sex is great, but holy shit are you taking this seriously. Sex isn't that good. So much work for such a little reward.

Or maybe I'm just a low testosterone beta male. 

 

1 hour ago, Girzo said:

Yes.

I think at some point it gets more about he chase than sex.

It's about fulfilling your potential as a man. It isn't really about the physical sensation, although that's obviously great as far as physical sensations go. It's about feeling powerful, masculine, and capable in the world

[LordFall]

On 11/8/2021 at 0:58 PM, Hardkill said:

Haha. How poetic.

Btw, whenever girls grind on me at a club I often get a boner, especially if she was hot. Yet, even if have a boner they still keep grinding their ass on my dick while not appearing to be uncomfortable about that at all. Do you think that whenever that happens to me that that always means that she is really attracted to me and that she is purposely trying to get my dick hard?

Society is really killing us with sexual shame. I've had that same thought before, a girl rubbing herself against me will find it creepy if I get hard/horny. 

Obviously, that's what she wants though. Would you get offended if a cute girl that you wanna fuck got wet thinking about you? 

[Girzo]

40 minutes ago, something_else said:

It's about fulfilling your potential as a man. It isn't really about the physical sensation, although that's obviously great as far as physical sensations go. It's about feeling powerful, masculine, and capable in the world

Pardon me, but I don't have such drive.

Sex has great relaxing properties, and influences wellbeing, but it's a side effect of the activity. Just like happiness and relaxation are side effects of yoga and meditation.

And just like I won't think "Oh I am so Enlightened, so saintly" when I meditate, I won't think "Oh I am so powerful, so manly" when I have sex.

[LordFall]

2 hours ago, roopepa said:

So weird how different people are, socially and sexually speaking.

I'm shocked how much energy and time some of you boys here put into this. I mean... Sex is great, but holy shit are you taking this seriously. Sex isn't that good. So much work for such a little reward.

Or maybe I'm just a low testosterone beta male. 

It's not really about the act of having sex. That's great but indeed not putting thousands of hours into. The part that's fascinating is that game fundamentally teaches you that you can control everything about your interaction with women, it's all arbitrary.

If you start it off with sex then you can see how game allows you to basically have sex with any kind of woman you want. Any ethnicity, age(obviously within reason), body shape, etc. Then you can see how adventurous that sex can get. Fucking in a bed? Boring. Why not find a girl that wants to have sex in a car, in the woods, by the beach, etc. Throw in some toys/BDSM into the mix and that can get infinitely interesting as well.

Now throw relationship styles into the mix. You can use game to find a long-term girlfriend. Or one-night stands. Or sexual and romantic relationships with multiple women(and men I guess?) at the same time. You could date two girls at once. Three. Twenty-five. You could date two bisexual girls that are dating each other and you at the same time! 

Combine entrepreneurship and passive income into the mix and now you get some really crazy possibilities into the mix. What if you could spend the next few years of your life travelling the world, dating and seducing women from all continents all the while creating content and working from all around the world doing it WHILE exploring all the sex/relationship dynamics I talked to about before? 

That's the true potential of game IMO, true freedom.

As a straight male, I don't see what could be more interesting to you than the females of your species and the infinite adventures you could have with them.

If you have other ideas, please share them and I'll add the to my universal bucket list   

 

[roopepa]

@LordFall I see the beauty you're pointing at. 

Thank you.

[Leo Gura]

It's not about the sex. The sex is just a way to hook a thirsty dude into self actualization.

And what you are discounting is the value of relationships and intimacy. You can't get that without sex first.

How you gonna start a family if no one wants to fuck you?

[LordFall]

On 08/11/2021 at 7:12 PM, The Rainmaker said:

 

You're "higher than him?" What does that mean? That you're superior to people who aren't as good at social interaction as you?

A woman needs a man who grounds her; literally being a man for her.

You've heard of the expression "If you can't handle her, you can't handle the world for her." , I'm sure.

Her response is very honest and candid and much better insight into female psychology than any other girl would give you, you being triggered at her is very unfounded and rude. 

 

 

Edited November 10, 2021 by LordFall

[blessedlion1993]

On 11/8/2021 at 7:50 PM, The Rainmaker said:

Maybe those incel weirdos wouldn't be so goddamn weird and angsty if people like you weren't making them feel constantly uncomfortable about their achievements. 

