Where Have You Had Sex?

[Natasha Tori Maru]

Before you take someone's advice - qualify them. Do you want to live like they do? Do you perceive them as integrated, healthy, stable? Do you feel connection and relational understanding from them? Do they try to understand your meaning and experience before dispensing their solution to you?

Do you want to move through life like they do? 

If not, seriously consider if their advice is going to produce what you want . 

[Inliytened1]

28 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

@yetineti Please allow us some space and time to address this.

if this is gonna be my downfall, i'm glad it's this and not the cult thing!  At least here i had skin in the game 

[LordFall]

49 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

if this is gonna be my downfall, i'm glad it's this and not the cult thing!  At least here i had skin in the game 

Don't throw yourself under the bus before someone can even manage to do it for you.

You're giving a lot of power to random dudes that offer this forum less value than you do. 

@Oppositionless Which part of leading a cult appeals to you? If you are looking to build a powerful community with members that value your input then you should look into social circle game and event hosting.

Meditation makes you more grounded, it literally has been shown to lower the fear response from the amygdala. Most humans are like rabits they are overly anxious and flip flop in views every week. If you do a lot of introspection and meditate a lot I can see how just that alone would make a person with a deeper presence than most other humans.

If you add rallying people together towards a cause that ignites their emotions then you're well on your way to becoming the next Jim Jones. Just leave the kool-aid at home and focus on bettering the world and not just creating a cult for the sake of feeding your ego and just having control over people. 

Also if it's just to have submissive women to fuck you and the idea of building a community doesn't particularly appeal to you just get into BDSM. Plenty of women are into it and there are popular events in most major cities in the world. Fetlife is a good site to find events in your city and Reddit has many good subreddits on BDSM.

https://www.reddit.com/r/BDSMcommunity/

I used to be the manager of a coffee shop in Downtown Toronto that had a college in the same building. I talked to many girls from there and one of them spoke french like me so we bonded over that. I got her Instagram on a late afternoon when she popped by before one of her classes and we started talking and flirting over text. The next day she came over to my place after I closed down the cafe and she finished her classes. She brought a collar and a leash in her backpack to my place. Good times. 

Edited 14 minutes ago by LordFall

[Inliytened1]

13 minutes ago, LordFall said:

Don't throw yourself under the bus before someone can even manage to do it for you.

You're giving a lot of power to random dudes that offer this forum less value than you do. 

@Oppositionless Which part of leading a cult appeals to you? If you are looking to build a powerful community with members that value your input then you should look into social circle game and event hosting.

Meditation makes you more grounded, it literally has been shown to lower the fear response from the amygdala. Most humans are like rabits they are overly anxious and flip flop in views every week. If you do a lot of introspection and meditate a lot I can see how just that alone would make a person with a deeper presence than most other humans.

If you add rallying people together towards a cause that ignites their emotions then you're well on your way to becoming the next Jim Jones. Just leave the kool-aid at home and focus on bettering the world and not just creating a cult for the sake of feeding your ego and just having control over people. 

Also if it's just to have submissive women to fuck you and the idea of building a community doesn't particularly appeal to you just get into BDSM. Plenty of women are into it and there are popular events in most major cities in the world. Fetlife is a good site to find events in your city and Reddit has many good subreddits on BDSM.

https://www.reddit.com/r/BDSMcommunity/

I used to be the manager of a coffee shop in Downtown Toronto that had a college in the same building. I talked to many girls from there and one of them spoke french like me so we bonded over that. I got her Instagram on a late afternoon when she popped by before one of her classes and we started talking and flirting over text. The next day she came over to my place after I closed down the cafe and she finished her classes. She brought a collar and a leash in her backpack to my place. Good times. 

Hey I'm just a guy that likes the ladies, if you wanna throw me out for that, be my guest!

 

[LordFall]

@Inliytened1 Have you ever tried BDSM? Perhaps you'd like it since you're a more dominant guy. A lot of women crave a dominant guy that they can also trust. It's actually part of the reason we have a dating crisis, there are more submissive women then there are dominant men. Most men are not dominant, only 40% apparently where as 60% of women report being submissive. A lot of men have trouble taking charge in and out of the bedroom even when a woman asks him to.

The sex statistician Aella did a massive survey on dominance prefence across tens of thousands of people and this gap in women's submissiveness and men's dominance came out. She talks about it here on her appearance on the lex friedman podcast at the 2h50 min mark.

It's also why I think in the future polyamory will be even more mainstream because I think a lot of men don't want to compete in the dating marketplace and AI girlfriends will become a superior enough enhancement to porn that they will drop out of the dating market altogether. One man with multiple women will become one of the normal relationship formats in society. 

 

Edited 5 minutes ago by LordFall

[Ulax]

@Inliytened1 Their intensity of criticism would be appropriate if you'd like literally posted a dick pic on the forum lol.