Where Have You Had Sex?

[yetineti]

@Joseph Maynor

You didn't make sense to me until maybe the past year or two. Your responses always seemed so outside and observed, so to speak, but I really, really enjoy your responses now.

Thank you for all your input. 

You are indeed a classy man. 

[Joseph Maynor]

Just now, yetineti said:

@Joseph Maynor

You didn't make sense to me until maybe the past year or two. Your responses always seemed so outside and observed, so to speak, but I really, really enjoy your responses now.

Thank you for all your input. 

You are indeed a classy man. 

I'm trying.  I'm working on relationship.  Thank you.  I'm not an expert in this area at all.  

[LordFall]

6 minutes ago, Rishabh R said:

@LordFall Achievement part . I mean it lead me tona lot of dark places when I understood getting a girlfriend as achievement . When I stopped treating it such my neediness dropped and I realized that I can't control weather someone will like me or not.O can only put myself out there and that's all .

Got it. I think that comes from the self-esteem aspect. You should always love yourself unconditionally no matter if you're currently reaching your goals or not. Basically the motto should be "I'm awesome only getting more awesome each day."

So you can think of finding a girlfriend as an important goal of yours without tying it to your sense of self-worth.

You then link it to an actionable system that you work on weekly and like I said I believe that in the next 6 months if you take consistent action you can find an awesome girlfriend to share your life with and build an awesome life purpose together. 

Being delusional and avoiding markers of success like dating success or business success it not that helpful in my view, if you want to have impact on your own life and be able to influence others positively you need to assess yourself accurately.

To me it's like a video game, if you have low skills it's not a big deal you just find out how to level up the skills and work on it each day.

I'm actually not a great businessman even though I've been hammering at my business for a while. It's not a big deal, each day I refine my life purpose and work on my goals and my results seem to be getting better each month that passes so I'm very excited for what the future holds! 

Edited 54 minutes ago by LordFall

[Rishabh R]

Just now, Joseph Maynor said:

I'm not an expert in this area at all. 

But you can be with time and effort .

[Rishabh R]

2 minutes ago, LordFall said:

Got it. I think that comes from the self-esteem aspect. You should always love yourself unconditionally no matter if you're currently reaching your goals or not.

This in the form of self-compassion is important. As per self- worth keeping it detached from self-worth is indeed the cornerstone of healthy dating .

Edited 53 minutes ago by Rishabh R

[Joseph Maynor]

2 minutes ago, Rishabh R said:

But you can be with time and effort .

Maybe I have.  

[yetineti]

3 minutes ago, LordFall said:

So you can think of finding a girlfriend as an important goal of yours without tying it to your sense of self-worth. You then link it to an actionable system that you work on weekly and like I said I believe that in 6 months if you take consistent action you can find an awesome girlfriend to share your life with and build an awesome life purpose together. 

Did this work for you, or are you just giving more unsolicited advice? Are you in a relationship? 

[Rishabh R]

@Joseph Maynor Congratulations in advance for you.

[Joseph Maynor]

Just now, Rishabh R said:

@Joseph Maynor Congratulations in advance for you.

Oh yeah?  Who are you?  

[Rishabh R]

@Joseph Maynor Rishabh . You follow me as a connection on this forum. 

[Asayake]

29 minutes ago, Ulax said:

@Leo Gura Inlightened passed the line then apologised. But yeti has been baiting and insulting him for about the past 10 pages. 

Bro "inlightened" can't even answer a simple question, did you read the entire thread?

[Joseph Maynor]

1 minute ago, Rishabh R said:

@Joseph Maynor Rishabh . You follow me as a connection on this forum. 

That is flimsy.  If I haven't talked to someone usually I don't know who I'm talking to.  

[Joseph Maynor]

You guys don't know anything about dating lol.  

[Ulax]

6 minutes ago, Asayake said:

Bro "inlightened" can't even answer a simple question, did you read the entire thread?

Glad you're impressed by my reading abilities 

[yetineti]

I’m going to leave this here. I stand by my main concern, but the personal attacks and amount I’ve posted haven’t helped. I got too caught up responding to everything.

Leo said he’ll review the thread, so I’ll let him do that. I already contributed the best sex story here. My work is done.

 

[Asayake]

12 minutes ago, Ulax said:

Glad you're impressed by my reading abilities 

It was actually not meant to be a tease about your misspelling lol, I just also didn't remember how his name is spelled so I used your spelling

[Asayake]

4 minutes ago, yetineti said:

I’m going to leave this here. I stand by my main concern, but the personal attacks and amount I’ve posted haven’t helped. I got too caught up responding to everything.

Leo said he’ll review the thread, so I’ll let him do that. I already contributed the best sex story here. My work is done.

 

I enjoyed your posts so it wasnt all in vain, sobering voice in here

[Sugarcoat]

You must have some kind of sleezeball-wiring, that’s why you can’t get over this, I don’t see another plausible explanation at this point. I’m sorry but even your profile pic, you look like one too, like that smile….😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[Yimpa]

@Sugarcoat Mine is me looking down on everyone, with a twinkle on my face 

[Leo Gura]

@yetineti Please allow us some space and time to address this.