Emotionalmosquito

So back then you basically just get skull bashed in if you try fucking the wrong females without the strength to back it up. Then you’re gone and might get to be a more alpha cave man next time around. Maybe not less brutal in that era but certainly simpler. All you needed was to be stronger and more dominant than the other guys. Let’s run with it. Imagine we take an alpha cave man and put him into the modern dating climate. Watch how fast he goes to prison or a psyche unit. There’s no way you’d be able to brainwash out the pure animalistic drive that got him all the ladies back in his world. The irony in this thought experiment is nobody could possibly exemplify not giving a fuck better than an alpha Neanderthal. It’s all about learning to play retarded social games now.

Partially yes but I know I can handle it. As a vipassana practitioner we’re not allowed to be afraid of sensations however unpleasant. Mostly because she might be hurt worse if we let it get that far. Also don’t forget the financial drawbacks. I’m broke as hell and looking for work.

Well it’s just because I don’t need things to be getting that serious. Maybe if she expressed that I could tell her “I’ll pretend you didn’t say that” and try to forget it before really leaving. I just want a no strings attached partner so we can bust each other’s balls, be goofy, play tag, hide and seek, and do epic prank calls together and stuff. If she starts getting real feelings that means it’ll hurt more once it’s time to move on because then I feel bad for cutting it off. Plus it’ll start costing me money I don’t have.

Why would Neanderthals have the same level of struggle that modern daters do considering language itself was in its infancy? Their minds were so simple they could just get straight to business as opposed to nowadays single men have to dodge fireballs covered in gasoline just to have a chance at getting a girlfriend. And the stats show it. The game has changed.

Neither. She’s out the door if she says either one of those. That’s getting into committed relationship territory which serves me no purpose and costs a fortune. I still have dozens of gorgeous women I need to experience before even thinking about settling down. That’s why I’m trying to learn the art of seduction.

I can’t for the life of me put on any mass. I’m currently at 132 pounds at 5’9 and have been hovering around that mark for probably a year. The best shape of my life was 150 pounds muscle but lost 20 pounds of it during my kratom addiction, horrible sleep and mental health crisis. No matter how much fat+protein+carb rich food I shovel down, all it does is sustain my current low weight. On top of that I get full way too quickly to gain any size and I have a vomiting fear which prevents me from stuffing down enough per meal because it’ll be unbearable hell the next time some god forsaken tummy bug or food poisoning sends it all back out. Throwing up (specifically the feeling behind it) is the worst fucking system nature cursed us with. It’s even worse for me because for some reason when it happens my throat involuntarily tightens up such that only a tiny bit comes out at a time making for a long and torturous process. And then of course you lose even more weight you can’t afford when an illness like that strikes. I would give anything to have a slower metabolism so I could actually hang on to some of the calories i consume. That way I could fast more often or just have a fat reserve to fall back on if I want to take a vacation from food for a couple days here and there. No such luck. Any other hard gainers here?

I’m the one with autism

Thats because consent wasn’t a thing back then.

Other than just plain fear of approaching, this is why most people never improve in the field of pickup. It’s so formulaic and variable heavy there’s barely any room to just breathe. It’s like attempting a highly complex recipe with expensive ingredients, and I hate cooking. How’re you supposed to enjoy the thrill of the hunt when your mental bandwidth is overloaded with doing all the steps correctly while also keeping track of her body language, staying alert for potential douchebag dad/bf/brother showing up, jealous friend, and the looming threat of being banned from the area if you goof up and she files a complaint? Nevertheless it’s a challenge I’m ready to face. But due to my city’s relatively small population, I’ll need every shot to count. I need the most proven effective methods for beginners or autistic people. Each set should be done with sniper’s precision because I don’t have the luxury of doing thousands of approaches, learning from mistakes and leveling up that way. I’m sorry, can you clarify what you meant by this question?

But LordFall, that’s exactly what I’m doing. When I’m approaching I’m “self amusing,” another helpful thing the pickup crowd advises. I’m not looking for her to validate jack shit. I’m talking about what I find funny or interesting, yet it gets me no dates. To give some examples I’ll answer @amberlight’s question Yes I’m quite sure the reason I’m failing (when doing the dgaf method) is in fact because I come off as unhinged or creepy. That’s my entire point. Why should that matter if I’m supposed to not care what others think of me? As for your question: I talked to a cutie working the register at an empty shop in the mall about how cool I think it would be to get naked and crawl up a dragon’s vagina and birth myself back out, I probably had more detail at the time but I do remember it was something along those lines. A woman at a bar with her friend told me she was married, to which I replied, “A ring don’t cover a hole.” My most recent was a month or two ago at the carnival. I opened a cute blonde with her friend by saying “don’t go into that portapotty. I just had a fat miscarriage in there, it’s pretty messy.” I was expecting them to look horrified but much to my shock they were receptive to the dork humor. They were like “good to know.” Then I said “just kidding I’m still pregnant with it”. This started a surprisingly lasting interaction that evolved into other areas where she just played into the bit continuously, but eventually they fist bumped me and left. Keep in mind I only open women this way as my own form of shit test to see if she’s some preppy little snowflake who will run away scared or can actually banter and because it’s the most fun. Not because I’m craving validation for being a character. Problem is, you say that type of shit at a pussy ass bar or club and you’re gone

Thanks man. Tbh I’ve been slacking like a chud lately. I’m drawing from dozens of past experiences. Maybe 100-200 grand total. I’m very limited by my city’s population so I have to take long breaks to not make a negative reputation for myself as that guy “harassing” (attempting genuine connection) all the women, especially if I’m going about it without giving a single fuck like I supposedly should be. I have to rotate out different establishments and randomize the days and times I show up to run game to make it harder for managements/security teams to notice patterns. Once I get some money I’d like to get one of these masks to help out with my practice

I doubt my physical appearance can be that much of an issue because I look more or less normal/average. I even have some attractive facial features. The biggest drawback is my slightly receded chin, overbite. I also have a mid stage widow’s peak (although I have basically zero hair falling out anymore thanks to minoxidil/finasteride topical foam) I’m also only 5’9”, maybe 5’11-6ft with my boosters on. Come to think of it, shit, maybe you’re right 😞

After all these years and several more attempts I still don’t understand why so many people still think this is the case. I’ve literally been removed from bars for nothing other than embodying this EXACT energy. I’ve approached like this at target, the mall, Walmart, etc. the girls just aren’t having it. What has gotten me better responses is by doing the exact opposite. Being more chill, toning it down, making myself more boring and socially polite than my natural self. I even directly asked a woman at a health food store which behavior she prefers to be opened with: Talking about normal things relevant to the situation or weird/unpredictable topics. She said she prefers normal stuff. What gives??

I shit you not, June 24th was day zero (registration day) for me. Not sure if you’re even in the U.S. but imagine if we both went to the exact same one and never knew it until now July fourth was metta day. The being able to talk to everyone after all that silence and talk so deeply and openly heart to heart with everyone there makes the whole thing worth it. ❤️ Bonus points: we got to see fireworks from surrounding properties while hanging out with what felt like best friends or brothers. Beautiful.

This cannot be stressed enough. My first time I went in not knowing what to expect. Came out with my first and strongest taste of full enlightenment I’ve ever had. Best thing that ever happened to me by far. Second time I was expecting it to be like the first one again and it basically didn’t do shit. Always expect nothing from meditation. Third one I just did recently and was easily top five most miserable experiences of my life, but I learned a lot.