Flowerfaeiry

High quality woman

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What are some of the traits of a high quality woman? 

Here's a few I came up with:

  • Takes care of and nourishes her body
  • Dresses nice and clean
  • Able to laugh and enjoy herself
  • Is kind to people and animals
  • Has hobbies
  • Is in touch with her own spirituality and wildish nature
  • Is confident in her sexuality 
  • Knows what she likes 

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Here's my wishlist:

Good relationship with father

Can trust people easily

Warm personality

Wants to connect and talk about things.

Well connected to her body, comfortable with sexuality and orgasms easily.

Reaches out by herself

Wants to get serious, comfortable to talk future

Emotionally healthy

Independent enough to be fine without me for weeks

Healthy body that she loves and takes good care of

Doesn't smoke

Willing to experience - not just analyze and think about

Curious enough to talk about each other's interests, even if we don't share them

Pretty face that is appealing to me

Good ass, nice tits that feel and look good

Esthetically appealing pussy with healthy smell and taste

Well-developed sense of humor: she's funny and also gets others' jokes

Really fun to be around her, also without sex

 

Entirely subjective of course :)

The 'nice to people and animals' is a good one. Sometimes I will try to find out how she is with animals, and whether they like her.

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1 minute ago, flowboy said:

 



Esthetically appealing pussy with healthy smell and taste

 

Oh gosh. 

Sounds like this one made it to the list because of a previous bad experience. xD

 


Association with the wise is the root cause for obliterating all misery. -  Tripura Rahasya

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@Etherial Cat :(?

Let's just say some things are okay for an evening, but not for the long term...

Smell and taste actually says a lot about someone's health. Not that I know how exactly that works. I just trust my instinct when I like it or don't like it.


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22 minutes ago, Flowerfaeiry said:

What are some of the traits of a high quality woman? 

Here's a few I came up with:

  • Takes care of and nourishes her body
  • Dresses nice and clean
  • Able to laugh and enjoy herself
  • Is kind to people and animals
  • Has hobbies
  • Is in touch with her own spirituality and wildish nature
  • Is confident in her sexuality 
  • Knows what she likes 

A high quality is also someone who gives her man the utmost respect. That means that she is mostly cooperative or submissive to her man as if he treats him like a king or a god. No high quality man wants a woman who has a terrible attitude, is too difficult to deal with, too argumentative, not drama-free, and is not supportive enough of his goals or life purpose.

However, the man must also play his part by showing her that he can be a strong leader and protective warrior for her, is socially savvy, and has sexual charisma. I know this sounds misogynistic and primitive, but it is a truth and it's for the greater good of a sexual/romantic relationship. Also, women don't just want men who can be gentle and are loyal. They also on a subconscious level are highly turned on by men who are very dominant and charismatic.

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16 minutes ago, flowboy said:

@Etherial Cat :(?

Smell and taste actually says a lot about someone's health. Not that I know how exactly that works. I just trust my instinct when I like it or don't like it.

Yes, definitely. xD


Association with the wise is the root cause for obliterating all misery. -  Tripura Rahasya

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Embraces her feminitiy, knows why there is a complementary masculine force in this world and knows why there is an interplay in between both.

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My personal favorite

  • Free from insecurity about her value or "quality"

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1 minute ago, 4201 said:

My personal favorite

  • Free from insecurity about her value or "quality"

I'm loving this.

And I've also seen my long laundry list of expectations reduced to nothing in front of the evidence. :)


Association with the wise is the root cause for obliterating all misery. -  Tripura Rahasya

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33 minutes ago, flowboy said:

Smell and taste actually says a lot about someone's health. Not that I know how exactly that works. I just trust my instinct when I like it or don't like it.

Because we become what we eat quite literally. 

8 minutes ago, 4201 said:
  • Free from insecurity about her value or "quality"

Yes! Confident :) 


"You Create Magic" 

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For me, she just gotta meet the basic standards of a normal human being, and she must be a good mother for her children.


Have faith.

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Detached self esteem from others. For example their husbands, children and friends. 

