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[Alexop]

@Lila9 

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Again, matriarchy doesn’t mean women are at the top exploiting men (something men often fear, because they know this is exactly what patriarchy does to women hahaha), but rather a society that is centered around care.

You are modifying the meanings of concepts just to fit your arguments. That is literally the meaning of matriarchy: "women on top".

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Seeing another human as merely an object is not a natural condition; it is a learned behavior, shaped by culture and environment.

No, mens biology tends to heavily objectify anything. You say that feminism does not push for erasing the biological differences but then you yourself argue for it.

I tell you a story. My sister used to dress her dolls and say stuff like:"she is tired today, i will put her to bed". Then I come and take her doll and rip it apart just to understand how it was built. She started crying telling mom that i killed her doll.

 

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I would love to hear some examples of privileges women enjoy that men don't in society. Maybe I am not aware of something.

Maybe some of these ones: women have such an abundance of choice in the dating market due to social media and dating apps that most men feel invisible even if they are above average in looks and other traits. Women have now overwhelmingly the upper hand in the dating market. Women can more easily make friends. Women can use their beauty to get all sorts of kudos nowadays. Sometimes when I am dating I feels like an unemployed worker with a weak CV in front of a turbo-capitalist employer. I have to walk on egg shells in order not to be opted out, because I have such low leverage. She basically can tell whatever the fuck she wants but if I say something that upsets her I am out. Because she has 10 more men waiting in line. 

And this is for @Leo Gura give me a break with doing pickup in the clubs. I dont like those girls. They are ugly as fuck on the inside and outside. I am looking for a relationsip with a mature woman not just sex with a kid. I had enough sex. And cold approach in the city is not as easy as it seems, there are very few attractive women walking around. Maybe only of you cold approach in NY or something like that but I dont like living in such oversized shitholes. And I don't like building social circles either. I don't like to eat 1 ton of social shit from immature idiots just so that maybe they will introduce me one day to a cute girl. Dating is hard for men today!

There are plenty of privileges men have but those are getting fewer and fewer due to the raise of feminism which puts the feminine perspective above the masculine.

 

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I agree. Men are often governed by conformity to other men, their ego and lust which distorts their perception of reality and truth.

What? In the same way I can say this about women: Women are governed by conformity and feelings. Feelings are corrupting their perception of truth. Lol

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 The fact that many men view being a good man as being like a woman shows how deeply they perceive toxic masculinity as the real or only form of masculinity.

No, most feminists do not understand masculinity and therefore the masculine perspective. You might want to make men better but the results can be the opposite. Because again, men are not women. Men develop through challenges and accountability not just feel this feel that. I see moms raising their boys through the feminine lens leading them into a failed life. They become unattractive, shy, unmotivated nerdy whimps not the gentle and mature men you wish for. Careful what you wish.

 

The problems you radical feminists are pointing to are mostly because we have too much toxic masculinity not masculinity. But you dont understand healthy masculinity. You mistake healthy masculinity for femininity. This is a crucial distinction you have to learn. Until then, all your actions will lead to more misogyny, shitty relationships, immature boysh men, hatred towards the opposite sex, mental illness, loneliness. Good luck 🤞.

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[Natasha Tori Maru]

You are more likely to see your young male date return home and suicide than you are to be murdered by him (as a woman). While intimate partner violence is a major issue (and many men are abused and it is chronically underreported), suicide is the leading cause of death for young men 😢

[Alex M]

Following on from Leo's posts about Waco. This is a good podcast about it if anyone is interested. https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/brand/p06qc33m a good study on cults and the inner workings. A lot of people that died there were actually from the UK