I'm done pursuing women

[AION]

When you need water , the right thing to do is not ignore your thirst because it will make things only worse. Getting a good job and such won’t get you a girl either. You just need somebody to show you where the water is. Because you have a lot of false beliefs about it. 

[Zenterus]

Brother, what you're experiencing is a result of you being attached to the outcome rather than the process.

Let's talk facts:

If you interacted with a 100 attractive women in a direct, flirtatious manner, at the very least a couple of them would reciprocate.

That is a fact.

So you can find love in the process of going out there and sifting through to find those girls or you can get attached to little crushes and get crushed.

And believe me, brother, there is a deep love that you can find for the number's game of dating. Im a veteran in this shit so I am indifferent to it now, but I can remember how I felt about it back in the day..

There's a beauty in going out there, interacting with various women, expressing yourself to them, connecting with them, handling lack of compatibility, the texting, the lessons, the grit that the process puts you through at times, etc.

I used to have a deep love for that shit and if you trust the process and believe in your ability to get amazing results at the end of it all, then it might spark a love for it in you too.

Good luck out there.

 

[Jirh]

Let alone women.

I'm done with humanity.

Can't connect with anyone.

I'm just lonely wherever I go.

[Olaf]

@Meeksauce When I was around 20 or so, I used to feel the same way as you. I was angry at women instead of working on myself. I thought I was doing everything right, I thought that it was the woman's problem. Looking back on it, I was a bit immature. It was easy to feel like a victim instead of taking accountability. It was easy to feel hurt and pain, instead of gaining confidence over time.

When you start to understand what works, which is to gain confidence. You start to see that I can either bitch about why woman are not choosing me OR I can actually do something about it and start approaching woman. Also delayed gratification is important, like you might have to work on your confidence for a few years, depending on how bad it is right now.

Being angry at woman only helps you to get more angry at woman, it won´t help you get to have good connections with woman. This desperation for woman to acknowledge you will all go away, it is just a question of when you will start to do the actual work. Which is to approach, talk to many woman, learn how to attract woman and not be focused on one single crush, there are much better woman out there then just your crush, trust me. 

[Schizophonia]

Cosmetic surgery if you're unattractive .

[Majed]

@Meeksauce Dude you shouldn't wait months on end to talk to a woman. That's improper game. Talk to her immediately.