Even though it seems nice to be "help" others, ultimately it stops a woman from reaching her maximum potential of creativity and love - which i find most attractive. 

This one is hard for most women to actualize, cause women have this strong urge to derive their value and self esteem through how "social" and "supportive" they are. Likewise men derive their value and self esteem subconsciously through how competent they are in being the "breadwinner" and having a powerful influence on others. Both attachments will lead to a decreased growth in creativity, joyfulness and ultimately love. 

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Some stuff I look for

- Positive Mindset

-Likes Spirituality and Philosophy to some degree

-Down to earth and present. 

-Easy to talk with

-Optimistic/Kind/Loving Personality 

-Honest

-A little mysterious

-Good listener. Is not a crazy parrot. 

-Likes improvement and change

-High intelligence and Imagination

-Has some inner wisdom

-Business/Investor oriented

-Has a life goal/plan/purpose

-Non religious/Non Idealogical 

-Open Minded

-Non-needy

-Non alcoholic or drugs

-Low manipulation and lies

-Has class and manners

-Is independent to the point that she can be fine alone by herself. Doesnt need to be entangled in the noise of social drama and media. 

-Some decent level of intellect (specially of psychology)

-Has her own unique style that makes her stand out

-Wears different good/attractive fragrances

-Good music taste. I know girls that dont like music. Sad shit, lol. 

-Nature oriented

-Non Dramatic or at least very low. 

-Does not hold grudges/moves on from the past 

-Cooks Good 

-Gives good body massage

-Has some dancing skill (Preferably salsa in my case) 

-Knows how to provoke sexually and leave stuff to the imagination

-Has a Seductive Aura

-Has a balanced sexuality (not too feminine that it gets toxic)

-Open to sexual adventures like ocassionally wearing a remote pantie to get teased at in public places. 

-Delicate fit slim body type. Shiny healthy hair, clean straight teeths and soft healthy skin. 

 

Note: Its pretty much impossible to meet all these things in a women. This a just a list inside a range I play to find some stuff which I find satisfying. 

This go for men and women, in the sense that finding an ideal person depends alot on where you live, culture, class and enviornments. 

There are many things in general that make up for a high quality person. But mostly will be things similar to you. Basically, someone like you and at your level. The more you develop yourself, the more you will look for onto others to meet you there. It makes no sense to develop yourself and get with a person that will drag you down. 

 

 

 

Edited by Kalki Avatar

The riches of illusion do not even compare to the riches of freedom.  -Sri Sadguru Siddharameshwar Maharaj

 

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Posted (edited)

Since we're all sharing our "Wishlist," here's mine :D

  1. Integrity/Self-sameness
  2. Femininity/Loves men in general
  3. Spark in her eyes/Intoxicating giggle
  4. Open-minded/Listener/Exploratory
  5. Open-hearted/Trusting/Caring
  6. No depression or anxiety or body image issues
  7. Not addicted to phone/alcohol/smoking/social media/consumerism
  8. Embraces her sexuality but also has standards
  9. Spiral dynamics stage green+
  10. Strong posture

 

Note - this is all relationship criteria. I'm presupposing mutual attraction.

Edited by RendHeaven

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Posted (edited)

  • Physically attractive 
  • Takes care of her health
  • Kind and Caring
  • Open and Honest
  • Intelligent
  • Compassionate
  • Positive

 

BONUS HYPER-RARE TRAIT

  • TAKES RESPONSIBLTY FOR HER LIFE SITUATION AND ACTIONS 
Edited by Iksander

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she just gotta be nice and we gotta flow and feel each other for me idk 

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@Lucas-fgm Yeah, thats why I said some stuff. Im very picky with everything in life. I prefer being alone if I dont meet some of those to motivate me. Dating and sex alone wont motivate me much for long if not combined with rare qualities. Personally, I need alot of mental stimulation. 

But still, those are some general things that can make up for any girl. 

 

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The riches of illusion do not even compare to the riches of freedom.  -Sri Sadguru Siddharameshwar Maharaj

 

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