Why I hate when women chase me?

[Beeman]

Why I hate when women chase me and call me? 

[Psychonaut]

Get some women with self esteem, they know that you are a busy man and don't have time to listen to the yip yapping.

[Shin]

Maybe you're afraid to show them you aren't as great as you think you are by being intimate with them.

[Toby]

I also hate it when women don't take no as an answer and are stalking me without any reason.

[Good-boy]

@Beeman dont be a pussy man.. just bang them woman who dare to chase you.  Boom ?

[YaNanNallari]

U can see for yourself, at least with time

[NoSelfSelf]

Because you want them to be more challenging if they are easy you lose the interest its same with women

[Eric Tarpall]

The vibe I'm getting is that you don't like feminine girls. You want her to be like a mommy. A mommy who's cold and distant. And you can get stuff from her but only if you work really hard for it. That's what you want right?

[bejapuskas]

23 hours ago, Beeman said:

Why I hate when women chase me and call me? 

I agree with what the other people here have already said, but to the original question - you hate it, because you don't accept it. I also get chased by 2 or 3 girls, but it's kinda ok, I am just behaving naturally. I don't know honestly, whether I should do something or not...

[Beeman]

@NoSelfSelf

8 hours ago, NoSelfSelf said:

Because you want them to be more challenging if they are easy you lose the interest its same with women

Correct. It think it is it. 

[Shin]

3 minutes ago, Beeman said:

@NoSelfSelf

Correct. It think it is it. 

Yeah but there is still something else at play.

When it happens to me I'm happy to bring that kind of positive emotion in them, and also I wish them to find love too.

In your case it's annoying, you even say you hate it.

Why ?

[sgn]

I would love to have a stalker

[bejapuskas]

2 minutes ago, sgn said:

I would love to have a stalker

why?

[sgn]

2 minutes ago, bejapuskas said:

why?

I'm so alone 

[bejapuskas]

10 minutes ago, sgn said:

I'm so alone 

Probably just go to some social event where nobody knows you and try to chat up people, it is very easy to be confident when nobody knows you  

[Aeris]

13 hours ago, Michael569 said:

Seriously this has never happened to me ever , not a single time. And from what I've been told I'm relatively good looking guy. Where are you guys hiding who are all chased by mad possessed women lol. Is your dad CEO at Dell Computers or are you genuinely gifted with looks of Adonis. 

Anyways, I assume they chase you because they assume you are easy target? Perhaps you have given in too many times or they see your lack of integrity with your deeper core and are just teasing you. 

' Music moment opening '

attract

'Music moment looking for.'

Were you an opening song on a spiritual and physical level ?

 

 

Edited May 22, 2019 by Aeris

[Zigzag Idiot]

I see an added layer of complexity. Women chase men for a wider variety of reasons than men chase women. Personally, I'm ok with some of it.

[tenta]

Because you don't have 7/10+ social skills or they're chasing you in a work environment

[Emerald]

On 5/20/2019 at 9:07 AM, Beeman said:

Why I hate when women chase me and call me? 

Maybe you sense an incongruence in interest. I hate it when a guy likes me and I don't like him back, then you have to let him down gently. And then, if they don't take no for an answer, it's also uncomfortable.

So, maybe you just don't like the women who have chased you very much and don't have feelings for them.

Or, if you think it would happen with anyone, even if you did have feelings for them, it could be a sign of avoidant attachment.

Or you have a belief in your mind that "high quality women" are unattainable to you, so if one shows interest in you then you automatically go to the conclusion, "If they like me, then they must not be a "high quality woman"."

 

[sgn]

I start to look down on women who are interested in me. I have self-esteem issues so in one way I want women to show interest in me so I get some approval. But once they do I think there's something wrong with them for liking me. Like they are needy, have daddy issues, self-esteem issues etc, so I dismiss their opinion and view them as low value and I think someone I value higher who doesn't want me or is harder to get must want me. But if she would, then I'd probably look down on her too and I'm back too thinking like no one wants me. I must be liked by 1000 models than that might fix it

Edited May 27, 2019 by sgn