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2 minutes ago, Khr said:

That is not a mysoginistic gender based term that women have been fighting against for ages. Everyone can be an idiot.

But you don't have the right to judge if you get outraged by others judgement 


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It is a myth that girls at the club are "sluts". They are no more sluts than any other girl. All girls will have sex when emotionally stimulated in the right ways. Stop thinking you're special or above that.


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1 hour ago, soos_mite_ah said:

Like what @Preety_India said, this is about standards not whether or not a woman is ok with a casual relationship. I watched this video and I would say it's over all really good advice for men. As someone with standards, while I'm not looking for a casual relationship at the moment, if I were to be seeking something casual, I would want a guy to be up front with me on his intentions. I wouldn't want him to be manipulative and dishonest with me, promise me something he has no intentions with following up on, and then leave me as soon as he is done fucking me. If you want to have a casual relationship with a woman, being up front will help you a lot because honesty will build trust and even in casual situation, a woman needs a certain degree of trust to want to have sex. 

There is nothing wrong with women who want a casual relationship or want to sleep around. But even those women, if they are quality women who have standards (or hell a woman with common sense and a desire for personal safety), aren't going to put up with creepy behavior which include but not limited to feeling pressurized or manipulated by men into something they aren't comfortable with. I know they say don't stick your dick into crazy and honestly that applies for women as well. Don't let crazy stick their dick in you. If you're going to do pick up, make sure it is a higher quality of pick up that doesn't disrespect women and their agenda and most importantly their boundaries. 

Yeah, I totally agree. That's why I've always followed the authentic honest ways of seducing women.

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3 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

It is a myth that girls at the club are "sluts". They are no more sluts than any other girl. All girls will have sex when emotionally stimulated in the right ways. Stop thinking you're special or above that.

Well I learned that word from you. 

 

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3 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

It is a myth that girls at the club are "sluts". They are no more sluts than any other girl. All girls will have sex when emotionally stimulated in the right ways. Stop thinking you're special or above that.

That's true. In fact, there are more girls than you would realize who have had casual sex before.

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13 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

But you don't have the right to judge if you get outraged by others judgement 

I have a fucking right to judge when someone is being toxic, lmao. Get off your high horse. Calling other women sluts says more about you and how insecure you are to have to put down others to feel good about yourself and what a “high quality” woman you are.

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51 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

To each his own. Everyone has different perspectives and preferences. 

I don't have internalized misogyny so don't put that to me. 

I was talking about standards and boundaries. 

And different people look at the same aspect differently. 

I'm just pointing out that you're passing judgment towards women by making these hard and fast categories. And I'm telling you that this is unhealthy because these judgments can create internalized misogyny. This is because those judgments will come back on you... as a judgment outward always becomes a judgment inward. 

It's not about having a preference for abstaining from sex for a certain length of time. That's perfectly fine and healthy if it is an expression of what feels right to you.

The problem comes from you categorizing women into this worthy vs unworthy binary based on their sexual behavior... which is a symptom of internalized misogyny. And I say that with no judgment towards you. I'm just pointing something out.

And I feel like you're bringing up the fact that everyone has different perspectives and preferences to avoid owning up to the problems inherent in your perspective and what it reflects in regards to your feelings about women.

So, while you are entitled to your perspective, that doesn't mean that your perspective is healthy.

Mind you, I never said you weren't allowed to have your own perspective. I just pointed out that there are some things that are fundamentally not good for your self-esteem about your perspective. 

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6 minutes ago, Emerald said:

The problem comes from you categorizing women into this worthy vs unworthy binary based on their sexual behavior... which is a symptom of internalized misogyny.

Oh now come on, I should not have a perspective on sexual behaviors. That's like unhealthy to me tbh. 

 


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15 minutes ago, Khr said:

I have a fucking right to judge when someone is being toxic, lmao. Get off your high horse. Calling other women sluts says more about you and how insecure you are to have to put down others to feel good about yourself and what a “high quality” woman you are.

Everyone has their definition of what that word means. And you can't decide what someone thinks. 

 


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7 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

Oh now come on, I should not have a perspective on sexual behaviors. That's like unhealthy to me tbh. 

