Posted July 18, 2020 Just now, Gesundheit said: 99% of males, and a less percentage of females. And a lot of them demonize porn and tell others to quit. Only if they could lead by example the whole industry would have collapsed ages ago lol. At least some people are being honest about it. There's no shame in living life. Yes and I am being honest. I used to watch porn back in it's prime (2014-2016). But honestly I just outgrew it. It's ok to watch a little bit here and there if you are horny.. But don't let that be your sexual outlet. You should strive for mating a real partner not some pixels on a screen.. Ofcourse I'm not saying it's right or wrong.. Who am I to judge? .. But come on.. as a grown ass man who wants to be serious about relationships you shouldn't be a porn dude anymore. "life is not a problem to be solved ..its a mystery to be lived " -Osho Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 @Someone here Well my take on blonds is if someone fakes the color of their hair, what else do they fake. As you know 99% of blonds die their hair just to be appealing sexually. Screams shallow, vain, and inauthentic, aka low self esteem. If that's the only kind of women you're attracted to, perhaps there some shadows that need to be addressed. Just sain Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 5 hours ago, Someone here said: A guy wants a sexy body.. A girl wants a sexy personality.. Yessssss!!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 2 minutes ago, Someone here said: You should strive for mating a real partner not some pixels on a screen.. But come on.. as a grown ass man who wants to be serious about relationships you shouldn't be a porn dude anymore. I'm not pro or against, but seriously why? “If you have no confidence in yourself, you are twice defeated in the race of life. But with confidence you have won, even before you start.” -- Marcus Garvey Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 @Meta-Man She would look better without the blonde. Lacks contrast. You are God. You are Truth. You are Love. You are Infinity. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 4 minutes ago, Natasha said: @Someone here Well my take on blonds is if someone fakes the color of their hair, what else do they fake. As you know 99% of blonds die their hair just to be appealing sexually. Screams shallow, vain, and inauthentic, aka low self esteem. If that's the only l kind of women you're attracted to, perhaps there some shadows that need to be addressed. Just sain No.. A guy who doesn't like blondes is the one who has some shadows that needs to be addressed lol jk. Seriously tho..I'm not saying that to provoke women who are not blondes.. I'm just being honest. It's something from my childhood and puberty.. Immediately I got attracted to blonde models who I saw in magazines or wherever else.. "life is not a problem to be solved ..its a mystery to be lived " -Osho Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 (edited) 7 minutes ago, Someone here said: Immediately I got attracted to blonde models who I saw in magazines or wherever else.. How are you gonna commit to your blonde wife with millions of other blondes out there? If she's wise enough to marry you in the first place lol jk Edited July 18, 2020 by Gesundheit “If you have no confidence in yourself, you are twice defeated in the race of life. But with confidence you have won, even before you start.” -- Marcus Garvey Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 1 minute ago, Meta-Man said: Harsh! For me beautiful women come in different shapes and colors. Like hot girls with buzzcuts ? Blondes overrated, perhaps. But you call this bad aesthetics brother? Oh shit! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 @Meta-Man Fake boobs, fake hair color, fake lips, fake nails, fake smile. And almost positive deep inside she resents being viewed and treated like an object. Where's the real woman? Wow how sexy lol Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 (edited) @Gesundheit 16 minutes ago, Gesundheit said: I'm not pro or against, but seriously why? Look I'm smart enough to not get into this debate.. It's so easy to make a case why you should be watching porn.. "it feels good DUH done bye bye".. But it takes intelligence and maturity to see why you shouldn't be watching porn anymore as I said especially if you are no longer a horny teenager. Edited July 18, 2020 by Someone here "life is not a problem to be solved ..its a mystery to be lived " -Osho Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 Am I an actual object or not an object? If I get offended by other bodies and other bodies preferences for those bodies didn't I just objectify myself? Isn't everything kinda fake? I dunno. My Youtube Channel- Light on Earth “We dance round in a ring and suppose, but the Secret sits in the middle and knows.”