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Is it ok to practice sex with hookers? I need sex and covid is making pickup difficult to develop. Is sharing my energy with someone that works as a sex worker bad? some of the hookers i have had sex with are very nice people, but i feel that i can do better. I usually need to numb the pain with alcohol or something after i  have done the bad act.

I am 24 and i dont want to be all messed up from people that are messed up in their energy.  

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The problem with sex worker is :

  • They have so much sex they don't care about sex
  • Most of them don't care about you

Huge problem because if you want to practice sex, you need to practice how to please emotionally a woman, not physically, which you won't be able to with a hooker anyway.


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8 minutes ago, Shin said:

 

Huge problem because if you want to practice sex, you need to practice how to please emotionally a woman, not physically, which you won't be able to with a hooker anyway.

Well thats my problem, I become emotionally toxic because of my relationship with women.

I feel they take from me.

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I have no experience with hookers but I would expect them to be a more palpable variant of porn. Nothing wrong with that if you're thirsty and rich, but it will not give you any valuable experience with regards to relationships. I would also expect it to be highly addictive.

Remember that hooker's job is to please you and normal sex is an exchange.


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23 minutes ago, Rolo said:

Well thats my problem, I become emotionally toxic because of my relationship with women.

I feel they take from me.

Then how do you think you're gonna feel, when a woman is only interested in your money and fake having fun with you, by giving her body away to you ?


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It will destroy your relationships on an emotional level. Because you will be confused on how normal regular women relate to experiences of sex. 

It can create unnatural expectations in relationships and a degrading way of looking at women due to the transactional nature of such sex. Can make you feel less interested in the curiosity of sex with regular women because you're fulfilling your curiosity. 

Sex is not just sex. It needs romance. When you have sex on a level that becomes too physical and mechanical then it's emotional aspects go missing and it's no longer a memorable experience but only an activity. 

 

 

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"Hookers and Cocaine"  ahh .. ^_^ The notorious combo.
I wouldn't recommend having sex with hookers all the time, but meh, if it's the only way you can satisfy your sexual needs then why not.
 

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Usually need to numb the pain with alcohol or something after i  have done the bad act.

I think you already have the answer for that.
Why would there be 'pain' in the first place, if it would be aligned with your beliefs and morals?
It's not (for you) that's why it brings up feelings of regret, guilt, remorse because you judge youself of doing the 'bad' act.

See if the act wouldn't be bad from your perspective, there wouldnt be a bad judgement that bring up 'pain'.
(unless you speaking about pain in your penis, anus etc)

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3 hours ago, Rolo said:

I usually need to numb the pain with alcohol or something after i  have done the bad act.

Why? Because of awkwardness or something?

But anyway, personally I would never have sex with a hooker for money. If you've only had sex a fairly small number of times, I can understand how that could make you feel unconfident in bed. Having a relationship can fix that pretty quickly, but it's all in your head anyway, and I wouldn't recommend starting a relationship specifically to practice sex.

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I mean regardless of the spiritual or moral implications (thats on you. I'm not gonna judge what you feel is right or wrong in this regard), I would suggest being careful that you don't get scammed or robbed. 

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4 hours ago, Rolo said:

but i feel that i can do better.

Yes, you definitely can.

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nothing wrong with having sex with hookers as long there's no health concern(STDs,robbing,illegal trafficking,pimps etc.)

Like regular sex,it is Give and Take, just the other person has way higher experience of providing the service you want.

No regrets mate, you two are making love for a night,not killing each other. What's there to guilt upon. Embrace the connection,for however little time.

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41 minutes ago, Axiomatic said:

I mean regardless of the spiritual or moral implications (thats on you. I'm not gonna judge what you feel is right or wrong in this regard), I would suggest being careful that you don't get scammed or robbed. 

It's legal in Australia :)

Germany too, they are even in glasses totally naked at night.

8 minutes ago, howtoyellow said:

nothing wrong with having sex with hookers as long there's no health concern(STDs,robbing,illegal trafficking,pimps etc.)

Like regular sex,it is Give and Take, just the other person has way higher experience of providing the service you want.

No regrets mate, you two are making love for a night,not killing each other. What's there to guilt upon. Embrace the connection,for however little time.

Hooker aren't in it for love, it's a transaction and it's definitely not for a night in most cases.


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@Rolo simply do it, with your mind a d soul open as you can , and realize how do you feel during and after. If it's great, great! ,If it is negative, ok, better don't do again. At least with the same

Sex is an energetic act, it's love , could happen with a prostitute, who knows. Maybe with a particular prostitute and not with others, same than no prostitutes. Morality is not involved for me , but I think...if sex is not coming to me, it's because I shouldn't have sex

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Oh man! Sex with hookers is not sex with hookers. Sex with hookers is you masturbating with a vagina.

 

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7 hours ago, The0Self said:

Why? Because of awkwardness or something?

not awkward at all, ive done it enough to walk in there and pick the girl i want. I just find i question my self worth and feel like i am going down a dark road because i want to have deeper sexual experiences and not just 30 minute sessions.

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15 hours ago, Shin said:

Hooker aren't in it for love, it's a transaction and it's definitely not for a night in most cases.

Yeah not for a whole night in most cases. but almost everything is a transaction of some sort. Even in relationships,how long will it last if the give and take isn't balanced?

 

But as OP said, he already has tons of experience with hookers so he should probably take a break and go for a full time girlfriend now. or a sexual relationship of other type.

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15 minutes ago, howtoyellow said:

Yeah not for a whole night in most cases. but almost everything is a transaction of some sort. Even in relationships,how long will it last if the give and take isn't balanced?

 

But as OP said, he already has tons of experience with hookers so he should probably take a break and go for a full time girlfriend now. or a sexual relationship of other type.

Let's say relationships can be less transactional and more genuinely about giving selflessly.

But yeah, in the end, it's 100% a transaction too ^^


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I recommend sex with lookers ;)


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@Leo Gura not all of us have the opportunity, so a hooker can be practice well for sex anyway , not so much romancing 


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Worst kind of sex for a number of reasons.

If you are that desperate, just go to Tinder and try to find easy lays (lower your expectations), have sex with a relatively normal girl, don't be picky at first and practice with them. 

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