It isn't about the behavior. You can believe that hooking up is unhealthy in the same way that you can believe that eating a certain type of food is unhealthy.

But the issue I'm pointing out, is about the people attached to the behavior whom you're judging the worth of.

There is a difference between the two. You can believe that promiscuity is unhealthy without diminishing the value of those who are promiscuous and creating these binary categories of female worth.

You can also understand that your belief in the unhealthiness of hooking up doesn't actually reflect a universal truth... and that women who hook-up might be simply subscribing to a different value system.

 

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5 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

Everyone has their definition of what that word means. And you can't decide what someone thinks. 

 

Stop the gaslighting and own up to your mistakes. I mentioned the formal definition of a slut (aka a prostitute) as someone who has sex for work. You obviously used it in a derogatory way. 

 

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1 minute ago, Khr said:

Stop the gaslighting and own up to your mistakes. I mentioned the formal definition of a slut (aka a prostitute) as someone who has sex for work. You obviously used it in a derogatory way. 

Actually the word slut, as a derogatory term, refers to a woman who enjoys sex and has a lot of sex with many partners.

The derogatory term whore is the word that refers to prostitutes. 

Basically, the idea is that sluts do it for the enjoyment, whores do it for the money. 


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5 minutes ago, Khr said:

Stop the gaslighting and own up to your mistakes. I mentioned the formal definition of a slut (aka a prostitute) as someone who has sex for work. You obviously used it in a derogatory way. 

 

No that's not what it means. It can mean a lot of things.

It can mean promiscuous sexual behavior.

Stop preaching me and teaching me. 

There is absolutely no mistake in what I said. 

Most people are aware of what that word generally applies to. 


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1 minute ago, Emerald said:

Actually the word slut, as a derogatory term, refers to a woman who enjoys sex and has a lot of sex with many partners.

The derogatory term whore is the word that refers to prostitutes. 

Basically, the idea is that sluts do it for the enjoyment, whores do it for the money. 

Yes, thank you for clarification. In any case, my point was that no one should label a woman as a slut because it is very toxic - both internally and externally.

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Just now, Khr said:

Yes, thank you for clarification. In any case, my point was that no one should label a woman as a slut because it is very toxic - both internally and externally.

Agreed :)

 


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5 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

No that's not what it means. It can mean a lot of things.

It can mean promiscuous sexual behavior.

Stop preaching me and teaching me. 

There is absolutely no mistake in what I said. 

Most people are aware of what that word generally applies to. 

So what does promiscuous sexual behaviour mean, oh the wise? Is slut someone who has 2 men? 5 men? You know that some people may call you a slut because you had sex and are not married. Do you want to go down that road? Can I call you a slut then from now on?

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Just now, Khr said:

So what does promiscuous sexual behaviour mean, oh the wise? Is slut someone who has 2 men? 5 men? You know that some people may call you a slut because you had sex and are not married. Do you want to go down that road?

It means different things to different people. 

Omg that's an ambiguous term. 

 


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1 minute ago, Preety_India said:

It means different things to different people. 

Omg that's an ambiguous term. 

 

Yes, of course. Because when you are being toxic it’s just “omggggg.... it’s not a big deallll”, but you are so quick to jump down other people’s throats.

Owning up to ones mistakes is maturity.

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10 minutes ago, Khr said:

Yes, of course. Because when you are being toxic it’s just “omggggg.... it’s not a big deallll”, but you are so quick to jump down other people’s throats.

Owning up to ones mistakes is maturity.

No its you who thinks something is toxic. Having a definition on a term is not toxic just because you want to sit on your high horse and judge me as a bad. You're nobody to say that it's a mistake. 

There is no mistake and there is no immaturity.

Stop acting like you have the right to preach others on how they should think. 

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10 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

No its you who thinks something is toxic. Have a definition on a term is not toxic just because you want to sit on your high horse and judge me as a bad. You're nobody to say that it's a mistake. 

There is no mistake and there is no immaturity.

Stop acting like you have the right to preach others on how they should think. 

I am not a nobody. You don’t even have basic respect towards people. The reason why I even engaged in this argument is because it is a fact that it is toxic to call someone a slut and I will always call it out - no matter how you try to spin it to protect your wounded ego right now. I won’t waste time on this anymore because this is hopeless.

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