Leo Gura

Looking For New Mods Who Will Help People With Serious Emotional Issues

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@Zeroguy You're just rambling. None of this is true, it's just your distorted perspective. 

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27 minutes ago, Zeroguy said:

There is also big question of intrinsic egoic motivation of people who want to provide help.Why themselves are willing to lose themselves in such dream?

Those who are lost in their emotional shit=all pure ego are not ones really capable of love at all.All they want is their self interest to be fulfilled.How much you can beleive in anything they say because for them reality is real and are the ones who are giving full validity to realness of all this.

I myself payed on my skin full price of that shit.

I refuse to be nanny for that.

You are so awesome ,no you are liars deceivers and everything else.

Wow,

You're so fucking selfish ???


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10 hours ago, modmyth said:

There is this notion that many, many people who become mental health care givers/ therapists do so because they had problems, some of them very serious. I've known a handful of people who studied psychology and did/ wanted to become therapists and counsellors too, and this is something that we talked about.

You've gotta ask where the motivation to help people comes from, as well as the ability to actually identify well with "troubled people" very well.

Yeah this makes a lot of sense. I have an interest in psychology and I have a cousin with mental health issues who's on track to be a teacher/counsellor in the future. 

I know i was always interested in psychology growing up and I am pretty crazy

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I sent you a PM on April 30 offering to moderate, noting the imbalance of male mods around here and received no response. Soonhei's situation had nothing to do with you and a sharp person would not have spotted an issue because of the nature of his posts. After seeing how the one mod who goes above and beyond day in day out helping with issues on this forum who was actively helping in this case was thrown under the bus I can't imagine applying to take on this level of responsibility after that. How about we start to value emotions and helping people as a whole in this community? Otherwise you're just going to end up with burnt out, unappreciated people. 


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11 minutes ago, mandyjw said:

How about we start to value emotions and helping people as a whole in this community? Otherwise you're just going to end up with burnt out, unappreciated people. 

This community is mind orientated,  intp. It will take a lot for a thinker to integrate their feeling side.  Thinkers like @Forestluv and jung are exceptional people (true turquoise).

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11 minutes ago, mandyjw said:

I sent you a PM on April 30 offering to moderate, noting the imbalance of male mods around here and received no response. Soonhei's situation had nothing to do with you and a sharp person would not have spotted an issue because of the nature of his posts. After seeing how the one mod who goes above and beyond day in day out helping with issues on this forum who was actively helping in this case was thrown under the bus I can't imagine applying to take on this level of responsibility after that. How about we start to value emotions and helping people as a whole in this community? Otherwise you're just going to end up with burnt out, unappreciated people. 

Probably the most important things this forum needs to adress.

A part of the forum dedicated to emotions/shadow work and self love is needed.


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1 minute ago, Shin said:

Probably the most important things this forum needs to adress.

A part of the forum dedicated to emotions/shadow work and self love is needed.

That would be amazing. One of the most life changing things I've learned while participating on this forum is how to go inward and express emotions BEFORE it starts turning into more than just a sad feeling or an annoyance. Not knowing how to do that is like giving someone anesthesia only after the surgery has begun. It needs to be taught, modeled, and encouraged and then you just don't end up in crisis or in a prolonged depression. That's when it's the most difficult to reach anyone, they just can't hear you or hear any reasonable advice when it gets that bad.

Also maybe we can generally start to appreciate people more instead of calling them devils, fools, and doing damage control 24/7. :S That type of atmosphere breeds more issues in my opinion. 

 


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3 minutes ago, mandyjw said:

Also maybe we can generally start to appreciate people more instead of calling them devils, fools, and doing damage control 24/7. :S That type of atmosphere breeds more issues in my opinion. 

 

Yes that too xD

We can only suggest though, only Leo has the power to truly shift where the forum is headed :3

*wink wink*

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29 minutes ago, Shin said:

A part of the forum dedicated to emotions/shadow work and self love is needed.

12 minutes ago, mandyjw said:

 

Also maybe we can generally start to appreciate people more instead of calling them devils, fools, and doing damage control 24/7. :S That type of atmosphere breeds more issues in my opinion. 

I REALLY love this idea. Sometimes the best way to handle a situation isn't to go out find a bunch of techniques and gain success in changing yourself so you aren't a devil or fool anymore, but it's to find a place of acceptance, self love, gentleness, and forgiveness within yourself. I think the later needs to be emphasized more here. I feel that this would also help balance things out by encouraging more I guess feminine forms of self help since the energy in this forum tends to skew pretty heavily masculine. 


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Yeah.  A sub forum to give space for the feminine.  A cross between the journaling section and serious emotional issues.  To not push the feminine too far out into her her little private space in the journaling section. We want to draw 'her' out.  But not to pathologize her expression as the serious emotional issues sub forum can. 

In terms of the subforum's themes: Healing paths, self love, the feminine,  feminine compassion, shadow work,  emotional expression, integration work, energy work, gratitude.

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I agree. This forum has definitely lost its way over the past year or so and become very ‘culty’

It’s a shame. It definitely needs more empathy, more open mindedness, more.... I suppose groundedness.

Hope that makes sense and hope we can all make effort to improve ourselves to bring about this environment 

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8 minutes ago, Proserpina said:

To not push the feminine too far out into her her little private space in the journaling section. We want to draw 'her' out.  But not to pathologize her expression as the serious emotional issues sub forum can. 

I have felt this. Like if I said something emotional, then people will call me crazy or lunatic. They have already done this. 

To insult someone in front of the whole forum. 

That caused me to feel like an outcast.

 

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I’m in agreement for the femininity sub forum.  I feel like this forum is just a reflection of the world - too much masculine not enough feminine.  

but I suppose @Leo Gura needs to decide which direction he wants the forum to head in.  Maybe he prefers that there is more of a masculine vibe here. 

We need to make space for more love here.  Love is the only way... ?

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9 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

I have felt this. Like if I said something emotional, then people will call me crazy or lunatic. They have already done this. 

To insult someone in front of the whole forum. 

That caused me to feel like an outcast.

Yes and even if love is mentioned in the dating section you will be attacked for it ??‍♀️ 
the more I think about it this forum can be very toxic, and makes me want to leave.

 It’s like a love hate relationship lol. 


 

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26 minutes ago, Thunder Kiss said:

For actualized teachings to be so geared towards Love, Self Love, Selflessness etc in the videos, you see very little of that here in my opinion. 

This is the irony of this forum xD


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7 minutes ago, intotheblack said:

the more I think about it this forum can be very toxic, and makes me want to leave.

Oh God so true. I felt like leaving the forum so many times. The toxic nature. Being ruthlessly attacked. 

Also what annoys me the most is constantly being taken out of context and being made to look like a bad person. Even when knowing that the person has good intentions. Like vilification.

Most of this vilification happens from the male side.

 


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I'm genuinely surprised there isn't already a sub forum giving space to the feminine.  For a forum that prioritizes consciousness.

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Spirituality is not the renunciation of life

It is the art of living fully

 

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22 minutes ago, Shin said:

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Concepts needs embodiment. Emotions energize thoughts. Love is the highest teaching. 

Let's release the Goddess and give her the place she deserves! :D


Association with the wise is the root cause for obliterating all misery. -  Tripura Rahasya

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