Posted February 22, 2022 5 minutes ago, knakoo said: Consider the possibility that you are projecting here I didn't say this earlier but I always thought he confused people on purpose so people would take coaching with him but I thought: I'm probably projecting and I didn't share it. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 22, 2022 25 minutes ago, knakoo said: Consider the possibility that you are projecting here I mean you can literally accuse any comment of being a projection. There is no failure, only feedback One small step at a time. No one climbs a mountain in one go. Highly-attractive Stage Coral man. The best to ever do it. 73-0🥊. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 22, 2022 Was he really trying to help, or was he more just advertising that he was at peace? I think its important to meet people at the spiral dynamics stage they appear to be at. Wtf is stage turquoise talk going to do for someone dealing with a (i.e.) stage blue issue, or person who is mostly stage blue, generally speaking. There is no failure, only feedback One small step at a time. No one climbs a mountain in one go. Highly-attractive Stage Coral man. The best to ever do it. 73-0🥊. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 22, 2022 28 minutes ago, knakoo said: Consider the possibility that you are projecting here 4 hours ago, Inliytened1 said: @Crane Bahnsteik 5 hours ago, Tim R said: Yeah yeah, hard ruthless judgement. sorry nahm. but so many times I have seen it so clear, so obvious... a total scam and nobody realizes it. I have had close experiences with narcissists and I think I know how to spot it. it's a subtle thing. It's when the guy speaks and everything he says revolves around him, he can't get out of there, he's trapped and doesn't realize it, then his speech gets poorer and ends in a series of repeated mantras that can be translated into: I'm smart and you're dumb, since you have to be dumb for it to show how smart I am. and there is no analysis of reality, just me me me... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 22, 2022 @lxlichael Well said, I agree in general There is no failure, only feedback One small step at a time. No one climbs a mountain in one go. Highly-attractive Stage Coral man. The best to ever do it. 73-0🥊. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 22, 2022 5 hours ago, Tim R said: I'm not illegitimizing anyone's criticism of Nahm. But some posts give the impression that people think this thread is an opportunity to talk badly about Nahm behind his back, that's all I wanted to adress. I wanted to hold my tongue today, but I can't, it's fucking insufferable. I am extremely disheartened by some of the comments and negativity I've seen in this thread. To see this kind of treatment towards one of the largest, most positive cornerstones of this community is about as surprising as it is disappointing. I guess the meat brings out the wolves though. Perhaps my expectations of this place are too high. hrhrhtewgfegege Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 22, 2022 @Roy I get you don't like this thread. However, a lot of people probably felt unsafe criticising him before, and now it is safe to do so. Hence, I reckon people feel more able to express their honest opinions regarding his conduct now. There is no failure, only feedback One small step at a time. No one climbs a mountain in one go. Highly-attractive Stage Coral man. The best to ever do it. 73-0🥊. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 22, 2022 I totally regret what I said, not because I don't think so, but because I should have said it to Nham's face, or kept quiet. I feel like a total idiot and a coward. apologies to all and nahm. I've had this in mind for a long time and I couldn't shut up. Mistake Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 22, 2022 Why did i check on the forum. I knew it was getting worse day by day. Nahm is the goat here. The forum's collective ego shit makes me sick. You can't just eliminate anything that disagrees with you Leo. How can you know that you are not self deceived on at least some things? I personally loved nahm's communication style and it helped me multiple times. And I'm out again. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 22, 2022 2 minutes ago, Breakingthewall said: I totally regret what I said, not because I don't think so, but because I should have said it to Nham's face, or kept quiet. I feel like a total idiot and a coward. apologies to all and nahm. I've had this in mind for a long time and I couldn't shut up. Mistake Said what ? Wisdom. Truth. Love. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 22, 2022 (edited) 6 minutes ago, Breakingthewall said: I totally regret what I said, not because I don't think so, but because I should have said it to Nham's face, or kept quiet. I feel like a total idiot and a coward. apologies to all and nahm. I've had this in mind for a long time and I couldn't shut up. Mistake Its a bit of a tense atmosphere on this thread I get that. But it seemed alright to me what you said mate. Edited February 22, 2022 by Ulax spelling There is no failure, only feedback One small step at a time. No one climbs a mountain in one go. Highly-attractive Stage Coral man. The best to ever do it. 73-0🥊. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 22, 2022 24 minutes ago, Roy said: I wanted to hold my tongue today, but I can't, it's fucking insufferable. I am extremely disheartened by some of the comments and negativity I've seen in this thread. To see this kind of treatment towards one of the largest, most positive cornerstones of this community is about as surprising as it is disappointing. I guess the meat brings out the wolves though. Perhaps my expectations of this place are too high. but there were also many positive comments Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 22, 2022 16 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said: Said what ? Talk negative in public about anyone who isn't here to answer. Ashaming, was time before to try to say in the face. I hope nham keep posting as he love this site Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 22, 2022 33 minutes ago, Roy said: I wanted to hold my tongue today, but I can't, it's fucking insufferable. I am extremely disheartened by some of the comments and negativity I've seen in this thread. To see this kind of treatment towards one of the largest, most positive cornerstones of this community is about as surprising as it is disappointing. I guess the meat brings out the wolves though. Perhaps my expectations of this place are too high. I agree, I'm very shocked ? I have another comment from my earlier one. Which is that being a mod, a good mod, isn't easy. Before I stepped down, my time as a mod was spent scanning threads in my free time for spammers/scammers/trouble makers/etc, answering PM's with members having issues, members reporting other members, looking into I.T. issues, checking IP addresses for multiple accounts, etc. and its all volunteer work. I think Nahm deserves more credit then he's getting in this thread. Perhaps his style is not what Leo or some other members resonate with, but he did alot of good on this forum, damn it! “You don’t have problems; you are the problem.” – Swami Chinmayananda Namaste ? ? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 22, 2022 2 minutes ago, Breakingthewall said: Talk negative in public about anyone who isn't here to answer. Ashaming, was time before to try to say in the face. I hope nham keep posting as he love this site It was a long time coming. We all felt it. He is a great mind but he is not in alignment with our highest teachings. That's just the way it is. Don't feel guilt for an intuition that was accurate Wisdom. Truth. Love. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 22, 2022 I'm sure Nahm will see this and respond in some form. I've told him in pms i think hes dishonest and was a terrible teacher, and I would stand by it if he posted here Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 22, 2022 2 minutes ago, Raptorsin7 said: I'm sure Nahm will see this and respond in some form. I've told him in pms i think hes dishonest and was a terrible teacher, and I would stand by it if he posted here That goes too far and is disrespectful. Wisdom. Truth. Love. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 22, 2022 9 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said: That goes too far and is disrespectful. I don't respect nahm, but okay I'll check these kinds of comments Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 22, 2022 Just now, Raptorsin7 said: I don't respect nahm, but okay I'll check these kinds of comments Thank you. Wisdom. Truth. Love. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 22, 2022 Actually i remember now that he gave me a lot of good insight and advice when it came to practical things, it's just when he's commenting on topics that are "i have a life problem" that he's terrible. There has to be some kind of middle ground here, he's still productive with some topics. How is this post just me acting out my ego in the usual ways? Is this post just me venting and justifying my selfishness? Are the things you are posting in alignment with principles of higher consciousness and higher stages of ego development? Are you acting in a mature or immature way? Are you being selfish or selfless in your communication? Are you acting like a monkey or like a God-like being? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