Hey man, i know you've been through a lot of bullshit, clearly you have had to overcome some serious hurdles in life. And that takes strength. So props

But in all honesty, you sound like a total victim whiner here. I read the previous comments and no one said anything that mean or "bad" to you, you're just hyper sensitive and ready to point out anyone that is making a comment on incels as a horrible person. Incels are losers by definition , i'm sorry. They should face the facts and use it to grow, or they will remain losers, and normal people will not lose any sleep over it. It's like a fat person who just gets mad at all the skinny people but never takes the day to look in the mirror and realize he's a fat fuck, who just needs to get over it and eat healthy. 

You complaining and freaking out on everyone does nothing for these incel people. they should feel like losers with their mysognism, lame online victim communities and porn addictions. Should we praise these people? 

Even @Flowerfaeirys comment wasn't that bad. She was just saying that when a guy is being needy or scared of her, it places her higher than him in the interaction. Imagine if you were standing in line at a store and someone in front of you just randomly said "take my spot" and then he started shining your shoes. You would probably feel above that person in some way. "Why is this guy kissing my ass so much? Does he have no self value?" Human interaction is typically some kind of this dynamic and shifts based on what is going on. 

But you flipped out on her and got all defensive about it. 

So just pointing out this might be a shadow for you, if you flip out on me, then you're more stubborn than you seem, but it's fine if you do. I genuinely don't give a fuck 

[blessedlion1993]

7 hours ago, LordFall said:

Combine entrepreneurship and passive income into the mix and now you get some really crazy possibilities into the mix. What if you could spend the next few years of your life travelling the world, dating and seducing women from all continents all the while creating content and working from all around the world doing it WHILE exploring all the sex/relationship dynamics I talked to about before? 

This is literally my life lol and yeah it's pretty fucking dope, but you can get lost in it as well

[blessedlion1993]

@Leo Gura

Does it really get that technical, (2 or 3 taps on the shoulder, big or small smile, etc)

I don't think there could be a formula for that, because what if one girl likes to be tapped twice and another likes it 3 times, and one girl thinks big smiles are cute and another creepy. 

Isn't it possible that you're just getting too technical at that point and it's actually fucking up your game?

[Jacob Morres]

53 minutes ago, blessedlion1993 said:

"take my spot" and then he started shining your shoes. You would probably feel above that person in some way. 

i think it's product of social conditioning, but it's the not the most ethical. i still have those biases actually but ive worked through a little of it. i think ideally we'd want to see everyone as equal. like 'humans of new york' if you know that page  

you  might "feel" above that person, but he's an equal to you. hes just like you but unfortunately was given lesser privilege. but also i have a lot of this bias as well so i cant have no holier than thou attitude as that makes me a hyprocite 

Edited November 10, 2021 by Jacob Morres

[blessedlion1993]

@Jacob Morres

Correct, in the grand scheme of reality, we are all equal. It'd be great if we could live that way, but maybe not. 

We live a world that lives by very different rules, and pretty much nobody has transcended the heirarchy mind set. It's embedded in our dna. "where do i stand compared to him?"

It's actually not necessarily a bad thing, some situations require an "alpha" or leader to call shots and if everyone was acting like all their voices mattered equally, nothing would get accomplished.

Politics, businesses, militaries, even spiritual circles. There needs to be some structure and distribution of power, which of course can't just be equal for obvious reasons.

That's not to say everyone doesn't have their unique contribution and value. And people can always be respected and have high self-esteem even in these systems.

[Jacob Morres]

@blessedlion1993 part of me does feel like youre rationalizing hierarchy mindsets similarily to how someone would rationalize racism like ive heard before like

'yes racism exists and we have all have racist biases so it just do be like that'. but it doesnt actually rationalize racism nor does it remove us from the responsibility of working on our biases and working to making change on systemic racism

also regarding leadership, some form of leadership is more conscious than others. like you have tiger parenting in asian culture which actually produces high results in academics and the work force. but there are many costs to it. lack of emotional development, happiness, autonomy and a weaker bond between the child and parent

i dont think the military is a good example of conscious leadership because of its authoritarian style. nor do i feel like many businesses that are too profit oriented choose profits over ethicalness & meaning to an extreme level. but yeah they work in producing results

 

Edited November 10, 2021 by Jacob Morres