Posted July 17, 2020 @Preety_India You are such a sweetheart.... Hugs, hugs, hugs. "All that we know is limited, something we don't - is infinite" Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 17, 2020 @Galyna you too. INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues Cleared out ignore list today. .. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 17, 2020 @Galyna don't worry, there's not a single Leo, Leo's like me can compensate for hotness of the female with other qualities, so girls have a chance on us? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 17, 2020 @Amit you're funny "All that we know is limited, something we don't - is infinite" Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 17, 2020 Some women have toxic views on men. Some men have toxic views on women. Consciousness should change that but it doesn't. Sometimes true spirituality is like a gem, created but not acquired. Flip the coin, whichever side is up, doesn't matter, it is still the same coin. INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues Cleared out ignore list today. .. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 17, 2020 Hot Emotionally Unavailability Matrix - a woman's guide to men @Leo Gura @Moon @Kailash Bhattarai Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 17, 2020 56 minutes ago, Etherial Cat said: I don't see the point in sleeping around with hot bodies if their essence don't resonate with mine. A) If you were a guy, you'd see the point. B) I never said the two were mutually exclusive. You are God. You are Truth. You are Love. You are Infinity. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 17, 2020 @Natasha hahahahhaah. I like the prince Charming zone.. INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues Cleared out ignore list today. .. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 17, 2020 9 minutes ago, Natasha said: Hot Emotionally Unavailability Matrix - a woman's guide to men @Leo Gura @Moon @Kailash Bhattarai She seems bitter. Definitely a crazy one The difference is, women are actively attracted to emotionally unavailable guys whereas guys are attracted to hotness. So the axes are reversed. You are God. You are Truth. You are Love. You are Infinity. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 (edited) @Leo Gura but she is hot. Leo go chase her. She is perfect for you. All you have to do is act emotionally unavailable to her and she will call you her prince Charming on her chart. Edited July 18, 2020 by Preety_India INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues Cleared out ignore list today. .. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 2 minutes ago, Preety_India said: @Natasha hahahahhaah. I like the prince Charming zone.. Check out Hot Crazy Matrix for men too, I posted it in this tread yesterday. Funny too Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 @Natasha ? INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues Cleared out ignore list today. .. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 8 minutes ago, Leo Gura said: The difference is, women are actively attracted to emotionally unavailable guys whereas guys are attracted to hotness. So the axes are reversed. Yep, it's all about power, status and emotional unavailability. This picture... *whew!* My Youtube Channel- Light on Earth “We dance round in a ring and suppose, but the Secret sits in the middle and knows.”― Robert Frost Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 @mandyjw Just now, mandyjw said: Yep, it's all about power, status and emotional unavailability. This picture... *whew!* INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues Cleared out ignore list today. .. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 18 hours ago, Gili Trawangan said: What, you should spend your whole life meditating? Have some fun once in a while! Self reflection is not only meditation. I’m talking about just being alone with your thoughts. That way, there will always be some percentage of your attention directed inwards. This is self reflection. The time spent alone in your inner world is far, far more valuable than time spent outwards, with no attention to your mind. There should always be some attention to your mind, even if you’re not meditating. That can only happen if you’re alone. 3 hours ago, Consilience said: Interacting with women has given me loads of self reflection. Women will test your emotional mastery like no other. Can you go up to a super attractive female and keep a conversation going without getting flustered? To dissolve the ego, you need to direct attention inwards. You can’t do that if you’re conversing with someone. You need to be alone, preferably for as long as possible, even if you’re not meditating. "Not believing your own thoughts, you’re free from the primal desire: the thought that reality should be different than it is. You realise the wordless, the unthinkable. You understand that any mystery is only what you yourself have created. In fact, there’s no mystery. Everything is as clear as day. It’s simple, because there really isn’t anything. There’s only the story appearing now. And not even that.” — Byron Katie Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 @mandyjw Trump looks like a cossack here, LMAO "All that we know is limited, something we don't - is infinite" Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 1 hour ago, Leo Gura said: She seems bitter. Definitely a crazy one The difference is, women are actively attracted to emotionally unavailable guys whereas guys are attracted to hotness. So the axes are reversed. From what I see girls are attracted to grounded and determined men, not avoidant men, unless these women are dysfunctional. So how would it be possible for a man to get a girlfriend if he had to be constantly unavailable? The best couples are the ones where both are emotionally open. Inquire in the now. Feeling is the truest knowing ?️ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 25 minutes ago, billiesimon said: So how would it be possible for a man to get a girlfriend if he had to be constantly unavailable? It's very important to distinguish between attraction vs relationship. A relationship of course requires emotional availability. But that's NOT what women are attracted to. You are God. You are Truth. You are Love. You are Infinity. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 1 minute ago, Leo Gura said: It's very important to distinguish between attraction vs relationship. Yes, you can't "sell yourself" into a relationship. But if you act unavailable and you are an ungrounded and directionless guy, you will get no women. They are attracted to the masculine polarity of direction and confidence, not the emotional avoidance. Emotional avoidance is not value, just dysfunction. Value = masculine energy/willpower/direction. There are a lot of PUAs who play "direct game" and show absolute authentic interest in the woman, they even ask for instant dates, and they have massive success. There's no evolutionary reason to be attracted to avoidant behaviour, since you can be totally avoidant but weak and non-confident at the same time I was totally emotionally unavailable in high school and no girl wanted me. Because I was not confident and not determined in interacting with them. But that's just my 2 cents. Inquire in the now. Feeling is the truest knowing ?️ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 Quote describe your PERFECT woman I've been thinking about this as I got out of my last relationship. Few things come to mind for a long term partner: Personality compatibility - a partner has to be of a complementary personality type. The cognitive function stack has to be reversed - polar opposite. That way, there is more attraction, and the strengths of one can cover the weaknesses of another. (In Socionics its called a "Dual" relationship) Level of consciousness - there's no measuring stick for that, but you can usually sense how conscious a person is. Even if personalities don't match, the consciousness level alone can establish a good relationship. This includes Spyral Dynamics as well, the same stage will mean the same goals, interests, etc. Feminine / Masculine polarity - I think this one is pretty big for sexual intimacy. Even with a matching personality and level of consciousness, no sexual attraction will happen if both are in their masculine or feminine. I know looks suppose to be a big thing for guys, but I didn't even put it on the list. It's important to an extent, but I'd take a 6 that will match me on those 3, rather than a 9 any day. "Beyond fear, destiny awaits" - Dune Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