― Robert Frost Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 6 minutes ago, Gesundheit said: How are you gonna commit to your blonde wife with millions of other blondes out there? If she's wise enough to marry you in the first place lol jk Maybe I should marry all blondes out there since you guys seem not interested in them lol... 18 minutes ago, Gesundheit said: "life is not a problem to be solved ..its a mystery to be lived " -Osho Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 @Someone here what are you talking about? I wanted to hear your perspective on why I or anyone else as 'grown ass men' should not be watching porn anymore. I didn't intend to create a debate. I simply asked a question. 7 minutes ago, Natasha said: @Meta-Man Fake boobs, fake hair color, fake smile. And almost positive deep inside she resents being viewed and treated like an object. Where's the real woman? Wow how sexy lol Thank you for destroying the illusion “If you have no confidence in yourself, you are twice defeated in the race of life. But with confidence you have won, even before you start.” -- Marcus Garvey Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 1 minute ago, Gesundheit said: what are you talking about? I wanted to hear your perspective on why I or anyone else as 'grown ass men' should not be watching porn anymore. I didn't intend to create a debate. I simply asked a question. Well one of the reasons is you will feel sexually satisfied by watching porn and you won't feel motivated or hungry to seek making a family or having real partners.. It's relative to that I should say. If you don't care about that or you can balance it out and connect with real women while at the same time consuming porn.. Fine go for it.. I can't tell you what you should or should not do. "life is not a problem to be solved ..its a mystery to be lived " -Osho Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 2 minutes ago, Gesundheit said: Thank you for destroying the illusion Your photoreceptors in your eyes are translating the light from your computer screen into electrical signals going from your eyes into your brain. Super exciting. Everything else is your imagination. Oh wait, the pixels, screen and photoreceptors are just imagination too. Your welcome. My Youtube Channel- Light on Earth “We dance round in a ring and suppose, but the Secret sits in the middle and knows.”― Robert Frost Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 6 minutes ago, mandyjw said: Am I an actual object or not an object? "An actual object" is a concept. 7 minutes ago, mandyjw said: If I get offended by other bodies and other bodies preferences for those bodies didn't I just objectify myself? Taking compliments and enjoying them also objectifieses us. Poor little humans. 9 minutes ago, mandyjw said: Isn't everything kinda fake? I dunno. “If you have no confidence in yourself, you are twice defeated in the race of life. But with confidence you have won, even before you start.” -- Marcus Garvey Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 3 minutes ago, Meta-Man said: Boobs look real, smile looks fake, hair dyed too hard You call those watermelons real boobs? No girl with her body structure can grow those. Besides, she's a model, in that industry you're told how to look to get paid. So she's not even self-made, she's other-made. Again, wow how authentic and sexy Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 2 minutes ago, mandyjw said: Your photoreceptors in your eyes are translating the light from your computer screen into electrical signals going from your eyes into your brain. Super exciting. Everything else is your imagination. Oh wait, the pixels, screen and photoreceptors are just imagination too. Your welcome. “If you have no confidence in yourself, you are twice defeated in the race of life. But with confidence you have won, even before you start.” -- Marcus Garvey Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 6 minutes ago, Someone here said: Well one of the reasons is you will feel sexually satisfied by watching porn and you won't feel motivated or hungry to seek making a family or having real partners.. It's relative to that I should say. If you don't care about that or you can balance it out and connect with real women while at the same time consuming porn.. Fine go for it.. I can't tell you what you should or should not do. Thanks. That makes a lot of sense to me. “If you have no confidence in yourself, you are twice defeated in the race of life. But with confidence you have won, even before you start.” -- Marcus Garvey Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 1 minute ago, Gesundheit said: "An actual object" is a concept. Taking compliments and enjoying them also objectifieses us. Poor little humans. I dunno. My Youtube Channel- Light on Earth “We dance round in a ring and suppose, but the Secret sits in the middle and knows.”― Robert Frost Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
