I'm done pursuing women

[AION]

When you need water , the right thing to do is not ignore your thirst because it will make things only worse. Getting a good job and such won’t get you a girl either. You just need somebody to show you where the water is. Because you have a lot of false beliefs about it. 

[Zenterus]

Brother, what you're experiencing is a result of you being attached to the outcome rather than the process.

Let's talk facts:

If you interacted with a 100 attractive women in a direct, flirtatious manner, at the very least a couple of them would reciprocate.

That is a fact.

So you can find love in the process of going out there and sifting through to find those girls or you can get attached to little crushes and get crushed.

And believe me, brother, there is a deep love that you can find for the number's game of dating. Im a veteran in this shit so I am indifferent to it now, but I can remember how I felt about it back in the day..

There's a beauty in going out there, interacting with various women, expressing yourself to them, connecting with them, handling lack of compatibility, the texting, the lessons, the grit that the process puts you through at times, etc.

I used to have a deep love for that shit and if you trust the process and believe in your ability to get amazing results at the end of it all, then it might spark a love for it in you too.

Good luck out there.