EternalForest

There's nothing more I want in the world than a genuine female friend, believe me. It may be hard to believe based on our argument here but its true. I love my male friends with all my heart, but I'd do anything just to have a girl I could hang out with, go to the coffee shop, listen to music... It's something I've never experienced. As for your question about gender dynamics, talk to older women about it, as I have. They'll explain it in better detail than I could. If you give me more time I could explain it all myself, but they actually lived through the 20th cenutry. Regarding the world leaders, it's honestly a lifestyle choice for me. I choose to see the good in people and learn from them so I can be successful one day too. And I'll do it without "shitting on people" "sending people to wars" "playing with people's lives" or "blaming everything on women".

I didn't expect you to agree, but thanks for understanding. I could have worded what I said with more nuance. This topic brings out the worst in me, so I wasn't trying to be brash. I was only being honest about my feelings.

A drug dealer on the street has a better chance of getting laid than an awkward gym rat. So I don't buy the whole "work on yourself to get laid" thing, sorry.

1. I have no in-person relationships with women. 2. They exist because of the current gender dynamics. For them to not exist, society would have to go back to the gender dynamics that actually worked in the past. 3. Everyone in power is corrupt to some degree. I prefer to focus on our leaders' good qualities.

Actually, I've been told by most of the girls I've been in long distance/online relationships with and the many in-person male friends in my life that I'm very emotionally sensitive for a man. I'm very emotional and on top of that I'm an INFP or INTP. In theory, I should get along better with women (if they are supposed to be more emotionally advanced) but in practice I do not. Regarding the incel and red pill, you should ask yourself why those exist instead of framing everyone who even uses "rhetoric" adjacent to them. Leo himself says in several of his videos that these movements, including MGTOW make a lot of good points that get drowned out by the actions of a few terrible men who use the same ideological label. Men in power are irrelavent to me. I don't benefit from any of their profits or social status. Just because Queen Elizabeth was one of the most powerful women in the world doesn't mean that 90% of women weren't oppressed during her time in power.

Thank you, and thanks for understanding. A lot of men's problems are self-created but a lot of them are also circumstantial out of our control and we're socially stigmatized from speaking out, the same way women are for certain things... So empathy from women like you honestly means the world.

Are you serious? If anything, you see ME as a machine if you think jacking off alone will make me happy. What the fuck? Jacking off is a dopamine hit at best, it doesn't truly satisfy the soul. I mean, masturbation isn't even in the same CATEGORY as intimate sex with someone who loves you. And are you really pulling the "natural selection" card and saying some men are meant to die virgins? I've never had sex at all, let alone with someone who loves me, and for that I feel like I'm missing out on something huge. I could masturbate everyday for the rest of my life and it still won't fill the void. So what I truly want isn't sex, it's a deep, fulfilling relationship. You're wrong about me, Lila.

I don't think you understand that sex and intimacy is a basic human need and millions of men are being denied that because of hypergamy. It's you who is being insulting to the male gender. And btw, not saying he's a saint, but Elon Musk has done more for the world than the average woman ever will. No need to stigmatize men who look up to the literal richest man in the world.

You'd like this song:

Women can smell my fear within microseconds? No wonder I suck at pickup! Maybe I can find a woman who is attracted to fear! 😂

I've got pretty high testosterone and I'm still terrified of women lol. It's not logical.

I don't think the apps have changed much since the 2010s. In the 90s and 2000s however, I think there was more of a purity with dating sites. Sure, most people saw it as unusual but the people on there were genuinely trying to find someone. Now that everyone is on there, and since most aren't serious, it dillutes the dating pool. And like you said, since the sites are so popular and profit driven these days, they charge you to see every little message and like.

Well I can already tell you this is false because my friend works at a grocery store and gets girls all the time. Because they like him. Not his money, him. And a lot of those girls also work at the grocery store, or fairly close by...

Not at all.

Also, I have plenty of creative and positive outlets. I spend most of my days hanging out with friends, making music, going on walks and enjoying life. But I have rejoined dating apps this week. We'll see what happens.